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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Me and this girl have been sleeping together for about 6 months now... She has a gf, she says she's only with her as it's easier to stay with her and then break up with her when she leaves for travelling in a few months. She says things would be different with us if she wasn't leaving... For me it was a bit of fun, but I've darted to have feelings for her, she has admitted that she feels the same, so we have tried to stay away from each other to make it easier...but it seems that when we do see each other it always ends up with us getting very close. Am I being taken for a ride? Does she just want the best of both worlds? I want to stop it, but my feelings keep taking over... Would it be best if we just stopped seeing each other and talking? Reply to this Question
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reader, finalmailings  +, writes (7 May 2013):
 I think she wants exactly what you said, the best of both worlds.
If she was really into you, and ready for real love, she would be out the door on her old relationship. She wouldn't be waiting for blah, or blah, or blah. Period.
And I wonder, why do you want to be in a relationship with someone who is cheating on their partner. She sounds like a bad catch, and you deserve better.
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