Why is my married coworker so hot and cold with me?
Q. After 8 months, I finally returned to the place I used to work. The last time I was there, I became good friends with a man, let's call him Mike. Mike pretty much taught me everything I knew when I first started the job. He is about 10 years older ...
A. 18 August 2014: Question: Why are you up on a married man like that?
Find someone who is single. He is probably hot and cold cause he is attracted to you sexually but trying to be good. Step back, what comes around goes around comes around. ... (read in full...)
I told my porn-addicted fiance that if he looked at porn again, I'm done. I'm now 37 weeks pregnant and guess what?
Q. My now fiance had a porn addiction he was even looking at it at work. I basically told him if you do it again i'm done, this was over a year ago and i never caught him looking at it until now. I'm 37 weeks pregnant I looked at his phone history last ...
A. 18 July 2014: I understand how you feel, but I think you need get over it. 99.99999999999 percent of men look at porn. Really. If you want a partner who doesn't look at porn, I suggest you become a lesbian. ... (read in full...)
My husband prefers masturbating to porn to making love with me!
Q. We have been married for 3 years for the last two years or more my husband has had a very low sex drive so i thought, he went to the doc 2 years ago who put him on testosterone which really didnt improve anything he started blaming his issues on his ...
A. 14 May 2014: This has got to be hard on you, I am so sorry. You deserve to feel loved, valued, and desirable.
Wondering, what is he like as a husband aside from the sex?... (read in full...)
How best to end this friendship?
Q. Had a friend, known for 7 years. Freelance work, so understand that occasionally things crop up and she had to cancel arranged lunches, but it got to the point where it was almost constant. Used to spend long emails sorting out her problems ...
A. 25 June 2013: If you are in fact done being friends with her, just keep it light and tell her you are busy. Be polite, you don't need to revisit anything or re-hash, just say that although you would like to see her at the moment you have no free time. It's... (read in full...)
How do I stop being a pushover?
Q. Im not getting anywhere + anything I want in life. In other words, I can honestly say that I am probably a bit of a pushover - even in the eyes of others. This needs to change. For example, the other day at work, one of the managers said to...
A. 11 May 2013: I had this problem too. What I found it boiled down to for me, was that I did not have confidence/love/respect for myself so I was looking for others approval.
So, I stared to work on this issue by reading books on building self-esteem, co-depen... (read in full...)
Should I contact an ex who hurt me for answers and possibly to get him back
Q. I was in a 1 and a half relationship and ended it last year March because my boyfriend was behaving badly He was flirting with other women. I expressed my distaste with this behavior and suspected that he was doing more than flirting with two other ...
A. 7 May 2013: You said this: But I have facts now to believe he has changed and turned a new leaf. He is acting like the serious responsible man I've always wanted him to be. Maybe he did sure need more time and I did not give it to him. Why should I have work... (read in full...)
I always end up paying for my fiancee!
Q. im always ending up paying for my fiancee,we r together for 8 months and i know he loves me and i love him too,but this is just making me sad.he is financially irresponsible and he earns almost 3 times more than me but cant even make it to his ...
A. 7 May 2013: Set the boundary, bottom line. Tell him it's bothering you, and this is your new boundary.
Also, if he is giving you a gift, and making you feel like you owe him...this is not a gift.
I have to agree with So_Very_Confused, why are you enga... (read in full...)
His controlling female friend is damaging our marriage
Q. Hmm...I have thought about this issue for many many months but this is the first time I have written it down to try and talk about it...It's such a mess I almost don't know where to begin. My husband and I have this friend..well..he has this ...
A. 7 May 2013: Unbelievable. I was in shocking reading your post. I am very sorry that this is happening in your life. I hope what I am about to say to you is not taken as too harsh, I really just think that no person deserves to be treated the way you have bee... (read in full...)
Is she taking me for a ride? Does she want the best of both worlds?
Q. Me and this girl have been sleeping together for about 6 months now... She has a gf, she says she's only with her as it's easier to stay with her and then break up with her when she leaves for travelling in a few months. She says things would be ...
A. 7 May 2013: I think she wants exactly what you said, the best of both worlds.
If she was really into you, and ready for real love, she would be out the door on her old relationship. She wouldn't be waiting for blah, or blah, or blah. Period.
And I wonder,... (read in full...)
We'e only seen each other once and when I talk about seeing each other he gets mad!
Q. A year ago I met my boyfriend through my friend who lives in Texas. I have only met him once. Every time we talk he says he loves me and misses me and he can't wait till he gets to see me again but every time I bring up him visiting me up here or me ...
A. 6 May 2013: I am going to have to say that I agree with the posting above. Sounds like you are in a fantasy. You may want to look at the underlying issue here.
Move on, because he's done, and you deserve better.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has a crush, but it isn't on me!
Q. my bf of 8yrs has a crush. He hasnt told me but he wont stop singing the praises of a girl in his pub. His friends joke that he is in love with her (ha ha). ive noticed he gazes at her even when im there. she is apparently not into him. do i stay ...
A. 6 May 2013: You need to re-evaluate why you are in this relationship. How would your b-friend feel if the shoe was on the other foot and you were talking highly about another guy, and your g-friends were saying you were in love.
I'd say, you should really t... (read in full...)
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