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Sex is getting boring with my gf...any tips on how to spice it up with new positions?

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Question - (23 November 2006) 3 Answers - (Newest, 24 November 2006)
A male United Kingdom, anonymous writes:

My Girl only want's to give missionary position all the time is there any way i can get her out if this position?

we i first got my girl doggy, Cowgirl style was all we did all the time now 13 month's later she only a fan of missionary position the other night i said " doggy " but i got told no it hurt's i know it does but that's my best Position.

when i read about missionary position it said " it's get's old fast " i laffed it off 5 month's ago. who can get bored of the missionary position it's ace but now i'm haveing sex all week every night and it's always missionary position is there anyway i tell my girl it getting boring? without hurting her feelings?

i asked her this weekend for her 2 go on top she did for a few mintues i cum and the end of it.

is it wrong for me to be Bored of this Position and want to do it doggy or cowgirl style?

i even try to spice up the missionary position closeing her leg's, and putting her leg's over My Back. but still it feel's the same and it get's boring.

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A female reader, ellie6 +, writes (24 November 2006):

ellie6 agony auntYou could try creating a new atmosphere like organising a romantic meal and put candles in the bedroom or something different like this?? That way she'll be really thankful and will be more likely to put more effort into sex...

Or try using sex toys- like handcuffs, buying her a nurses outfit to wear, maybe buying a vibrator for you to use on her?

Or try teasing her for ages by spending a lot of time getting her really horny, then tease her by not entering her for a long time? Something like that will drive her insane with anticipation and you can be in control and can dominate her and try different positions, for example, up against the wall, on the kitchen worksurface, or bend her over and do doggystyle but be more gentle and keep asking her if its hurts.

Try spicing things up by showering together/ drive to a secluded spot and have sex in the car.

Try asking her what new positions does she want to try? Or ask her to tell you one her fantasties then act it out.. its unlikely that her fantasy will be missionary position alone, so both of you will be left feeling satisfied if you fulfill her desires!!!

Good luck x

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A female reader, des16 United Kingdom +, writes (24 November 2006):

des16 agony aunttying up is good. maybe try in the shower. get out of the bedroom. go around ur home

get her to play with herself and you watch her. take it outside, the bedroom puts it as on ur back, coz sleep time.

if you take it to other places on your back isnt always the easiest way. if shes flexible

stand up hold her leg to give you thrusting space.

of you could check out karma sutra. ask her to role play, a school scene locker room, cheer leader changing and the coach or best player walks in start to play around with it make it fun for her, ask her what her fantasy is.she may have many so pay attention.

good luck x

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A female reader, bex108 +, writes (23 November 2006):

no i dont think it is wrong to get bored of it, if your doing the same thing everytime it becomes a routine.

in a way though you should feel slightly lucky you could not be getting any sex at all.

have you tried surpising her with new things...like tieing her up and doing what ever she wants to her.. she will be begging for you to be inside her and it will be the dirtiest you've seen her in a while. that should change your position.

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