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My doctor put me on anti-depressants, and I'm noticing my sex drive is THROUGH THE ROOF! How can I counteract this?

Q.   I am so frustrated right now. I've been feeling really down for a while and finally talked to my doctor about it a few weeks ago. He started me on an antidepressant called citalopram (aka celexa) and set me up with a therapist. There are a few ...

A.   8 July 2011: I JUST read an article in the spring 2011 Runner's World Special magazine. It was all about trail running and how one doctor prescribes trail running to his depressed patients. Endorphins are released when you exercise which can give a natural ... (read in full...)

I advised him to give it another try with his ex, but I've fallen for him and now I don't know what to do

Q.   hey, thanks to everyone who will reply to this in advance. So im a 21 year old girl. Ive only had one serious relationship so far and it ended in a mutual break up last year. After that ive gotten close to many guys but there is one guy who ive ...

A.   8 April 2011: There are many reasons why he could be acting this way. I saw my ex girlfriend a few weeks ago, and long story short, she and I have been talking and seeing each other (despite her current boyfriend knowing) more and more. To my point. Maybe fo... (read in full...)

Being 25 & a virgin might be pitiful, but I don't see the need to look for a one-night stand with a stranger

Q.   Ok, just curious, is it so weird for a girl of 25 not to have a boyfriend and have never date and have sex before? i find it super annoying when people ask me these questions and when i say "no", they look at me like I am an alien and start to ...

A.   13 March 2011: I would not say you're pitiful at all for being 25 and a virgin. If I were to meet a girl and she's still a virgin, I'd be really impressed. You should definitely be proud! I've only had sex with one girl and it was while I was in a serious ... (read in full...)

Best condom for my bf to use so I don't get pregnant?

Q.   My bf and are both 18 and want sex what the best condom he can use to prevent pregnancy im not on the pill and don't want to be ...

A.   12 March 2011: Any condom will do. I'd stick with a name brand. Just one of those "you pay for what you get."... (read in full...)

Is there any sure fire way of knowing if he's at all interested in me, besides asking him?

Q.   I've known this guy for awhile now, and I've just recently been getting to know him better. He always smiles at me and says hi, we text each other once in awhile, we always seem to catch each other's eye in class and stuff, but is there any sure ...

A.   8 March 2011: You could always ask him out. I have yet to have a girl ask me out.. I think? It would be such a turn on if a girl asked me instead of me always asking. If you ask him out and he says yes... he's at least a little interested. Otherwise, you... (read in full...)

31 and NEVER had a girlfriend?

Q.   While I have gone on 2 dates when I was 23, I still have no idea really what dating is like. Here is my love bio so to speak: I am a single, straight, successful and educated, 31 year old male. I have never had a girlfriend, nor have I ever ...

A.   28 November 2010: Disagree. Relationships are very much worth it. What's your social life like? I personally believe you need to meet more women and have a close relationship and you'll see why I disagree. I am 10 years younger, had one serious relationship and ... (read in full...)

I've fallen for him, but I don't know just how fond of me he is

Q.   please advise me here. i have totally fallen for my best friend i know hes fond of me but dont know how much. on occasions i have vaguely made jokey suggestions and he says he has lots of affection for me in a sisterly way. i was crushed then lat...

A.   9 May 2010: turning a friendship into a "more than a friendship" relationship is a tricky thing. I have many female friends.. some of whom I definitely consider my best friends. I've been attracted to those best friends before. I know some have been ... (read in full...)

What I see in my police job makes me afraid for my own kids

Q.   I am a father of 3 teenage children 1 son and 2 daughters (13, 15 and 16) I am also a police officer. Over the past year we have been called to many parties with underage drinking/and or fights and once we got there we found live sex, orgies, group ...

A.   9 May 2010: As a 20 year old I've never experienced anything quite like that. I don't smoke pot, don't do drugs, but I drink and have my fun in college (and some of high school). I leave it at that though.. fun. I go out on the weekends with my friend and ... (read in full...)

How can I make the move from locking eyes to simply talking with the girl?

Q.   I know it's easy, but I tend to make eye contact with cute girls often. I see girls on campus, when I'm out to eat, etc. Sometimes the girl will look away, other times we'll lock eyes. ...and continue to check each other out. I have no idea how...

A.   7 May 2010: I have no problem once the conversation's started. It's that initial conversation starter that I have trouble with. Maybe it's just me or a lack of courage.. but I'd have no clue what to say when I go talk to a girl in a group. Also, I'd feel ... (read in full...)

Need answers on first time sex!

Q.   did you have sex with your first girlfriend/boyfriend? Were you their first girlfriend/boyfriend too? How old were the both of you?...

A.   7 May 2010: She wasn't my first girlfriend, but she and I were each other's first. We were 19.... (read in full...)

He promised me forever, ...but here I am single after only 4 months.

Q.   I recently broke up with my boyfriend, we were only together for 4 months but he pormised we'd always be together, and he was moving away..and promised me long distance would work. However after a week we broke up :( He's over it completely and ...

A.   2 May 2010: Although I was in love with my then girlfriend, I never promised anything about the future. We talked about it.. talked about what we wanted in the future. We were obviously talking about the future between us.. but never actually mentioned "us." ... (read in full...)

I am in a relationship blackhole. Am I being too picky?

Q.   hi all ..... Im having a huge problem.. a relationship "black hole ". since i split up with my ex fiance (3 years ago ) i have been going up and down with relationships, and i just dont know if im being to picky or ifs its me that the relation...

A.   29 March 2010: You may be in a black hole of relationships because of how hard you are trying to make it happen. A lot of times, relationships just happen. Don't worry about finding "Mr. Right" tomorrow evening just because you want to settle down now. You and ... (read in full...)

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