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writes:My girlfriend is 23 and claims to be a virgin. The first time we had sex, she neither felt pain nor bled as I expected. How can I know if she was telling the truth? Reply to this Question
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reader, Eyespy17 +, writes (29 January 2009):
Would you like her any less if she wasnt a virgin? Maybe shes afraid of your reaction. I was 21 and had no pain or bleeding , it's definitely possible
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2009): you cant completely tell if she was or not. The first time i ever used a tampon was when i "poped my cherry." and i didnt bleed or have pain when i had sex for the first time. I did have a sex hang over tho, and was really sore. but i didnt bleed or anything. and as everyone else has said.. it doesnt always hurt.
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reader, FashionistaBaybee +, writes (29 January 2009):
wat yu needa do is read the question that yu juss asked.
if yu have to come to an online site & question yur qirlfriends virqinity to complete stranqers - I ask yu if yu trust her at all. she just qave yu one of the most precious & rare qifts a woman can qive to a man & yu are questioninq yur trust in her.
yu should have trusted her from the beqinninq when she told yu she was a virqin & do alittle reseach. there are some women [ very few ] who experience no pain & no blood their first sexual encounter.
in my opinion her virqinity is not the biq question. it is yur trust in her. yu should really think that over.
xo.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2009): Trust is the only word that comes to mind here.There is no way to verify if anyone is a virgin. If she plays any sports she most likely wears tampons, which could explain the broken hymen.Other then sex, that is the most common way a lady can break her hymen. Breaking the hymen can be done varies non-sexual ways.If you love your girlfriend then trust her. Because she must really love you, to be giving herself to you. =-)
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reader, masquerade711  +, writes (29 January 2009):
 If she did lie, it could be that she's ashamed of her past and doesn't want to screw things up for herself. But that's not necessarily the case. As previously stated, not all girls feel pain during their first time. It could be she's just one of those lucky few. :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2009): well when you say bleeding your suffering to "popping her cherry" and this is does not always happen from first time sex, a girl can "pop her cherry" by simply doing sports if she fell, etc. so from that aspect you can't really say if shes lying. But normally it would hurt her first time, unless shes been using dildos... a lot......aha but if you really trust her then sure believe her, if shes already lied to you in the past i wouldn't....either way if shes a good person and you like her if shes not a virgin it shouldn't really matter, but i suppose its just the fact she would lye about that subject.PS if she is a virgin, that's a plus for you haha
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2009): The truth is you can't, you'll just have to trust her. Why would she lie?
Girl's don't always bleed the first time nor do they always feel pain.
Most girl's lose they're hymen through other activities anyway, like riding a bike, or horse riding, there are so many ways to a girl can lose her hymen, the hymen being the main cause of blood and pain in some virgins.
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