This incident made me question whether our core values are in sync
Q. I feel very disappointed in my girlfriend of almost 4 years yesterday, but I don't think she understands the core issue (or maybe it's not an issue). We are 29 and 28. We were in a car driving to a birthday event about an hour away with my gir...
A. 9 April 2014: To Intrigued3000: It does sound generous to have given the man the food of OP's girlfriend, but when you really think about it, it's not decent, sanitary, nor humane. She was already eating her food. He is starving. Would you have wanted that man to ... (read in full...)
This incident made me question whether our core values are in sync
Q. I feel very disappointed in my girlfriend of almost 4 years yesterday, but I don't think she understands the core issue (or maybe it's not an issue). We are 29 and 28. We were in a car driving to a birthday event about an hour away with my gir...
A. 8 April 2014: Here is a different perspective on the whole homeless issue that can make you look at things differently, and then I'll get to how you feel about what your gf did. I worked on a documentary about homelessness with a friend of mine. It was his docu... (read in full...)
Am I just extending my heartbreak?
Q. Me and my girlfreind who I loved very much broke up last week. Safe to say I am devastated. She told me her feelings just were not the same anymore. She felt she loved me but only as a freind and she was not in love with me. I personally think...
A. 11 March 2014: WiseOwlE is very much correct about feelings of withdrawal from a breakup of a relationship that seemed like it was meant to be forever. I know exactly what you are going through. I was told to have space only to be dumped about a month later. Turns ... (read in full...)
My husband's secret porn addiction is driving us apart!
Q. I have been with my husband for twelve years I have recently checked out the history on our co on our computer and noticed a lot of porn sites which he has been on for about a year. I have also looked at his phone which is hardly ever out of his ...
A. 12 February 2014: Are you open to watching it with him? Have you expressed that you either like or dislike porn?
Just an example of my relationship with my girlfriend is that she is very open to watching porn. She even admits to watching it without me sometimes. Befo... (read in full...)
He chats with a lot of women, I can't help but feel he has an interest in them or is keeping his options open!
Q. So I've been with my boyfriend for about a year.We have an amazing relationship he loves me I know he does BUT I've recently looked threw his phone and realized he communicates with a lot of women Text,Call, Facebook...its a lot of Mundane daily ...
A. 12 February 2014: Maybe both...insecurity as well as talking to him. I have a lot of female friends, more so than male friends. My girlfriend knows this but she also knows most of them and sees that they are close friends and just that, platonic friends. My ... (read in full...)
Why did I like him but now I hate him?
Q. I am really confused.. I used to like this guy but felt like he doesn't feel the same way about me. Few months ago my friend tells me that "the guy" told her that he loves me .. now he talks to me on facebook for hours at night and sends me texts he ...
A. 12 April 2012: It could be that you got what you wished for and are unsure how to handle the situation. Here is someone you had admired for a long time and thought he didn't like you. All of sudden, you got what you wished for (in a way) and now you may not know... (read in full...)
Long distance relationship: I think I screwed it up out of nothing!!
Q. I am in a long distance relationship. It has been one year since we met and also almost one year of the relationship! He is the best guy I could ever dream of being with.. he is just perfect.. we are very happy together. He is working at a place wh...
A. 21 September 2011: Breathe. It sounds like you are really stressing out over this. Trust...it's clear that it's all about trust. I would not stress over that question at all. It sounds like he was just merely asking you about what your reaction would have been bec... (read in full...)
I always make fun of girlfriend's class and stuffs...How should I get rid of this habit?
Q. Dear Cupid, I always make fun of my girlfriend’s class and her middle class dressing and stuffs . Actually she is from middle class and I am from extremely rich family and we are in a relationship for the last four years and will make it off...
A. 21 September 2011: Are you just kidding with her though? It sounds like you're being condescending to her because she's not as rich as you. You've been joking around for years like this and maybe she's just had enough. She is communicating with you that she's had ... (read in full...)
He's worried he's going to lose me to 'working' people!
Q. i have recently started a dating 1 year younger than me. it all started casual and now has turned really serious. i finished school and i m about to move to a new town to start working. he is now so insecure with the move, he feels like he will lose ...
A. 20 September 2011: That's a tough one. I had a girlfriend who would start to tell me that I would cheat on her because since I'm a professional dancer and am surrounded by women all the time, that I will end up cheating on her. I told her she has as much chance o... (read in full...)
How do I make him realize she hasn't changed and that I love him more than just friends?
Q. I just turned 20 and i think i am falling for my best guy friend he is turning 30 in november! We have know each other for almost 10+ years and he is like my big brother. I never thought that i would have feelings like this for him. We do everything ...
A. 20 September 2011: At times like these, you really have to realize many factors of a potential relationship. It wouldn't be so much of a question if you were 30 and he were 40. Sometimes, age doesn't matter, but experience in life does. You are young (not to say that ... (read in full...)
Where do I hide the condoms?
Q. My friends bought me some condoms (I have a new boyfriend- he's gorgeous and very sexy- they were joking around), but I want to hang onto them just in case anything does happen- better safe than sorry! Does anyone have any ideas as to where in my ro...
A. 20 September 2011: Be careful where you hide them. Don't put them in between books or somewhere warm. Remember that they can become damaged and useless. It also depends if your parents snoop around your room. Try maybe in some old sneakers that you don't wear but they ... (read in full...)
Is giving custody of my baby to my parents such a bad thing?
Q. Im 19 years old and 6 months pregnant. I dont feel at all ready to give my baby the best life he can have. I love him with all my heart, but im just not ready. I want to give custody to my parents. They want a baby and would love their grandbaby ...
A. 20 September 2011: It is not a bad thing. In fact, it's probably one of the hardest and bravest things you'll ever do. You recognize that you may not give your baby a life he or she deserves, so you give your baby to the care of people who will give him or her a good ... (read in full...)
Why am I still pining for my army lover though he treats me like dirt?
Q. Ive been involved with a guy for 9 months and Im going out of my mind with frustration. To say I fell for him hook, line and sinker would be an understatement.I was totally and utterly in love with him. However, we couldnt properly be together ...
A. 20 September 2011: Well, out of curiosity, how old are you and the army guy? There could be many reasons why you fell for the army guy. Do you have the notion that you can change him if you would just stick around? Look within yourself to see if that's true. You may ... (read in full...)
He is never there when I need him
Q. Ive been with this guys for 4 years now, and it always seems to be about him. I got him a hampster for christmas for it to be like our pet type thing, he gets to keep him, so I choose the name theodore for him, well hes telling everyone its jose. it ...
A. 5 February 2010: Judging by how you describe him, he seems to be very possessive. Here is where you really have to take a good look at yourself and your self-worth. How can you guys grow if you don't have a true conversation? Trust is extremely important and if you ... (read in full...)
She is not a virgin but wants me to wait 4 or 5 years for marriage
Q. After dating my girlfriend for over a year, she mentions for the first time at random, that she's not a virgin. Before I heard this, I assumed she was, because of how she acts, how reserved she tends to be. Also, she seems to criticize others...
A. 5 February 2010: If you guys have the maturity for it, you can ask if there is a reason she wants to wait. Maybe something happened to her in the past...but of course, she needs to voluntarily share with you. She also could have something religious going on that has ... (read in full...)
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