My boss forgets I have a life
Q. My boss keeps putting on the schedule with out asking me if I can work. HOw can I in a nice way tell her I have a life? I also dont always get my full 8 hours she is always rushing me through my work. I am thinking about working a different job on ...
A. 30 November 2009: Thanks I realize we are in a tough job market these days. I do appreciate having a a job I just cant get into my field right now. I have early morning hours and the pay is not very much. I normally do not work on Sundays but I work with another girl ... (read in full...)
My wife suddenly won't allow me to have sex with my girlfriend!
Q. [Moderator note: question edited for clarity] Me, my wife, and my girlfriend have been involved for a while. My wife has allowed this because 1) she was my ex fiance and 2)I have an over active sex drive that would make a porn star blush. My wife ...
A. 23 November 2009: Its simple you are selfish and put your own needs first. I think you need to grow a pair and put her needs first.... (read in full...)
I've fallen for somebody who doesn't want a relationship with me.
Q. Im in a huge fix.I've fallen for somebody who doesnt want a relationship with me.He's scared of commitment and also according to him our schedules dont allow us to see each other enough anyways.We met almost a year ago,and I kind of assumed he didnt ...
A. 14 November 2009: I suggest you confront and tell him how you feel...... (read in full...)
He's moved on. Why can't I?
Q. My fiance of 3 yrs broke up with me in June. He moved on a month later. We were together for eight years and there was cheating on both sides. His cheating resulted in a child. I forgave him, but what hurt me was all the lying. I was blamed for ...
A. 12 November 2009: Its never easy to move on when you still have feelings for that person. I think thier was a trust issue mostly because of both of you cheating on each other. Its best that you do move on. Its just hurting you even more if you dont. I would also ... (read in full...)
Do guys like it when women moan during sex?
Q. Do guys like it when girls moan during sex?...
A. 12 November 2009: Oh yes, they do just dont do it too loud in their ear lol ... Hell, why not wake the neighbors.... ... (read in full...)
First time sex tips, please?
Q. Hi, im a 15 year old female and a virgin and want to have sex with my boyfriend soon. He's 16 but has had sex alot of times. He knows that i am a virgin and says that when we do it, he will take it slowly for me and make sure that i'm okay with it....
A. 12 November 2009: I would wait until youare of mature age not that your not mature. ... (read in full...)
First time sex tips, please?
Q. Hi, im a 15 year old female and a virgin and want to have sex with my boyfriend soon. He's 16 but has had sex alot of times. He knows that i am a virgin and says that when we do it, he will take it slowly for me and make sure that i'm okay with it....
A. 12 November 2009: Loosing your virginity is a big deal so make sure you are prepared... :) ... (read in full...)
Was it a one night stand or is he just 'pulling away'?
Q. recently i started dating again and meet a guy in a dance club, we were dancing together and it was hot dirty dancing. he asked for my number so i gave it to him. after a week of talking/texting we meet up for date and ended up having sex, now i do...
A. 12 November 2009: It was a one night stand honey he was just playing... ... (read in full...)
I want him back so badly... why do I feel this way?
Q. please help. i was dating this guy for 5 months and we just recently broke up. i was really into him even tho our relationship was horrible. some things he said were almost unforgiveable but i still feel the need to try and get him back. an urgent ...
A. 12 November 2009: You need to get into therapy as soon as possible. He sounds like he has some issues you dont need that. HIs emotional abuse is abrasive. He may even be bipolar you dont need that. good luck and remember you deserve better than that get help soon.... ... (read in full...)
My bossy boss!
Q. I have a boss that is very emotionally abusive towards me. I can never do anything right it seems no matter what. I have talked to her only once about it but it still occurs. I do my absolute best to please her but its not enough. The worst is she ...
A. 12 November 2009: My boss is being more reasonable now and so far so good. I think my talk with her helped. :) Thanks everyone ... (read in full...)
Can geeting completely crushed change you so completly.?..I just don't know how to go on...
Q. My boyfriend and I just broke up. Cliche, I know. You hear it on this site about 100 times a day, I know that also. And I'm sure you have also heard "it's different". Well it is. I was living with my boyfriend and he left last night. At the time it ...
A. 11 November 2009: You deserve better than that enjoy a day at the spa... :) ... (read in full...)
How do I find a safe sex buddy?
Q. Bit of a strange question. I am a divorced woman and have been single for about 12 months. I have a healthy sex drive and masturbate regularly. I have not had sex with a man since splitting up from my husband and is really missing it. ...
A. 11 November 2009: Yes very good advice thier are allot of players out there.. I would not go on any sites like adult friend finder or anyother site like it allot of predators out there looking to take advantage of you.... good luck :)... (read in full...)
My bossy boss!
Q. I have a boss that is very emotionally abusive towards me. I can never do anything right it seems no matter what. I have talked to her only once about it but it still occurs. I do my absolute best to please her but its not enough. The worst is she ...
A. 10 November 2009: Thanks guys that helps allot for your input.. :)... (read in full...)
Need some advice about IUD coils.
Q. I have some questions about the IUD coil I am 24 and my partner he is 29, we have been together for almost 7 years. since I was about 14 I have tried a lot of different forms of birth control, mostly in my younger teen years I was taking ...
A. 10 November 2009: I have thought about this procedure too. I dont know anyone who has underwent this procedure yet. It sounds scary to me I say let him get snipped. ... (read in full...)
To cheat or not to cheat? Can mongamy really exist?
Q. Monogamy - can it REALLY exist - or is it natural to struggle with this? I'm asking this question because it seems like everyone cheats. On a marriage, in a relationship, etc. And if they don't it's usually because they "don't want to hurt" th...
A. 2 November 2009: I think if there is trust in a realtionship between both of you. It is possible to have a third party involved. If everyone is ok with it its not cheating. There is such thing as a open realtionship between a man and a woman if thats what the person ... (read in full...)
No sex, is it still considered cheating?
Q. I have a dilema If a guy we had been seeing sees someone else but has not had sex with the other person. Is this still considered cheating?...
A. 29 October 2009: thanks for all your replies Im really not concerned if this ex has or has not done anything. Its over anyways but He made it sound like if I cant have you might as well have someone else... I say more power to him I have washed my hands of him...... (read in full...)
Is he just usuing me now?
Q. he asked me to treat him to dinner. unlike before he would never ask me for anything. is he not serious with me anymore? does that mean he doesn't love me anymore? I also occasionally give him load even sometimes he doesn't really seem to w...
A. 29 October 2009: Oh god girl you can do so much better for yourself...... (read in full...)
Will he try to contact me again, out of the blue?
Q. I have just ended a affair with a guy of 4 years and its over. I am ok with it wish him dead just joking.. What do I do if this sob decides to try and play me again and contacts me out of the blue. It has happened before and I wonder if it will ...
A. 26 October 2009: You guys are right I will ignore them and I have already deleted his # and address. He likes to get under my skin but I wont let it happen. thanks guys :)... (read in full...)
Is talking on chat lines a form of cheating?
Q. my husband has recently been talking on this chat line invu, he stay up all night talking to women about things that are inappropriate,i have talked to him about it and he is staying on it. he say it isn't cheating because it is not real, I think it ...
A. 18 October 2009: I would say yes it is I have done it and it leads to only problems in the marraiage. It can lead to an emotional affair so I would keep close tabs on your hubby's activities. IT happens more than you think these days. I would definitley have a one ... (read in full...)
Is talking on chat lines a form of cheating?
Q. my husband has recently been talking on this chat line invu, he stay up all night talking to women about things that are inappropriate,i have talked to him about it and he is staying on it. he say it isn't cheating because it is not real, I think it ...
A. 18 October 2009: I would say yes it is I have done it and it leads to only problems in the marraiage. It can lead to an emotional affair so I would keep close tabs on your hubby's activities. IT happens more than you think these days. I would definitley have a one ... (read in full...)
How do I tell my husband that it hurts me when he looks at porn?
Q. My question is how do I tell my husband that it hurts me when he looks at porn and hides it from me. I have told him over and over again that it hurts me. His response is that he will stop and he doesn't I love him a lot and don't want lose him. ...
A. 16 October 2009: Why not watch it together I do with my husband. I also use it as a tool to learn from it. If that is what turns him on then be his porn star. I think you should dress up real sexy some night and show him ur just as hot and even better than teh women ... (read in full...)
I don't want to ruin my marriage but I love his company! Am I wrong?
Q. I'm married with 2 kids. My marriage is a mess. To makes matters worse, I was at a family get together and started talking to my cousin’s husband’s brother. He respects my situation and claims to want to rescue me. We live in different states which ...
A. 16 October 2009: My advice to you is dont mess with another family member it never ends well. If he is a good caring nurturing man to you and ur kids then you have no complaints. I speak from experience honey he may just be stringing you along... I think you should ... (read in full...)
Letting go is sometimes the hardest.
Q. This is more for people who are going through heartbreak at the moment - and to say that people have far more strength than they realise. I have had so much heartbreak from someone i will probrably never get over but more realise that i deserve b...
A. 10 October 2009: I have been down this road and am still traveling it. I know my involvement with this man will lead right back to it. I love the poem by the way its so true... I just can't let him go no matter what I do...... (read in full...)
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