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writes:help,I am 14 and extremely unexperienced. I have done nothing my whole life.A guy hasnt done anything to me and i havent done anything to a guy.Any advice on how i can get my self confidence back up since all my friends have at least done somethingand please no one saying im too young or anything like that. Don't you know that if i cared i wouldnt have asked for help herethank you
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reader, EssentiallyMe  +, writes (20 February 2008):
 Well hun, there's nothing wrong with being inexexperienced. It feels been to be inexperienced that to be a slut. So if anyone says anything, don't say anything corny like oh I'm waiting for the one... Just say you're not a whore lol seriously
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2008): SWEETHEART
You have time on your side so thats good im not going to tell you your to young what I am going to say is there is no rush to do things with lads it all comes in time you must not think there is something wrong with you because its not happened yet, All my friends at school were always going on about what they had done and I hadnt done a bloody thing and I didnt care as it was up to me when I felt confident and comfortable, There was one girl who used to laugh all the time because I was a virgin she wasnt laughing a yr later when she had a child and no support, You self confidence is important and that is worth working on sweetheart so im sending you a link..
http://youthdevelopment.suite101.com/article.cfm/improving_teen_self_confidence
This has alot of help about all sorts darling including sex and the saftey precautions and self confidence and self esteem, I hope this help hun YOU TAKE CARE WITH LOVE N HUGS MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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reader, hello1  +, writes (20 February 2008):
 I can't help reading this and laugh, I mean you might not think 14 is young but it really is. I remember what it felt like at your age to not have a b/f, but I didn't get depressed about it and I felt sort of proud of not having one, It let me focus on my studies and freinds issues. I don't see how this has knocked your confidence, your meet someone and you shouldn't be worrying about it at your age!
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reader, AvonLady +, writes (20 February 2008):
Oh to be young and innocent again. This is the most exciting time of your young life. I can remember when my girlfriend spoke of what they had done with their boyfriends and I hadn't done anything close to what they were doing. I was so jealous and thought there had to be something wrong with me because no-one had asked me to do anything. We used to have a numbering system 1 through 8 and every Monday morning the girls would say a number and we would know what they had been up to over the week-end.1 was hold hands, 2 was arms round, three was kiss and of course the biggie was number 8.So, you want to feel confident. Best way is to feel good about yourself. Are you pretty ? Got a good figure ? Sexy eyes ?Whatever you feel is your best attribute - flaunt that.I remember the best way to attract a boy was eye contact - look at them, look into their eyes and hold the look. Look them up and down and then back into their eyes - slowly ( best done at a bit of a distance ) Make sure your eyes are made up sexily - not over the top but subtle and sexy. Black eyeliner, mascara, brown shades of eye shadow - forget the bright colours - you want to look sultry not like a clown.Have faith in yourself , wear clothes you feel good in - not what everyone else is wearing.Practive being a good listener - boys like to talk about themselves - if you fancy a guy who plays football - read up on fotball so you can join in when he talks about it.Have fun - enjoy - you're only young once.
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