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I'm 19, living in hawaii.

I've practiced many martial arts--it makes me tick. I am currently learning the art of tai chi.

I work at the child learning center and hospital, so i have some good backround when it comes to chit chat.

I hope to learn more about people as well as myself through dear cupid. Iv'e so far found that we are all alike and share many of the same problems. I'm glad everyones so supportive ^_^

I'm currently in a relationship.

Will this guy I like know I'm a virgin, when we do it for the first time?

Q.   hi i need some advice! im 17 and im a virgin but this lad im seeing doest know i am! i have done sexual things beofre but i have never gone the whole way lol will he know im a virgin when i have sex for the first time???? ...

A.   16 September 2006: depends how you act. Otherwise..physically...no most likely he wont know. But possible.... (read in full...)

My parents call me a "child molester" for having a girlfriend who's three years younger!

Q.   I'm 18 dating a girl who just turned 16. I'm in college and shes a junior in high school. My parents would not a approve of me having anything to do with someone younger than me, there very strict. I will be 19 soon in december ( about a 3 year ...

A.   12 September 2006: age gap between my parents is 2 years.... (read in full...)

I told my BF of 3 years I don't enjoy sex with him and now he doesn't want to have sex with me!

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and we love each other very much. Our sex life used to be amazing, well, i thought it was. We used to sleep together i'd say about 8-10 times a week. But recently, I bought myself a Rabbit. You see the ...

A.   12 September 2006:  It was probably really hard for him to take the fact that you said that you dont enjoy sex with him.....that can really hurt...a mans self esteem. It's probably be best to apologize to him and make some romantic dinner make up...and then go for it ... (read in full...)

I want to date him, but my friends make rude remarks because he is seven years older

Q.   Hi guys! I've got a problem, was wondering if you had any advice. (Which I guess is obvious, since I came to this site). Well, I am seventeen. For two years I've been great friends with a guy who is seven years older than I. Nothing has ever h...

A.   12 September 2006:  He's alot older than you are and besides having feelings or thing in common, Where are you both in life? If he's in college or already out and your just starting...the difference believe it or not is far greater than 7 years. If anything make sure ... (read in full...)

We just aren't like the couple I went away with on a trip with - should I end it with my BF?

Q.   I've been going out with a guy for almost 5 months, and we've done so much and been through alot together. The relationship has made me happy, don't get me wrong, but i just got back from a weekend trip where i stayed with 4 of my friends (myself, 2 ...

A.   12 September 2006: The grass is always greener on the otherside syndrome. Make sure you don't compare you relationship to others. Make sure you don't compare your boyfriend with any other fish in the sea.....Ofcourse theres always better. ofcourse theres always ... (read in full...)

Should I just leave my "porn pig" partner and get on with my life?

Q.   My husband and I have been together 8 years we have children.. On several occasions I have caught him with porn, each time he promises me he will stop but eventually he turns back to it... I am well eduacted, atractive and our sex life is good. I ...

A.   12 September 2006: Keep in mind the Pros and Cons of porn, research it so you know what your dealing with here. It's not that he's a porn pig, but instead more or so that he is simply addicted to it. LIKE A DRUG if not worse, the addictive effects of porn are nearly ... (read in full...)

How can I make me boyfriend appreciate me?

Q.   Heya I just want advice on how I can get my boyfriend running after me like that hes lucky to have me and that he can't treat me like sh*t and think i will still love him. What things can i do? thanks...

A.   12 September 2006:  --Being a boy-- .Take this to heart. If you want him to want you. Then you gotta not want him. Be independent. The single attitude. Like you don't need him and hes just a damn sidedish for yuh. If he still treats yuh like ... (read in full...)

Would it be silly to leave my husband over his use of porn ?

Q.   Is it silly to leave my husband over porn? I feel a bit foolish but cant accept the fact he enjoys looking at other womens bodies. I feel like I am a beautiful woman so why should he want to see any other female naked. It hurts my pride and I th...

A.   12 September 2006:  Don't leave him. Consider porn--A drug. IF NOT WORSE. He needs help- Talk to him about it--Its--an--addiction.... (read in full...)

I'm married but I have a crush on a guy at work...Help!!!

Q.   Please excuse the fact that this is rather long but i really need to get this out of my system. 6 months ago our manager brought this new guy around the office to do intros etc. From the moment we shook hands, something happened, he said that he ...

A.   12 September 2006:  If your marriage was amazing (made you melt) as it once did i'm sure---you'd have no or not as much interest in the new guy or in general guys at work...If anything...I'd suggest you try to steam up your marriage a bit before making any drastic ... (read in full...)

My 60 year old man looks at porn even though he has me, a young woman, with him!

Q.   I just wondering if somebody can tell me, why for heavens sake, that the very, very old 60 year old man still always wants to look at naked woman pictures and watch sex videos when he has a young woman beside him! He always say he loves her so much!...

A.   12 September 2006:  First of all, you have to understand that pornagraphic material is an addictive drug if not worse. It's nearly impossible for someone to quit without help even if he wants to. You shouldn't be jealous or feel as if your not good enough or dont ... (read in full...)

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