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I texted another girl, but wasn't being flirty at all - my gf found out and now she won't talk to me!

Q.   Ok, so me and my girlfriend are after breaking up after 2 years together. Everything was fine until I went out one night 3 weeks ago and met a girl I know pretty well. She was pretty drunk and we were talking for ages and then I went to get a cab ...

A.   27 November 2006: I think your gf has overreacted and seems quite insecure if she gets that jealous over a few harmless text messages. All you can do is reassure her that you don't like the girl and you don't even look at other girls because you like ur gf so much-... (read in full...)

How do I ask her out without seeming uncool?

Q.   i really like this girl who is 14. i'm 16. we met once before. havent really after again. had a good chat for about 2hours. after there's just been smiles and hi's when we go past each other in school. i want to ask her out before xmas! i got her ...

A.   25 November 2006: Well, I think you should get to know this girl on msn/ in person a bit more so she finds out more about you and you find out about what she's interested in. Then you could just casually say, dya want to go to the cinema on friday? or dya wanna bo... (read in full...)

My co-worker is irresistable, but there's still one problem...

Q.   i have a crush on this guy. I work with him. Hes the greatset the person i have ever met. We are always texting each other on our cell phones and when i'm not with him, i think about him constantly... There's one little problem.. I'm 17 going on ...

A.   25 November 2006: Firstly, it doesn't matter what other people think, it's up to you because you're the one whos might feel uncomfortable with the age gap. Also, have you confronted him about how he feels? Is he bothered about how old you are? If he is then maybe ... (read in full...)

My male friend has jokingly implied, .we have something going on. This concerns me because ..he's married!!

Q.   This male friend of mine has on a couple of occassions implied something has been going on between us. A couple of examples once when i saw him about 3 times within 24 hours he commented on it and said people will talk another time when i was w...

A.   25 November 2006: Yeah it sounds like he's just having a laugh to me. Don't be too paranoid :o) he's probably just trying to make you laugh, I'm sure he doesn't have ulterior motives. Just brush off his comments and have a laugh with him. If he goes into... (read in full...)

I feel sick, my breasts are tender, I'm always hungry...am I pregnant?

Q.   i feel sick all the time my breast are tender and i still feel hungry after i eat but i have my period not like always its really light not spotting im bleeding but not like usual could i be pregnant? i took a test and it said no but i was pregnant ...

A.   25 November 2006: I think you should get another pregnancy test to check to see if the results the same; or if you can, go to your DR as soon as possible. That's the only way you'll find out!! Good luck x ... (read in full...)

What sexual enhancing tools are available to surprise her in the bedroom?

Q.   My girlfriend is a kinky kind of girl and i am afraid that I might not be kinky enough for her. what are some of the steps that I can take to be a little more kinky in the bed room? What are some sexual enhancing tools that I could use to surprise ...

A.   24 November 2006: You could try visiting a sex store together and getting her to pick out the sex toys she'd like to try Or go on your own and surprise her with a nurses/police outfit for her to wear(and try the whole roleplay thing)/ handcuffs/ chocolate oil for ... (read in full...)

I allowed him to finger me but I don't want to take this further, yet. Is it too late to tell him?

Q.   im 19 and a virgin, i let my boyfriend finger me (i was a little surprised at myself) but im not sure if im ready to go "further" is it to late to tell him????? and what will he think of me? help!...

A.   24 November 2006: No it's definitely not too late. Let him know how you feel, he probably won't be too bothered, he'll have more respect for you for wanting to wait until you are ready instead of rushing into things. After all, it's completely your decision an... (read in full...)

How do I give a good blow-job?

Q.   ok guys i need help. please dont think im stupid for asking but i need to how to give what guys would call a good blowjob. any tips would be great. thankyou....

A.   24 November 2006: Someone once told me treat a guys penis like a lollypop :o) keep that in mind lol!! Some tips off the top of my head: Use your tongue to swirl round the whole penis, not just around the head Try and make his penis as wet as possible using yo... (read in full...)

Sex is getting boring with my gf...any tips on how to spice it up with new positions?

Q.   My Girl only want's to give missionary position all the time is there any way i can get her out if this position? we i first got my girl doggy, Cowgirl style was all we did all the time now 13 month's later she only a fan of missionary posit...

A.   24 November 2006: You could try creating a new atmosphere like organising a romantic meal and put candles in the bedroom or something different like this?? That way she'll be really thankful and will be more likely to put more effort into sex... Or try using se... (read in full...)

Does she fancy me back?

Q.   I am in abit of a difficult situation with a girl from work, in the way that i am absolutely crazy about her. i am 30 and she is 20 and we flirt all the time, we have been for about 4 months now. We are always sharing long glances from across the ...

A.   24 November 2006: Well I think the only way you can find out whether she has feelings for you, or whether the flirting was nothing serious, is to ask her. Not in the office though! Can you email her or phone her and ask (secretly, so you're office mates don't fi... (read in full...)

I give him head-I take him places-I lend him money..but he has no time for me. Why is he doing this?

Q.   ok here is my deal.... i am a very lonely college student that hasn't had a boyfriend in two years. i have been used by guys in some many ways and i know it. sometimes I did sexual things for them thinkin i could get them that way. Yeah, doesnt ...

A.   24 November 2006: You have recognised that your friend is using you for sex and money, yet you still like him?? I know you're feeling lonely, and it sounds like you like having a boyfriend and someone you can rely on but my advice is to forget guys for a while and ... (read in full...)

What do couples do other than have sex??

Q.   i havent seen my boyfrind in a few weeks and its still quite new, hes in the navy and is away alot so time together isnt much. i need ideas as to what we can do. first off we seem to be nervous and it take a while to relax into each others company,...

A.   24 November 2006: Everybody is nervous with their partner to begin with, but just try and relax, and thing of any idea to break the ice, like saying "right we're going out for a meal!!" and go to a romantic restaurant and ask questions to one another so you discover ... (read in full...)

Is bisexuality wrong?

Q.   Hello! I just needed to ask this one question. One of my friends told me that she was bisexual, and well, she also told me that one of my other friends, one of my best friends, was bi too. I had always thought that my best friend was bisexual, but I ...

A.   24 November 2006: It is definitely not wrong to be bisexual, but I can understand you're just coming to terms with that two of your friends have had sexual relations together and you are a bit shocked. I'm sure over time you'll learn to accept who they are, if you ... (read in full...)

He ended his relationship with another because of me-said he still loves me! I'm not sure I want this..what should I do?

Q.   About 5 yrs ago i had to make a choice between two guys to decide whom to date. One was my father best friend son and the other i met in school and have know for several years.I didnt follow my heart i allowed myself to be pressurised by my parents ...

A.   24 November 2006: I think you should definitely go for it with this guy!! If you get along well and are happy together, what's stopping you? This guy sounds great and completely honest about his feelings towards you, there aren't many guys out there like that! Wh... (read in full...)

I love him, despite the fact he loves another woman! What should I do--wait or leave?

Q.   Me and my husband of 6yrs have currenlty separated?We have a 5yr old son together and We kind of has some problems coming from jealousy he took this girl he worked with and her kids and our son fishing and to the park one day while i was at work and ...

A.   24 November 2006: If it was me, I wouldn't wait around for him as he's obviously made his choices and decided to be with this woman- so it looks unlikely that you and him will get back together. You should try moving on and building a new life 200 miles away from... (read in full...)

I'm having problems pleasuring my girl...

Q.   My girlfriend and I have been having sex for the past 4 months. Before her I was very sexually active with my previous girlfriend, and I never had any problems at all. With my current girlfriend I can not get her to orgasm. She is now on the pill so ...

A.   24 November 2006: You have got nothing to lose by wearing a condom the next time you have sex to see whether that makes any difference. Don't be embarassed about this, talk it through with her and make sure she is completely relaxed and comfortable when you are ... (read in full...)

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