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writes:hi everyone, again.... no i dont know how many of you read my questions, but i know mommyofone, responds to every single one.. anyway!!!!! if you guys didnt already know, i am completely FREAKED out of hospitals, the scent makes me want to pass out and throw up, and just the thought of a doctor looking at my vagina creeps me out and i really dont want to, the only thing is, i am pregnant and my due date is comming up soon. Is there a way of having this baby, without going to a hospital, and with out like 5 doctors looking down there, preferably no doctors looking in there....????
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reader, im_a_dummy +, writes (22 February 2009):
im_a_dummy is verified as being by the original poster of the question hey... yes i have had my baby... thanks for caring....
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2009): Hi poster
i wonder if you have your baby yet? You so remind me of me when I was 18 about to give birth and petrified. I to did not want baby to come out lol, but listen its not that bad as I went on to have another beautiful daughter so listen up.
The other mums are correct better to be in hospital just in case there are any complications , not that don;t mean that there will be just in case. Labout pains come and go it never constant pain now reading your other posts if you wish you can refuse pain releif , but why? you can have gas and air which is great and you will be able to use as you wish no one will force you, you could also request that they don't put your legs in the stirups I did and it was fine. Best advice I could give you try to stay calm learn your breathing do what the nurses/doc tell you as they do know best most of the time lol and try not to worry as it will all be over soon and you baby will be here.
take care pet we are all thinking of you.
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reader, im_a_dummy +, writes (23 January 2009):
im_a_dummy is verified as being by the original poster of the questionuggg.... adsjhfasjlf
i dont really want the bby to come out! i just want it out already...i hate my life
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 January 2009): lol.. false alarm.. your in a bad mood, well your in pain.. no wonder.. just remember to keep breathing... it's ok to be angry, lots of women feel the same.. Everything is gonna be aright, but the baby has to come out.. lol
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 January 2009): Good luck babes, hoping all goes well for you.. Please don't be scared, you have to be brave, your son is depending on you, the doctors, nurse and your mum will all keep you safe and do everything they can... Blessings.
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reader, im_a_dummy +, writes (22 January 2009):
im_a_dummy is verified as being by the original poster of the questionno, staying home was worse, they gave me pills to stop the labor, but still.. there was NOTHING FALSE about those damn cramps.... they are like.. mehhhh yea not really funn! and they freaken strapped my legs up on these black things that hold em open, wide freaken open! i am so sick of doctors and i am so sick of freaken hospitals and being preggo! i want to hold my baby RIGHT NOW! i am in a horrible mood.!
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reader, MommyOfOne +, writes (21 January 2009):
 How was the hospital? Was it worse than staying home?
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reader, im_a_dummy +, writes (21 January 2009):
im_a_dummy is verified as being by the original poster of the questionalright, i just got home, ignore my other post false alarm... but i do have to be at a hospital unless i dont tell my mom, and based on what i felt.... it hurtt!!!!!!!! idk if i can do it.
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reader, im_a_dummy +, writes (21 January 2009):
im_a_dummy is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhey, ummm... i am waiting for my mom right now, and just wanted to update you all because i was on here checking the posts before we go, i think its time, ill up date you all later. my mom is making me go to the damn freakin hospital
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reader, MommyOfOne +, writes (20 January 2009):
Hey girl!
I understand you really don't like your doctor. But, you only have a few weeks left. If you truly don't like him, over the next week call any doctor you can to find one that may see after your birth. If you want a midwife (who may do a home birth.) Your going to have to call around and find one that is covered by your insurance. Unfortunately, your almost to the "due any day" stage and finding a new dr or a midwife will be hard.
As for a home birth, your going to have nurses and mid wives present. You have to.
Like a told you earlier, having the baby alone and at home could be deadly. The baby could get stuck and die. You could bleed to death.
Believe it or not, child birth can be deadly for mom or baby. Which is why you MUST have medical attention during this process. Trust me, Shelby. Once those contractions start, all you will want is to get to a hospital.
You know, why don't you talk to your dr about a c section? I am not pro c section. I would highly recommend vaginal over c section. Because so much more can go wrong. But, the baby won't be coming out of your vagina... Would you feel more comfortable with that?
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reader, FashionistaBaybee +, writes (20 January 2009):
Sweetheart -you MUST qo to the hospital because (and I'm not trying to scare you) there are so many things that could go wrong during childbirth to harm you and your baby and you need to be surrounded by professionals who know how to deal with these problems. I promise hospitals aren't as bad as you think and you will be so glad you went. People and doctors are very nice and helpful to and will try to make you as comfortable as they can. I know that during childbirth - the doctors looking down there will be the least of your worries (not saying yoy gonna worry).The point is that hospitals are the best and safest way to deliver a baby - I promise you that.hope I helped =Dxoxo
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2009): You are about to have a baby. This means you need to act extremely maturely from now on. You will be a mother, and that means you put the needs of your child first. The first thing to say is that you shouldn't have been having sex if you didn't want the risk of pregnancy and therefore going to the doctor. How do you expect them to assess the health of your unborn baby if they cannot examine you properly? Secondly, although it is possible to have a baby at home, this is unusual for a first baby in my experiece, but more importantly, at your physiological age you will need to be under medical supervision during the birth, meaning that if there is no doctor present there could be a serious risk to your baby. As the mother you need to eliminate the risk to your child, and therefore seek experienced medical care. It's an obstetrician's job to "look in there"- what do you expect to happen? No one goes into hospital by choice. You need to grow up a little bit and start thinking about the future.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2009): this may help you out
http://www.squidoo.com/all-you-need-to-know-about-pregnancy
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