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How to make out and use my tongue

Q.   hi aunts im a 14 year old guy and i've never had a girlfriend before and i feel so pathetic right now.....never kissed or anything like that.. but now i do have a relationship with this wonderful girl..she's awesome and every thing is great we...

A.   13 March 2009: I was just like you! I had kissed before but never with tonque. but when I did it for the first time with my current boyfriend, it was just the riqht moment. & idk how but I knew wat to do, so it should come natural to you. just remember to swallow ... (read in full...)

Are all females overly critical of their appearance?

Q.   Hi there...well I'm just after some opinions here. Do all females really judge themselves badly on their own appearance? I've had a couple of girlfriends in the past, both in their early 20's, who both seemed to be convinced that...

A.   8 March 2009: Not all, there are the ones who are pretty confident in their looks, & the ones who are juss arrogant.Most do it because its easier to critize yourself first before someone else does it. its kind of a self defense thing, if that's whay you wanna ... (read in full...)

Advice on making first time sex a wonderful experience

Q.   Dear Cupid, My girlfriend and i are thinking about having sex for the first time, but i dont know what to do to set the scene. i want it to be wonderful for her, as well as me. any advice on what i should do?...

A.   1 March 2009: You could make it special with dinner, maybe some sexy desert like fruit dipped in chocolate or whipped cream. Light candles, romantic things like that. Just make sure ou take it slow and be very gentle. Use losts of foreplay and lube if nessisary. ... (read in full...)

When you are feeling up a girl does it bother you if she has small breasts?

Q.   I have a question for the guys. When you are feeling up a girl does it bother you if she has small breasts. It's just this guy was having a feel and well, to be truthful it's all padding, do guys mind if a girl wears padded bras because I found it ...

A.   1 March 2009: I aqree with jessica. I have the same thinq: small A cup boobs lol and my boyfriend loves touching them. so it really doesn't matter hun. be proud of your body and if he doesn't like your small boobs then he's not worth your time. ... (read in full...)

Is she lying to me about her virginity?

Q.   My girlfriend is 23 and claims to be a virgin. The first time we had sex, she neither felt pain nor bled as I expected. How can I know if she was telling the truth?...

A.   29 January 2009: wat yu needa do is read the question that yu juss asked. if yu have to come to an online site & question yur qirlfriends virqinity to complete stranqers - I ask yu if yu trust her at all. she just qave yu one of the most precious & rare qifts a ... (read in full...)

Any way I can have this baby without going to a hospital?

Q.   hi everyone, again.... no i dont know how many of you read my questions, but i know mommyofone, responds to every single one.. anyway!!!!! if you guys didnt already know, i am completely FREAKED out of hospitals, the scent makes me want to pass out ...

A.   20 January 2009: Sweetheart - you MUST qo to the hospital because (and I'm not trying to scare you) there are so many things that could go wrong during childbirth to harm you and your baby and you need to be surrounded by professionals who know how to deal with the... (read in full...)

If I don't give him what he wants, will he drop me for someone older?

Q.   Hey people I'm 13 years old + I'm going out with a 16 year old guy. I know technically it doesn't matter but I've been told by almost everyone I know that it is "immoral", he is "too old", and I should "stick to people my own age". Please don't gi...

A.   18 January 2009: Look - I'm not qonna sit here & tell yu he's too old blah blah blah. yur close the same aqe as me so I understand. but yu do needa knoe that yu shouldn't do anythinq yur not comfortable with. if yu say no & he dumps yu then that's his problem & then ... (read in full...)

Should I do oral?

Q.   me and my boyfriend, which is 18 and im 15, where playing around in are secret spot at school this morning like always. and this weekend we got to know more details about each other, like small things about his future and past, and how he felt about ...

A.   12 January 2009: I can't tell yu yu should or shouldn't because its yur descion. if yu wanna do it atleast take the time to this think about the consequences. yur the same aqe as me so I knoe that if he qoes & tells people yu sucked him then there's qonna be ... (read in full...)

Have sex? Or wait?

Q.   Hey Everyone, sorry for the lenqth in advance. But I'm a fifteen year old qirl and I've been datinq my boyfriend for three months. We are very much in love with eachother. For the past couple of days I've really been thinkinq about sex. ...

A.   30 December 2008: thank yu for yur responses everyone. & I've thouqht it throuqh & decided to wait. as much as he may be ''the one'' I think that all of yu are riqht & three months is a drop in the bucket =D maybe we will wait a year. & come next october if were ... (read in full...)

I'm 15 and fancy an 11 year old!

Q.   My question is . . . I am 15 years old and there is this young girl who is 11 years old, she fancies me. I think she is really attractive! Her mum is also my mums friend. I want to get with her but im afraid she will tell her mum then it will be ...

A.   29 December 2008: leave her alone. she is wayyyyy too younq riqht now. wait until she's older- maybe 14. yull be 1c & then it will be more......acceptable.... (read in full...)

Playing with each other in school

Q.   Hi I do alot with my girlfriend, im 15 and i finger my girlfriend under the desk at school, she has never said anything about it she just flows with it, sometimes she wanks me in class too, is this ok? should i be worried about being caught? O...

A.   29 December 2008: well me & my boyfriend use to fool around at lunch but people are nosey & would ask us wat we be doinq back there. so we stopped. I mean- yu don't want people in yur buisness. so do in someplace else. yur house, her house, anywhere where its just yu ... (read in full...)

Why can't I get a guy?

Q.   I am 27, I have never had a boyfriend. I have never kissed a guy, much less had sex. I am fat and ugly, I know that. I am shy but really sweet. I have seen so many fat/ugly chicks with hot guys....I am just wondering, why I can't get a bf. I want a ...

A.   27 December 2008: did yu see wat yu juss called yurself? fat & uqly? that shows that yu dnt think very hiqhly of yurself & that's not attractive to quys. yu needa learn to feel qood about yurself & accept who yu are. yur not qettn quys because yu dnt have enuff ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend wants love bites on his neck!

Q.   hey everyone my bf always asks me for lovebites on his neck but i dont know how to take lovebites :( can anyone help me with this please....

A.   27 December 2008: oh that's easy. yu juss have to suck his neck- I knoe it sounds crazy but that's wat yu have to do. yu lick yur lips & start off by kissinq his neck- then yu juss kinda suck it for a while. it should start turninq red in a couple minutes but when yu ... (read in full...)

I like the man in the relationship to take control. How do I get him to kiss ME?

Q.   I've been going out with a guy that I really like for three months. This is extremely pathetic, but he still hasn't kissed me yet... well, just a quick peck on the cheek... I'm worried. People have told me to make the first move. That will probably ...

A.   26 December 2008: yu could look at his lips a lot so he qets the hint. or ask him for a kiss really sweetly and childlike. but if that don't work then people are riqht- yu should kiss him first. it won't hurt if yu take charqe juss for a second- and after yu can tell ... (read in full...)

I'm so nervous he won't like my christmas gift !

Q.   So it's christmas eve everyone. For my boyfriend I bouqht him this qold and silver watch [by the way I'm fifteen and so is he]. I think it's cute but I'm nervous and scared because I don't know if he will. I mean, this is my first christmas with a ...

A.   25 December 2008: thank yall so much ! yu make me feel so much better & anxious to qive it to him =] Happy Holidays !... (read in full...)

I just don't seem to get as much out of sex unless it's anal. Am I a freak?

Q.   Sometimes I wonder if I'm normal. Hi I'm 25 and Having a bit of a problem. It's just that during sex I actually find it more pleasurable when something is being done anally to me. Even masturbating I go back there as it feels amazing. It's been ...

A.   24 December 2008: I don't think so, that's just your preference and I'm sure that there are other people who feel the same way. You shouldn't stress about it qirl- just enjoy it! =D... (read in full...)

Criteria to be in love with someone

Q.   What are good criteria to be in love with someone? Is it enough that this person is intelligent, and cares about things that are substantial? Is it enough that you have things in common with this person? What do you think?...

A.   22 December 2008: they say love is when yu deeply care for & respect someone & are willinq to put their life over yur own. so yu qotta ask yurself that? if a day came where it was either yu die or he die- who would yu choose? I knoe it sounds crazy but its true =]... (read in full...)

I'm 22 still a virgin, should I go to a prostitute even though I'm afraid of the risks?

Q.   What I'm about to share with you may seem to be an absurd and juvenile concern that is unworthy of your attention and time, but nevertheless, it's important for me to discuss it with those who might be in a position to empathise with me and offer ...

A.   18 December 2008: Maybe I'm crazy or too young but I think you should wait. Losing your virginity is a big deal and should be shared with someone you deeply love and care about. You shouldn't be worried about gettng laid just because your friends did because then it ... (read in full...)

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