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... Send *le a private message | | | *le's profile:I'm 23, engaged to a great guy who is also 23. We have a long distance relationship but also lived together for 7 months. We met online. I have no problems with my relationship and I'm here to give advice, not ask for any. I'm female. I like uncomplicated straight-forwardness in people. I don't play head games and I approach problems with logic, not emotions.
I feel that I can give advice to people dealing with shyness, insecurity, depression, long distance relationships, internet dating, living together, cheating, breaking up, abusive relationships.
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She will not stop being friends with a male friend I dislike... is her love not as much as mine is for her?
Q. why is my gf acting this way. we've been dating for a year now...silly things wants her to stop the relationship. i love her to death and she's the only girl i want cannot imagine my life without her. it happened like 5 times she want to put an ...
A. 5 February 2008: You don't have the right to tell her who she can and can't be friends with. You just have to trust her and let her make her own decisions. It sounds like you are very controlling which is probably why she keeps breaking up with you. You shouldn't ... (read in full...)
I like this shy guy and he knows I like him too but he's still in love with his ex!
Q. He still loves his ex (more like he feels 'lonely and emo' after the breakup). His ex is in the same class as him, so they hang out a lot and they're still best friends and all even before they were together. I chat and IM him a lot. I made the ...
A. 26 January 2008: You'll never know by guessing so just ask him. Communicate with him!... (read in full...)
I have thoughts of her having sex with another man and it gets me depressed ... can we ever have normal sex again?
Q. Hi there aunts! I have a problem. Me and my girlfriend (2 years an a half) had a relationship breakdown quite some time ago. She went to another guy and she told me that she used the moment when she was weak and kissed her. She hinted that they...
A. 26 January 2008: If it would torment both of you to talk about it, then don't. The issue here is not whether or not she has slept with him. If you asked again, and she denied it, you would still doubt her. If she confesses to sleeping with him, then you'll feel ... (read in full...)
I'm disgusted... I found a fake rubber vagina in my bf's closet!
Q. I found a fake rubber sex toy resembling a woman’s vagina in my boyfriend’s closet! I got furious at him and threw it at his face and said “What’s this?” He got angry at me back and said it wasn’t my business, and he had it long before he knew me. ...
A. 26 January 2008: Just because you think sex toys are disgusting doesn't mean that a lot of people will agree with you. I for one think there is nothing wrong with sex toys.
He bought this before he met you, so really it has nothing to do with you. Just because ... (read in full...)
How do I put a condom on my boyfriend??
Q. My bf wants me to put the condom on him when we sleep together, this sounds simple but i've never done it before and i don't want to hurt him. So people who have done this, is it easy?...
A. 25 January 2008: Make sure you have the condom the right side out, it should roll down from the outside, I can't explain this part very well but I hope you understand. Pinch the top of the condom so that there is no air in it and place it on his penis, and roll ... (read in full...)
Split up with my ex-husband again. What can I do?
Q. Help about 3 years ago I had split up with my ex husband again (we keep trying) and had started seeing a beautiful man, who was also a friend, it was very calm, and pain free and also very deep. But there was no spoken commitment as such though it ...
A. 25 January 2008: Don't go out with someone because you feel sorry for them. He's already made the right decision - to stay away from you and get over you, because you stated you only platonically love him. Leave him alone please.... (read in full...)
How to tell my new girlfriend I have two kids?
Q. HI evryone there! dated a lady for 7 years now and we have two lovely sons the problem is she is not respecting me and she talk to me the way she feel like. I lost my intresting on her and I dated other lady this one seems honest , responsible and ...
A. 25 January 2008: Yes! Tell the mother of your children that it's over! Better to break up with her than cheat on her. You have got to tell your new girlfriend about your children as soon as possible. If you deceive her about your children she will find out at some ... (read in full...)
Confused-what is the state of my relationship? do I still love her?
Q. Dear all, I am currently at uni and have met a lovely young woman and we have been going out for just over 3 months, at the start everything was great, i though I loved her and she said she felt the same way. We live in the same house so the real...
A. 25 January 2008: You moved way too fast. Try being friends first and leave the soulmate stuff for now. You experienced the honeymoon phase of a relationship and now the hormone rush has stopped. Can you really say someone is your best friend after 3 months? You ... (read in full...)
Problems approaching women. Which is a good way to talk to them? What do women look for?
Q. I need help, i am a 19 year old guy who has problems approaching women. i am a pretty good looking guy but i just can't build up the nerve to do it. i plan on what i will do then i chicken out. i am in college and surrounded by women that i feel ...
A. 25 January 2008: Just be yourself. Talk to girls like you would talk to guys. We're not special or something. A "hi" is a good start :) I went to an all girls school and when I started college I had no idea how to talk to guys. I thought they must have totally alien ... (read in full...)
I am controlling...how do I stop being this way
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 14 months now. We've never really had problems, but he's good looking, and a lot of girls fancy him. He's just generally a friendly guy, and that's why I love him, but I'm afraid it comes across as ...
A. 25 January 2008: If your boyfriend is attractive then girls will flirt with him. You can't stop them and he can't stop them. But it doesn't mean he is doing anything wrong. My fiance is good looking and he's friendly too, which some girls seem to take as interest. ... (read in full...)
This girl can't get over her paranoia and it's starting to feel like she doesn't trust me.
Q. Ive been with my girl for just over 7 months now and i love her to bits, but she always says how she doesn't deserve me, and asks; "There are way better lookin girls than me why have you chosen me, wouldn't u prefer to be with them?" To begin ...
A. 25 January 2008: I used to be like that when I first started dating as a teenager. I was very insecure and always asking for reassurance. I didn't think I was very atttractive and yes I did say things like "why are you going out with me?"
Fortunately I went out... (read in full...)
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