How do I attract guys?
Q. How do I attract guys? I'm in my teens and I want a boyfriend but I don't know how to get one. ...
A. 11 March 2008: First of all, get up an extra hour every morning and get ready. Shave your legs and underarms, lotion your whole body, fix your hair, etc. It may sound silly but it's so important to feel and look confident because it radiates and attracts people to ... (read in full...)
What to do to my body to make the first time special? Paint my toenails? Shave my pubic area?...
Q. Just a question. Planning on sleeping with a guy this weekend and am wondering if theres anything I can do ot my body to make it extra nice? Should I shave my pubic area? Paint my toenails? Wear perfume? Scented body mosturiser?...
A. 11 March 2008: Listen, the thing that will make it the best is that you FEEL your best! So if all those things are going to make you feel beautiful and most importantly confident, then do it all!!! When someone is confident, they radiate that. And they radiate ... (read in full...)
I love my second cousin, should I tell him?
Q. I'm in love with this really great guy. I mean, he's a lot taller than me, he's smarter than me (I don't know many guys who are), he's pretty good looking, is generally a nice guy except for when he gives people a hard time, and can basicly turn me ...
A. 22 February 2008: I think yes, because you need to determine how he feels before you do anything else.... (read in full...)
What are the erogenous zones a women has?
Q. hi, what are the erogenous zones women have? i know the G-spot, but what others are there .... i think that there are 7? thankyou h xxx ...
A. 21 February 2008: The clit obviously is one lol other than that? Idk.. nipples, neck, shoulders? No idea lol everyone is different, but DEF the clit.... (read in full...)
Are women really embarrassed of their pubic hair?
Q. Is a woman really embarassed if a man or boy sees some or all of her pubic hair?...
A. 21 February 2008: Well yes, to an extent. We know guys look at porn and are incredibly self-conscious because of it! What if we don't look like what they look like? What if we are "abnormal"? Of course, every woman's is different, and beautiful in her own way, but ... (read in full...)
How do I show him that he isn't "sick" for dating me, despite of our considerable age difference?
Q. Alright, So I have been in and out of a relationship with this man who is 33 years older than me. I'm 21, 22 next month. I have a great time with him and he is one of my best friends. I'm very attracted to him and we have alot of things in common. ...
A. 20 February 2008: That's a bunch of crap, he isn't playing games with you!! That's what younger guys do! They're all about one night stands and seeing how far you will go, etc. Older guys are wanting to settle down! They're done with all those childish games. I... (read in full...)
Three times my age. Taboo or Not?
Q. I currently live with an woman who is three times my age, I am 19, she is 58. I rent a room from her while I go to a university nearby. I have lived there for a year and a half and we have been lovers since the summer of 2007. It's just too amazing. ...
A. 20 February 2008: I am also 19 and I have been with someone who is 27 years older than me (He'll be 46 in May) for the past year and a half. It was very controversial at first, hidden from absolutely everyone. But you know... people figure things out one way or ... (read in full...)
What's the best position for a G-spot orgasm?
Q. What's the best position for a G-spot orgasm? I only ever really come from clitoral stimulation, and not from intercourse, any hot tips?...
A. 20 February 2008: You can also have him finger you, not clitoral, but inside. That always works because the fingers can bend up to that special spot unlike the penis.... (read in full...)
I can't move on from him!
Q. I feel so ridiculous, embarrassed, confused. I just do not know what's best for me at the moment. My boyfriend of 1 1/2 years cheated on me a couple of times when we were together. He admitted it all to me around Christmas time before he had to ...
A. 20 February 2008: If he wants to come see you and win you back that's fine. But don't let yourself just give in and go see him and take him back. Who cares if he's "scared" he has no right to be scared or feel bad about himself, he knew exactly what he was doing the ... (read in full...)
Two weeks ago he came out and told me that he had sex with another girl in September and he swears that after that nothing happened.
Q. I have this boyfriend that I have been with for 7 months and we love each other so much, but about two weeks ago he came out and told me that he had sex with another girl in September and he swears that after that nothing happened, he had been ...
A. 20 February 2008: So what was your decision?! What did you do????... (read in full...)
Is there a happy-medium when it comes to porn?
Q. I found out that my boyfriend had a porn addiction in the past after I had fallen in love with him and been with him for over a year. I couldn't stand it and we fought and he did it a lot less. He only got "sucked in" because he got them in his ...
A. 20 February 2008: I haven't demanded anything, I can't. I wont ask him not to do it... that doesn't work. Everything he's doing, he's doing on his own will. I have expressed how I feel about it all and that's it! His decisions are his own to make. And he told me that ... (read in full...)
Is there a happy-medium when it comes to porn?
Q. I found out that my boyfriend had a porn addiction in the past after I had fallen in love with him and been with him for over a year. I couldn't stand it and we fought and he did it a lot less. He only got "sucked in" because he got them in his ...
A. 20 February 2008: Well, we talked last night for the first time since that happened, it's been like 2-3 days. He told me he's sorry, he doesn't know whats wrong with him and that he can now promise that as long as we are together, if we are together... that he will ... (read in full...)
I am so inexperienced...can anybody help me get my self-confidence back up??
Q. help, I am 14 and extremely unexperienced. I have done nothing my whole life. A guy hasnt done anything to me and i havent done anything to a guy. Any advice on how i can get my self confidence back up since all my friends have at least done somet...
A. 20 February 2008: Well hun, there's nothing wrong with being inexexperienced. It feels been to be inexperienced that to be a slut. So if anyone says anything, don't say anything corny like oh I'm waiting for the one... Just say you're not a whore lol seriously... (read in full...)
Should I risk my marriage for the girl at work??
Q. I'm a married man but there I'm tempted to cheat on my wife with a gorgeous brunette in my office. Shes cute, funny and has a gorgeous bum. The only problem she has a serious boyfriend and I'm married. She flirts with me and I flirt back, we h...
A. 20 February 2008: Don't you dare! Go home to your gorgeous wife and make love with her!! You LOVE her!!! That's messed up that you're even thinking about that, you should go apologize to your wife for just that. You need to stay as far away from this stupid girl as ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend doesn't think of me when he masturbates, is this a problem?
Q. My boyfriend doesn't think of me when he masturbates, is this a problem? He says men don't masturbate about the woman they love??...
A. 19 February 2008: That's messed up. Do YOU think of HIM when you masterbate? Of course you do! I don't think there is anything wrong with masterbation, but if it includes things OUTSIDE of the committed relationship you are in than that's just not right. In my ... (read in full...)
Two weeks ago he came out and told me that he had sex with another girl in September and he swears that after that nothing happened.
Q. I have this boyfriend that I have been with for 7 months and we love each other so much, but about two weeks ago he came out and told me that he had sex with another girl in September and he swears that after that nothing happened, he had been ...
A. 19 February 2008: I'm not sure, part of me is screaming HELL NO BREAK UP WITH THE BASTARD yet the other part is like WELL EVERYONE DESERVES A SECOND CHANCE. I think it's good that he finally told you about it, that means he feels remorse, but because of how bad he ... (read in full...)
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