Why won't my boyfriend touch me?
Q. I'm 22 and my boyfriend is 18. I've been with him for 6 months, and I'm completely in love with him. He's my first "real" relationship, as in the first that didn't revolve around sex. He cooks for me all the time, he keeps me entertained every ...
A. 4 January 2010: He might be holding out for religious views.... (read in full...)
He loves someone else but isn't going to do anything about it?
Q. ok i need some advice. my boyfriend and i have been going out with each other for four years, about six months ago he told me that he loved somebody else but he wasn't going to do anything about it. it took awhile but i'd thought that we had worked ...
A. 4 January 2010: I have a friend, a girl, who is in the exact same situation as you, except she is 36 and now a single mom, because the guy cant commit and grow up to be a husband and a father. These are ADULTS! I would not wait for him. He will take the milk for ... (read in full...)
Should I give my ex who cheated a chance again?
Q. Ok so its been over a year and I have met a new guy but we are only really good friends right and we are super close, but I find my self thinking about my old boyfriend that I dated for two years and we resently broke up during last summer, and now ...
A. 4 January 2010: The new guy. Or, better yet, take a break from ALL guys and figure out what your standards for a guy are. It worries me you would consider going back to a playa. You need higher standards, gurl.... (read in full...)
Was it my hymen breaking that caused the bleeding?
Q. I'm 13 years old and have been worrying for a while. In In September I was playing w/ myself, and was fingering myself. At 1 point I took advice from a friend and tried using a marker. I don't remember any particular pain that night. The next day, I ...
A. 4 January 2010: Very likely from your description it was your period, and most girls dont start and stay regular at first. But the best answer is, tell your mom your concerns. She was your age once too, and did all the things you are trying now, most likely. She ... (read in full...)
I have trust issues so how can I let him know I just want his friendship?
Q. Alright, I have a serious problem. Well, it's very serious to me - I'm sixteen and I'm kind of into a younger guy. He's fourteen and seems to think that after I hold his hand I want to kiss him. That's not the case at all, and I don't want to seem ...
A. 4 January 2010: You are two years apart. Boy in genera mature later than girls. Its not the age, its the gender. This boy is not right for you and you know it. End it with a DTR (Define The Relationship) meeting with him. Be clear, be firm, and get it over with. Do ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is addicted to Second Life and it's becoming too real for him!
Q. My boyfriend is addicted to Second Life. He is on there constantly. He has a job in there , he is also a woman in there. He is obsessed with this to the point now he just has to be there. He talks about it always. At first he was worried about how i ...
A. 4 January 2010: Oops! Computer just "accidentally" broke. ...Seriously, it might be time for an intervention in real life, or one in 2nd life. Maybe become a character in there and win his friendship, and tell him that way, that this is how much he is ignoring you, ... (read in full...)
My ex's new girlfriend is a wanna-be-replica of me!
Q. Is it just me or is it creepy? My ex-boyfriend and i broke up about a year ago. It was my choice and a good choice, however after casually running into him a few times I met his new girlfriend...who really reminds me of...me. Not in a good sense at ...
A. 4 January 2010: He is rebounding, still not over you. Go live your life and let him wallow in his loss. You are the better person. I'd only worry if he was stalking you.... (read in full...)
Should I wait until they break up to tell her how I feel?
Q. Ok well I liked this one girl since spring and we always had this line we said to each other because in track we were both good at stuff and we'd watch each other and say one up. Well when i was going to finally ask her out she walked up and told me ...
A. 4 January 2010: Should have told her back then. Just go tell her as soon as you can. Dont waitfor the rebound. Even if you dont get the answer you were hoping for, at least you will know the truth, and the truth is always better than a lie. Good luck.... (read in full...)
Does helping each other masturbate make us gay?
Q. My friend says that helping each other masturabate is gay. Is this true? Please help...
A. 4 January 2010: Not gay, just experimenting at your age. As long as you are both within three years of each other, you are just growing up and trying out your sexuality. If your friend is much older (3 or more years), that is statutory rape and you should run run ... (read in full...)
Pregnant with two possible fathers...
Q. I am pregnant and I dont know who the father is. I have been sleeping with 2 guys for the last 3 months. I have never been so reckless. however I believe that this neglegent behavior was more of a defense mechanism to prevent gettingin an emotional ...
A. 4 January 2010: The real father is the one who wants to raise the child, even if its the other guys kid. You had fun, now you have to be mom and I'd go for the first guy, regardless of genetics. The other guy is not an option since he wants an abortion and thats ... (read in full...)
Since the LDR started, our roles have reversed
Q. I am in a long distance relationship and have been for about 4 months. obviously it is really difficult but I am starting to wonder if my boyfriend is losing interest in me. we dated for 7 months before we started being long distance. i really love ...
A. 4 January 2010: From what you write ~ Specifically the "you deserve better" statement you say he says, leads me to believe he may be losing interest. You have a ring, so, what about a 'test'? Ask for the date to get married! His initial response to that question ... (read in full...)
How do I tell fiance I want to wait a year now to marry?
Q. Hello: I have been engaged for 2 months now my fiance and I have dated 4months lived together a month okay there are things that he is doing that has started to bother me he is a very easy person and he lets people use his car I ...
A. 4 January 2010: Be honest with him. You have a special needs child for the rest of your life to raise ~ and you don't need a second child, especially what sounds like a man-child by your description. WAIT. MAKE SURE. Good luck.... (read in full...)
Should I be with my boyfriend or the man I think I still love?
Q. Hi All, Okay, well this guy Matt is amazing, he's kind and honest and passionate. I really feel alot for him, but there are alot of things holding me back. He is 5 years older than me (23 and i'm 18), lives in London and I have just moved to Un...
A. 4 January 2010: If you are at all unsure about any relationship with guy one about distance and age, or guy too for rushing it, you need to take a break and find out who YOU are dearie, and what kind of guy YOU want, not what kind of guy comes along. Take a ... (read in full...)
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