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I just don't seem to get as much out of sex unless it's anal. Am I a freak?

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Question - (24 December 2008) 8 Answers - (Newest, 25 December 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Sometimes I wonder if I'm normal. Hi I'm 25 and Having a bit of a problem. It's just that during sex I actually find it more pleasurable when something is being done anally to me. Even masturbating I go back there as it feels amazing. It's been like this my whole life, when I've been with my various partners some of them women as I'm bi, I just don't seem to get as much out of it unless it's anal. Some of my boyfriends are willing enough I mean they're guys but some of my female partners think it's strange and one has actually broken up with me over it because sometimes normal sex whether with a girl or guy does nothing for me. Am I actually a freak. Is there something physically wrong with me?!! Please help!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (25 December 2008):

enjoy the booty luvin mamita.And yes a freak you are as we all are when sex is in the mix! So let those eyes roll back in your sockets and take it like a champ girl! So darn proud of you! You're gonna make a good wife some day!

Hi Ms. Pacman, Figured what the hell, one more thread for the road! this is your anon-nee-moss no name f(r)iend from Miami.

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A male reader, Arianz Bangladesh +, writes (25 December 2008):

Arianz agony auntYah...ur not freak...

Please don't worry about it.

Every persons has own style, position and pleasure receiving ways. SO u have ur own ways and style.

So find partner who like that same way u like.

I believe that...LIVE UR LIFE... LIKE U WANT....

So keep it up

take care

Arianz

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A female reader, 48years  +, writes (25 December 2008):

48years agony auntWhat? The best sex is vaginal-the anal gspot is MUCH less sensitive than the clitoris which has over 8,000 nerve endings. I wouldn't say you're a freak, I'd say you need to practice with a far more powerful erogenous zone...anal is great in addition to vaginal stimulation. But the clit is queen! Keep practicing!

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A male reader, a_decent_1 India +, writes (25 December 2008):

a_decent_1 agony auntFREAK? No... Thats your preference!!

Why would you call yourself abnormal? We all have different likings. Even I enjoy giving Anal!! So, it's just what we like. You're Normal. ;-)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 December 2008):

You present as aged 25-29 and currently living in the UK. You are bi-sexual and have sexual relations with both men and women. You prefer anal sex/stimulation above all... Normal, that's your preference, it's the thing that turns you on. If you find a partner that dosen't like or accept this, then you are incompatible, your with the wrong partner, find somebody else more open minded or who also shares this pleasure with you. No problems as far as I'm concerned, except that you may be picking partners who are a little narrow minded and don't accept that everyone is different in their sexual desires and what turns them on. Solution: Find new partners and keep enjoying your anal sex...

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 December 2008):

Hey!

Thanks for writing! There's absolutely nothing wrong with you. Everyone has their tastes and a lot of people are too shy to share that with their partner. Good for you for not only exploring your personal tastes but also sharing theses with your partners. It shows a lot of confidence and comfort with yourself.

Surely, there are similar things that partners experience but simply haven't told you. You will be happiest with partners that understand every inch of you (including what's particularly pleasurable) and fulfills those needs for you. The fact that you explored this and now know this makes it that much easier to find those satisfying sexual relationships.

Everyone has their own tastes (even if they never ever tell anyone).

Have fun!

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A male reader, Griffo Australia +, writes (25 December 2008):

Griffo agony auntI love bi girls they are the most lovley people. No your not a freak for enjoying anal it's cool. I'm a guy I don't like recieving it but I don't mind giving to a girl, it comes down to individual preference. That girl that dumped you was just an incompatable sex partner that's all.

If you enjoy it be with lovers who love giving it to you and fulfilling your orgasmic pleasures :)

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A female reader, FashionistaBaybee United States +, writes (24 December 2008):

I don't think so, that's just your preference and I'm sure that there are other people who feel the same way. You shouldn't stress about it qirl- just enjoy it! =D

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