Could it lead to a custody battle if I let my Turkish friend know I was pregnant by him?
Q. I'm nearly 20 and having a baby that is the result of a one night stand with a turkish boy the same age as me whilst I was on holiday. We used a condom but it must have split. The only way I have of contacting him is facebook, although I haven't ...
A. 15 January 2009: I'm not a legal expert but I would guess that if your baby is born in the uk, the uk parental rights laws would apply ie he has to go to register the birth with you to have parental rights. He could of course apply for parental rights at a later ... (read in full...)
He's stressing me out and I'm pregnant and don't need it! Help!
Q. Okay this is the third bulletin I send out in like less than 5 minutes and I appoligize I just got a lot of problems that i need some sort of opionion from a stranger that is willing to take some sort of time to care, at least a little. Well, Okay.. ...
A. 15 January 2009: During my pregnancy I used the babycentre website a lot, there are forums, loadsa info on there & they send you weekly developmental emails.
Over the next month or so it'll start to get a bit easier, not suddenly noticeably but you'll be less tire... (read in full...)
Will I be able to love anyone else as much as I loved my first love?
Q. A few years ago I went out with this guy and we were together for over a year. We honestly did love each other and we have kept close contact until very recently. The thing is he still loved me even after 2 years after we broke up. I didn't realise ...
A. 11 January 2009: Each time you fall in love it will be different that's what makes love so wonderful. Don't expect your current or future partner to act exactly the same (just think if everyone was the same the world would be a boring place!)
So while time does... (read in full...)
Worries about applying for a course at University.
Q. I dropped out of university in October as I knew from day one the course was not for me. I'm going to be studying nursing in september. I can admit that i'm not so overly passionate about the course in general and I can't entirely see myself ...
A. 11 January 2009: I've quit 3 degree courses & when I finally get to the end of my current professional exams I can do a dissertation & get a degree from a joint scheme. By then I'll be 15 years older than I would have been if completed the first one., but I also ... (read in full...)
Choked during sex...was it wrong of him??
Q. I've been with my overly passionate, subtle and lovely boyfriend for some time now. He's not very spontanous, everything seems like a walk in the park... and almost routine. Last night we had sex. And he started choking me towards the end out of the ...
A. 11 January 2009: People are turned on by all sorts of acts, don't use your enjoyment to be the measure of this.
If as a couple you are both willing to engage in these sort of acts you need to have a mutually agreed code word to stop if it has gone too far for eith... (read in full...)
Help me move on please!
Q. Hey I've recently split up from my boyfriend of 3 years and am having a really hard time. I just cannot move on from the fact that he could hurt me. Basically it's like everything he had said to me, he'd been saying to someone else the entire t...
A. 11 January 2009: It's said the best revenge is success. By that I'm not advocating revenge is the route to go down but focusing on making a success of your own life will do wonders for your self esteem & when he hears on the grapevine how well you are doing he'll ... (read in full...)
How can I shake off the thought of him?
Q. I'm feeling very sad today, I don't know why, the thought of my ex keeping coming to my head, I can't seem to shake it off. It has been 3 months since he broke up with me. I've tried almost everything to block the thought of him, I went out ...
A. 11 January 2009: You could try the gym - a real good physical workout works for me - the mind doesn't have any space left for thoughts. If you're not a member of a gym just try a good old fashioned run count your breaths/ pace etc ... tomorrow is another day... (read in full...)
Husband cheated when we were still dating, and he did this because I cheated on him.
Q. I cheated on my boyfriend (fling, got pregnant, had an abortion), and I did this because I thought our relationship was over. It wasn't over, and we got back together. He found out and he'd hurt me every time he remembers what I did. After a few ...
A. 11 January 2009: You say you can't stop thinking of your man making love to this girl. It isn't your man that did that, it was your man 9 years ago who was a different person. Since then the two of you have grown & changed together, without each other neither of ... (read in full...)
Is it okay for your spouse to be overly jealous...?
Q. I really need some help here, I am currently in a relationship of 8 years and counting, when we first got together all was well, until I told a lie about a homey loverfriend, after the lie it seemed like there was not trust there, he began going out ...
A. 11 January 2009: You know what, it sounds to me like you've fallen out of love with him & you are getting ready to move on (I don't mean move on to the next nearest male) I mean move on with your life. People grow & change & only when they talk enough to keep in ... (read in full...)
Can't get him out of my head
Q. i was with a man for six years and he has left me for a women he has known ova 20 years,he is a crack user and hurt me and my kids, i cant get him out of my head, and he is stayin in the same road as me with her, what can i do?...
A. 11 January 2009: There are a lot of serious issues going on here in your short post.
The most important point is that you & your kids must be safe & be able to live in a safe environment.
Be honest with yourself, whether he's always been a crack user the w... (read in full...)
1st time sex no blood--he doesn't really believe I was a virgin
Q. When I had sex for the first time I never bled? I don't understand why. I masturbated a few times but like I just used to like rub my clit and stuff. I never put my hands inside my vagina. Before sex, my fiance used to finger me sometimes but I ...
A. 11 January 2009: From your post it sounds like you're asking two separate questions
- why was there no blood
- why doesn't he believe me
The most important is the latter, but just to answer the first - not everyone does bleed noticeably the first time they ... (read in full...)
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