He has Erectile Dysfunction and I am not sure if this is something I can cope with long term
Q. I'm 43, divorced and I've been on the dating scene for 6 years. I started dating this guy a couple of months ago. For the first time since i've been single again, I feel like I found a true match and things were going great. But we are having a ...
A. 6 January 2010: I have difficulties with ED that is a side effect from medication that I take. I have dealt with this issue with two different women: the first, who thought it was her fault, so to protect herself, she belittled me about the problem and needless to ... (read in full...)
Pregnant and alone again...Should I abort? will I have regrets?
Q. I'm pregnant and very depressed. Its very hard for anyone to understand what I'm going through. I already have a 17 year old son which I raised alone which was damn hard and now I'm pregnant again and I'm alone again. I'm starting all over again ...
A. 14 December 2009: I think it's time for some reality here. You say you have a 17 year old son that you had to raise alone. You can chalk that one up to being young, not knowing the ways of the world, etc. I'm sure it was extremely difficult for you to raise your son ... (read in full...)
How can I accept that I can never be hot for my b/f?
Q. I'm not a hot and sexy female. I know this because ever since I hit puberty, I've lacked the attention my friends got. Then I got a boyfriend, and I felt secure... until time passed, we started getting more comfortable with each other and I started ...
A. 10 December 2009: A lot of times being "hot" and sexy is more than just your looks, it also encompasses the attitude you project. Sure, everyone would like to improve some aspect of their physical appearance, but for the most part, we have to use what we got. Also, ... (read in full...)
Why do people hate virgins so much?
Q. Why do people hate virgins so much? What did we ever do to be treated the way we are? It just isn't right.I never criticize my friends decision to have sex,so why cant they just respect my choices.It's not as if I'm some kind of saint constantly ...
A. 9 December 2009: I think it has a lot to do with your own and others' expectations of what it is to be a "man." A "man" (as society may conceptualize it) sows his wild oats when he is young and beds down with a lot of young attractive women who fawn all over him and ... (read in full...)
What does he mean by 'you have to be more discreet'?
Q. I am married but I also have a guy friend at work who is also married. We both aren't happy in our marriage but neither of us is willing to give up on it yet. We have been exchanging favors if you know what I mean. But it's just what I said it is ...
A. 20 November 2009: It just means he wants to continue to use you for sex in secrecy until the crap hits the fan, which it will eventually.... (read in full...)
My girlfriend dated celebrities and I'm not sure what to make of it
Q. I met my girlfriend 5 months ago in a nightclub through a friend. We got chatting and after an hour I got her number and arranged to meet her at her place to watch a movie. I was busy with work and didnt call. I saw her in the same club a week later ...
A. 20 November 2009: Sounds like she's giving off plenty of red flags (the "past" lifestyle, partying, cocaine use). I would be wary, and cautious. There might be a better woman out there to settle down with.... (read in full...)
I lost my erection, now she thinks I'm not attracted her!
Q. Hi, I have a bit of a problem. Last night while in bed with my girlfriend, she started trying to arouse me. It worked, I got an erection and everything, but then we had some trouble with penetration. She was on top, and after a minute of her ...
A. 23 October 2009: My experience is that some women take it personally, thinking that they did something wrong, and that they are unattractive, even saying some degrading things to the man because their ego is damaged. The lower the woman's self-esteem, the harder ... (read in full...)
Am I being selfish for doing what I am doing and hoping she gets caught?
Q. I still need Advice. Back in December of 2008 I reconnected with my high school sweetheart. We have not had contact since 1993. I was browsing around on Facebook and found her. I thought that it would be nice to catch up on old times with her. ...
A. 22 October 2009: The first thing that popped into my mind was "Would you really want to be involved with a woman who is so flaky and can't decide which man she wants to be with?" Evidently she is playing both hands simultaneously, and she is getting something from ... (read in full...)
Wanting to be with the love of my life.......a married man who won't leave his wife....
Q. I am 29 years old and I am so much in love with a 40 year old married man. This has been going on and off for 3 years. He is in love with me as well but he has a problem with starting a future with me. He does not want to start over --- house, ...
A. 3 April 2009: Get out while you still have the chance...... (read in full...)
Why does he want me to meet an ex friend that he'd been screwing?
Q. When my boyfriend had been married, he had what he said was a brief affair. That is not the reason for divorce as his wife never found out. Anyway, I've been with my BF for about 10 months and we are going on vacation in April. He decided to ...
A. 31 March 2009: I don't think you are being unreasonable. My gf kept telling me about this friend of hers who was a "great guy", she's "really good friends with him", "he sends me text pictures of his new kid", "my kid and his kids would hang out and play ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is jealous of my sexual past and is becoming verbally abusive. Will he ever get over this?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years now and we're great, no problems except for one which is big and is starting to make me go insane. I don't know how much longer we will last if we cant get this sorted. So the problem is that he is very jea...
A. 28 January 2009: I agree with the post from anonymous on 9/11/08 (an eerie date, btw for the posts). I am in a very similar situation, me being the man who has the problem with the sexual past of my gf. Anonymous, you summed up how I feel very eloquently about... (read in full...)
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