A bridal shower the second time around?
Q. Ok, so if you have been widowed young and get remarried again, is it improper to have a bridal shower if you had one the first time?...
A. 8 April 2014: Tisha- To answer your questions...We are having 4 and 4 for the bridal party, 1/2 my friends and 1/2 his. Yes, the bridesmaids purchased their dresses. No, its a VERY local wedding, no destination. Both, my fiance and I are older now, so we don't ... (read in full...)
A bridal shower the second time around?
Q. Ok, so if you have been widowed young and get remarried again, is it improper to have a bridal shower if you had one the first time?...
A. 7 April 2014: Haha yea right?! I'm so upset with all this It makes me reevaluate who's in my wedding party! I hate drama!... (read in full...)
A bridal shower the second time around?
Q. Ok, so if you have been widowed young and get remarried again, is it improper to have a bridal shower if you had one the first time?...
A. 7 April 2014: Thank you all, I really appreciate y our responses! I hope to put this behind me, and focus on whats really important! :)... (read in full...)
A bridal shower the second time around?
Q. Ok, so if you have been widowed young and get remarried again, is it improper to have a bridal shower if you had one the first time?...
A. 7 April 2014: They ended up deciding to have one for me, but with a lot of hesitation and leaning on my fiance to pay for most of everything.... (read in full...)
A bridal shower the second time around?
Q. Ok, so if you have been widowed young and get remarried again, is it improper to have a bridal shower if you had one the first time?...
A. 7 April 2014: CindyCares...No, I never wanted to give my own party (neither did my fiance), I didn't know I could have one after my future inlaws mentioned it. They got excited about it. My fiance is not a cheap at all (he is too generous) and after he heard they ... (read in full...)
A bridal shower the second time around?
Q. Ok, so if you have been widowed young and get remarried again, is it improper to have a bridal shower if you had one the first time?...
A. 7 April 2014: It's actually the complete opposite, my bridesmaids sat me down and told me that they thought it would be rude to have one again, not only that but they are broke and can't afford it. Mind you, this was not my idea. My fiances family recommended ... (read in full...)
How can I be intimate with my fiancé without upsetting my daughter? She hears us despite us being quiet.
Q. Ok, need help on this one! This is sort of embarrasing but I need someone to tell me what I should do. I have 3 children from my last marriage. I am widowed. I finally meet a wonderful man, and we are engaged to be married in July. I have a cape c...
A. 15 February 2014: The reason why Im a little less aggressive is that they actually lost their father 6 years ago. So, I feel bad for them. I feel like I have to protect them. Yes, I am a very submissive person, but when I do actually try to be more assertive, She ... (read in full...)
How can I be intimate with my fiancé without upsetting my daughter? She hears us despite us being quiet.
Q. Ok, need help on this one! This is sort of embarrasing but I need someone to tell me what I should do. I have 3 children from my last marriage. I am widowed. I finally meet a wonderful man, and we are engaged to be married in July. I have a cape c...
A. 15 February 2014: Oh also we just got a new bed so it wouldn't squeak, we also need a new mattress, hopefully it'll be more supportive and less noisy as well. I think it's his voice in combination with the mattress. Hurts to have sex on floor too when we have a bed. ... (read in full...)
How can I be intimate with my fiancé without upsetting my daughter? She hears us despite us being quiet.
Q. Ok, need help on this one! This is sort of embarrasing but I need someone to tell me what I should do. I have 3 children from my last marriage. I am widowed. I finally meet a wonderful man, and we are engaged to be married in July. I have a cape c...
A. 15 February 2014: Yup she is almost 15, and yes she is soooo sassy and thinks she's the boss around the house. When she mentions anything, i usually change the subject or blame it in the tv being loud. I'm just so embarrased. We are not loud at all and most of the ... (read in full...)
Fiance is angry because I don't want him going on vacation with family of my dead husband
Q. Ok so, I've been dating this man for 6 months and we are engaged to be married. Yea, when you know you know. It just felt right. I have 3 kids from a previous marriage (he passed away 5 years ago). I thought everything was ok until this past week ...
A. 14 August 2013: Yes she's the only one in the family that hates me, the others weren't happy with me dating so soon but they are all reasonable adults that understand why I did what I did. It's about 6 other people in that family that attends.
As far as the kids... (read in full...)
Need help dealing with my 14 year old!
Q. I need help on something...My husband passed away about 4 1/2 years ago, and I was left with 3 young children (9, 6 and 5). I ended up, out of fear of being alone, dating really fast. I got into a 3 year relationship that was not good. He was ...
A. 24 April 2013: I don't plan on moving more forward than I already have. We talked about marriage, but no intention to do so for another year or so. I truly believe that this person is the best person for me. I was married for 10 years, knew my husband for 17, and ... (read in full...)
Need help dealing with my 14 year old!
Q. I need help on something...My husband passed away about 4 1/2 years ago, and I was left with 3 young children (9, 6 and 5). I ended up, out of fear of being alone, dating really fast. I got into a 3 year relationship that was not good. He was ...
A. 23 April 2013: I meant 4 1/2 years since my husband passed. I dated my ex for 3 years, and then when I wasn't looking, this new guy came into the picture, really unexpectedly. I wasn't planning on jumping back into it. It just happened.
We actually hit it off very... (read in full...)
My daughter was bullied into sending a nude photo to a boy. What should I do?
Q. Ok, so my 13 year old daughter comes to me in the middle of the night crying because she did something really bad. She said she was pressured into sending a photo of herself nude to a boy in her class. He was being really mean and bullying towards ...
A. 21 March 2013: Not sure what to do, I don't want to embarrass her even worse. If this comes out, then all her friends will tease her and then make her life worse. Last thing I want is her feeling more depressed because of it. She told me that she thought he delet... (read in full...)
My daughter was bullied into sending a nude photo to a boy. What should I do?
Q. Ok, so my 13 year old daughter comes to me in the middle of the night crying because she did something really bad. She said she was pressured into sending a photo of herself nude to a boy in her class. He was being really mean and bullying towards ...
A. 21 March 2013: Cerberus, I have proof on her phone. I have all texts back and forth between them. He pressured her, it's as clear as it can be.... (read in full...)
Too soon to share past sexual history? It scared me. Do ALL guys do this during online relationships?
Q. Is this a red flag?...I just started talking to someone I met online, and things were going great until he starts asking me about what is the most wildest and crazy thing I have done sexually. I didn't want to answer that because I feel that it ...
A. 21 August 2012: Ok, so I texted him and asked him straight out, what are you looking for? His response...A relationship, why? So I told him that I was taken aback and that he came on too strong talking about sex so early. That it turned me off. His response..Oh ok, ... (read in full...)
Do I tell the guy I'm dating that I did a background check on him?
Q. So, I have been seeing this guy (43 years old) for 2 weeks now, and decided that things have been getting more serious and I should do a background check on him. I do that to anyone I start dating because I have children I need to think about. Don't ...
A. 7 April 2012: Serious, meaning going in the direction of a possible relationship. I felt like it was headed that way. All signs pointing that way (calling every night talking for hours, asking me out a lot, a spark, a chemistry, kissing, holding hands, kissing my ... (read in full...)
Do I tell the guy I'm dating that I did a background check on him?
Q. So, I have been seeing this guy (43 years old) for 2 weeks now, and decided that things have been getting more serious and I should do a background check on him. I do that to anyone I start dating because I have children I need to think about. Don't ...
A. 6 April 2012: N91, guess you have no children of your own, cause if you did, you would feel different. And you are a guy, so you really dont get it. I don't feel bad for what I did in this scary world where there is a TON of rape, murder, etc. I take a step in ... (read in full...)
Do I tell the guy I'm dating that I did a background check on him?
Q. So, I have been seeing this guy (43 years old) for 2 weeks now, and decided that things have been getting more serious and I should do a background check on him. I do that to anyone I start dating because I have children I need to think about. Don't ...
A. 5 April 2012: It wasnt really a breakup, it was more of a moving on? I would call it? Wrong choice of words? lol... (read in full...)
Do I tell the guy I'm dating that I did a background check on him?
Q. So, I have been seeing this guy (43 years old) for 2 weeks now, and decided that things have been getting more serious and I should do a background check on him. I do that to anyone I start dating because I have children I need to think about. Don't ...
A. 5 April 2012: It wasnt really a breakup, it was more of a moving on? I would call it? Wrong choice of words? lol... (read in full...)
Do I tell the guy I'm dating that I did a background check on him?
Q. So, I have been seeing this guy (43 years old) for 2 weeks now, and decided that things have been getting more serious and I should do a background check on him. I do that to anyone I start dating because I have children I need to think about. Don't ...
A. 5 April 2012: Do I want to wait until he DOES do something unexcusable?... (read in full...)
Do I tell the guy I'm dating that I did a background check on him?
Q. So, I have been seeing this guy (43 years old) for 2 weeks now, and decided that things have been getting more serious and I should do a background check on him. I do that to anyone I start dating because I have children I need to think about. Don't ...
A. 5 April 2012: iAmHereToHelpYou-That was what I was trying to say, he was going too fast, so that was why I did what I did. Look, I just don't want to settle on someone that may not be right for me and my family. It may be fine for someone else, but not what I am ... (read in full...)
Do I tell the guy I'm dating that I did a background check on him?
Q. So, I have been seeing this guy (43 years old) for 2 weeks now, and decided that things have been getting more serious and I should do a background check on him. I do that to anyone I start dating because I have children I need to think about. Don't ...
A. 5 April 2012: iAmHereToHelpYou-I just want you to know that every situation is different. Yours may be different. I went through a mental breakdown with anxiety and stress related to my husbands death. So, I get it. But in this world, it is very scary out there ... (read in full...)
Do I tell the guy I'm dating that I did a background check on him?
Q. So, I have been seeing this guy (43 years old) for 2 weeks now, and decided that things have been getting more serious and I should do a background check on him. I do that to anyone I start dating because I have children I need to think about. Don't ...
A. 5 April 2012: I think it was the psychiatric hospital issue that bothered me the most. Not the tax lien or bankruptcy issue. I know that people can bounce back from that. That freaked me out, cause any person can seem normal and have psychological problems. I ... (read in full...)
Do I tell the guy I'm dating that I did a background check on him?
Q. So, I have been seeing this guy (43 years old) for 2 weeks now, and decided that things have been getting more serious and I should do a background check on him. I do that to anyone I start dating because I have children I need to think about. Don't ...
A. 5 April 2012: And yes, I have had problems in the past with boyfriends who were liars and not who they said they were. Its not being paranoid at all-its when it progresses so fast that I have cause for concern. I like to take things slower. He was the one who was ... (read in full...)
Do I tell the guy I'm dating that I did a background check on him?
Q. So, I have been seeing this guy (43 years old) for 2 weeks now, and decided that things have been getting more serious and I should do a background check on him. I do that to anyone I start dating because I have children I need to think about. Don't ...
A. 5 April 2012: No, I don't have those diseases, just trying to be safe in this world. Serious, I mean, he calls me everyday, had sex, holds my hand, said he misses me. This is only after 2 weeks, and yes I am concerned that all this has happened in that amount of ... (read in full...)
Do I tell the guy I'm dating that I did a background check on him?
Q. So, I have been seeing this guy (43 years old) for 2 weeks now, and decided that things have been getting more serious and I should do a background check on him. I do that to anyone I start dating because I have children I need to think about. Don't ...
A. 5 April 2012: I do the background checks in the beginning, so that I don't get in too deep and fall for the person only then to find out that he is not who he says he is. Then I feel like I can continue with a clear head. I think it is important, and I truly feel ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's way too busy to settle down, but I don't think I can wait 4 years for him
Q. I need help soooo bad, and don't know what to do. About 3 1/2 years ago, my husband passed away from a tragic accident and left me with three kids. I dated a little afterwards, but never found anyone worth while. I stumbled upon an old friend fr...
A. 8 February 2012: Oh one more thing, he said he is not leaving until after school is over in a year and a half. Do I wait still? He is so worth it to wait.... (read in full...)
My daughter hates my BF, please help!
Q. I have a question, what do you do when your 11 year old daughter can't stand your boyfriend? I have been seeing this man for about a year and a half and had some issues in the past, but am working on them. He genuinely is a good man and good fat...
A. 22 December 2010: I actually did not tell her until about a year later (well a little more). To some, it may sound too early, but if you are in my shoes, it felt like an eternity. I needed to go out and be an adult and feel human again. This helped me in the grieving ... (read in full...)
Help! I feel I'm stuck in the middle...
Q. Ok, so my husband passed away about 2 years ago, and I have been seeing this guy now for over a year. We had our ups and downs. I think mainly because I wasn't ready at first. But he truly cared for me and stayed with me through my grieving process. ...
A. 18 October 2010: My kids are 11, 8 and 7. The oldest is adament about him, and is rubbing off on the little ones. They, now, don't like him either. Ugh! I guess time is key.... (read in full...)
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