Boyfriend spends so much time with his friends that I feel we are missing quality time together.
Q. I am in a relationship with someone for a year. He is the love of my life..we are both in our late twenties. I know we love each other very much. He puts me first in so many ways and I do the same as well. I know I want to spend my life with him and ...
A. 2 September 2013: Yes, things could be a lot worse :) I went through similar with my current boyfriend and it was really hard to handle. I just continually made him aware that I wanted to do other things without talking down to him and slowly made the change. The ... (read in full...)
I know he does his best to tell me the truth but he omits things or lies about things
Q. My boyfriend of just under 3 years is a completely different person than when I met him. He has completely quit drinking because it was ruining his life, he quit smoking and he works out every day. He cuddles me and cooks me dinner and has a very ...
A. 7 May 2013: Thanks for pointed that out. I am very hard on him about everything. It is just my nature. It is true that rulers make bad lovers! Thank you for your insight.... (read in full...)
How can a real girl ever be enough for a man?
Q. How can a real girl ever be enough for a man? I mean, I have talked with many guys my age, and they have all agreed when I asked them whether a porn star has a hotter or better body than a normal girl, they have all said yes! The typical porn star ...
A. 15 October 2010: i have small boobs and men make very nice comments about them. i can't even get cleavage with a push-up bra. soooooooo i think you need to move on and not let this invade your head. if you do find a man to love... you may scare him away by this... (read in full...)
Should I dump the girl I love to go for a hotter girl?
Q. Hi I am currently in a relationship with someone I love. My friends say she is gross and ugly. A "hotter" girl likes me but I don't like her. Should I dump my current gf and go for the other one?...
A. 15 October 2010: really? i mean come on. you don't deserve your current girl friend. guys say stupid things like that all the time because they see it gets a rise out of you. GROW UP! You are not acting like a man. Men defend their women and would never let their ... (read in full...)
What should I do to get my ex back when I tell her I'm being serious about working out our marriage?
Q. Hi, My wife and i are seperated for almost 4 months now. After, she kicked me out, she found a guy that she dated 5 times in the past. she kicked me out in the past and she took me back after weeks. We have our problems, like most marriage couples ...
A. 15 October 2010: what exactly do you need counseling for? drugs? alcohol? mental issues? without knowing it will be hard to say. have you cheated on her that she knows of? what else could be going on here? also.. she has no right to keep your son from you. ... (read in full...)
So sad...
Q. Hi I need advice as i have no one to confide in My husband had a year an a half affair with a workmate 5 years ago. We did not have sex very often because of me, i was suffering depression after my children and i think he felt regected and ver...
A. 15 October 2010: i am sorry you are so sad. but please remember "this too shall pass"! honestly, i would pack my bags and move on. if he did it once... learn to forgive. twice??? that is insane. you deserve to be happy. you only have one life. living it with someone ... (read in full...)
Are we an item, boyfriend/girlfriend or what?
Q. So me and my friend recently got together secretly. No one in our group of friends know about us. We go out together secretly and Almost everytime we see eachother we end up making out in the car for hours. One particular night on my birthday I had ...
A. 15 October 2010: he can't have his cake and eat it too. don't you dare have sex with him before you make it official.... or why buy the cow if you can get the milk for free sort of thing! lol they make these sayings for a reason! i would say to him that you would ... (read in full...)
Who's my Daddy?
Q. My son's ex lies to their 3 yr. old daughter that my son is not her father that her boyfriend is and her boyfriend reinforces this 100 percent. They will not allow Amy, the little girl, to call anyone daddy but bill the boyfriend. Me and my son ...
A. 15 October 2010: yes i would get a DNA test asap. does your son pay child support?
the tape recorder idea is great. ... (read in full...)
I am not a jealous type person but now I feel like I can't trust my boyfriend and I am becoming a jealous person.
Q. My boyfriend of 5 month and I are very in love. We both are continually amazed at how well we work together. I truly feel his is the only man for me. However, about a month ago I snooped through his phone on a whim. We had been eating dinner at a ...
A. 1 October 2010: thank you. that makes me feel so much better. you are right. the calling it a wash thing actually makes sense to me. because I am terrible sorry and wont be doing that again.... probably the same as he is terribly sorry and wont be doing what he did ... (read in full...)
I am not a jealous type person but now I feel like I can't trust my boyfriend and I am becoming a jealous person.
Q. My boyfriend of 5 month and I are very in love. We both are continually amazed at how well we work together. I truly feel his is the only man for me. However, about a month ago I snooped through his phone on a whim. We had been eating dinner at a ...
A. 1 October 2010: Dirtball,
I do agree with your last 3 paragraphs. Thank you.
Just some insight on this for you.... I don't freak out about him hanging out or texting other women. I actually have never had an issue like this before because I am so trusting. ... (read in full...)
I am not a jealous type person but now I feel like I can't trust my boyfriend and I am becoming a jealous person.
Q. My boyfriend of 5 month and I are very in love. We both are continually amazed at how well we work together. I truly feel his is the only man for me. However, about a month ago I snooped through his phone on a whim. We had been eating dinner at a ...
A. 1 October 2010: I appreciate the answer. I am very stressed out about this and need to come to grips with myself. However, I am certain he has not cheated on me. I am not being nieve about this. This is part of the problem though. Your response is not to trust ... (read in full...)
How do I know if he's gay?
Q. Hi, I'm a boy of 17 and I'm in my last year of high school and I think I love a boy in my class.. It's my first time I love a boy.. and how do I know if he's gay or not? It's not like we're real friends or something, he is just in the sam...
A. 1 October 2010: Does he know if you are gay? Also, thankfully this is your last hear of high school. That means as soon as you are done you can go to college or move to a different town and you will be able to find lots of openly gay men to pursue! I guess I am ... (read in full...)
How do I bring back the spark in our relationship?
Q. Im a woman who has lots of children and my husband wont make love to me anymore he always saids he to tired and wont even touch me in anyway or even give me a cuddle and hold my hand when ever we go anywhere then today at the supermarket i got guys ...
A. 1 October 2010: maybe he is having some issues down there getting things going.... if you know what I mean. if so he is probably embarrassed. maybe he thinks that by holding your hand it will turn you on and then you will find out. i would tread lightly on this ... (read in full...)
Is this the right approach?
Q. I own a marketing company and started dating a guy who owns his own business too. Shortly after meeting he started paying my company to do work for his company. I then broke up with him because I got jealous of his ex who is not in the picture.. ...
A. 1 June 2010: hi west1000!
I read your response the day you wrote it. Thank you for the advice. MY LIFE IS LIKE A SOAP OPERA!! I had already before reading your response... gone completely cool. I put a halt to our meetings, hurried conversations and basicall... (read in full...)
Is this the right approach?
Q. I own a marketing company and started dating a guy who owns his own business too. Shortly after meeting he started paying my company to do work for his company. I then broke up with him because I got jealous of his ex who is not in the picture.. ...
A. 26 May 2010: Thanks for the advice... but now I am really confused. I feel like I have hinted around enough or txted him things like... you know I like you. I can't fake being emotionless around you anymore. Ect..... I am too scared to talk to him about it. ... (read in full...)
I'm not attracted to my girlfriend but I don't want to hurt her
Q. I dont know what to do with this situation? I have a gf that is funny, pretty, smart, but i am not attracted to her sexually. I have never felt a spark between us since weve been dating. My friends like her and find her attractive, my family likes ...
A. 25 April 2010: You need to end the relationship. You need to be quick, short and honest. Do not give her false hope, do not say you need space or time. Simply explain that you do not see a future together and that you need to move on. Then you must not contact her ... (read in full...)
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