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writes:I need help, i am a 19 year old guy who has problems approaching women. i am a pretty good looking guy but i just can't build up the nerve to do it. i plan on what i will do then i chicken out. i am in college and surrounded by women that i feel i can't communicate with. i would love any women to tell me what is a good way to open when talking to them, what they look for and how to impress, also if any guys have tips i would greatly appreciate the help. thanks. Reply to this Question
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reader, sophiasparx  +, writes (28 February 2008):
Learn the art and some tried and tested tricks that turn the average joe into a chick magnet. They even did an experiement to prove some of these tips: http://sophiasparx.blogspot.com
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2008): Well, for starters, if you see a girl from your class that you might like, start off by smiling at her when you pass her on campus. That's what I always do when I like someone and want to let them know I am interested. Just smile. Like a "hello" smile. She might smile back and it could eventually evolve into an actual "hello" and maybe even a conversation, eventually. That is the BEST tactic, in my opinion, is just to smile when you walk by someone you like.You could also start out by asking a girl in your class something about the class. For instance, you could approach a girl from your class and ask her if she got the notes about the assignment the teacher mentioned. That in itself could end up in a conversation and is definitely an ice breaker. Furthermore, the girl will remember you from that conversation and may end up saying hello to you from then on and eventually may lead to you both having a cup of coffee together between classes. And just be very casual and friendly and real. Good luck.
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reader, Ele  +, writes (25 January 2008):
Just be yourself. Talk to girls like you would talk to guys. We're not special or something. A "hi" is a good start :) I went to an all girls school and when I started college I had no idea how to talk to guys. I thought they must have totally alien thought processes or something. Then I realised that they were just people like me.Don't try to impress girls. Guys look stupid when they try. As a woman, I'd like a guy to have a normal conversation with me, show some real interest in what I'm saying.For example, join a club or society and talk to the women there. Surely being in the same club will give you a common interest to talk about. Say hi, ask them what they study and what year they're in, why they joined this society, smile, be easy going, and go from there.
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