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... Send *arity a private message | | | *arity's profile:Hi! Iam Darity, married for 13years, have two beautiful children. I am mostly a stay at home Mom, work occasionally.
I guess, I have relationship problems the same as anyone else and feel if someone can help me then I should try to help them.
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Is it time to end this marriage?
Q. Long marriage story...should we split and if so how can we make it on our own?? I've been married almost ten years we met the summer I graduated highschool we have 3 beautiful children. I'm miserable he is miserable but we love each other have fun ...
A. 23 April 2009: First off, if he doesn't have a job how is he paying for the drugs and alcohol, are you supporting that habit and if so, why?? I feel for you and feel you really do need a change in your life. Yes, I feel you are being held back by this man and I ... (read in full...)
Would you forgive him and take him back?
Q. I have a live-in boyfriend of three years. Here's my problem: I want to know if I can trust him today to be what he claims he is. But I don't trust him and wonder if I should give it a shot or walk. In the first 1.5 years, he hated my thr...
A. 21 April 2009: This story is very sad, I don't know how you have stayed with this man as long as you did and let him use you this way. Your children should always come first no matter what.
Sure he is nice now, but you know the man that is inside waiting to come... (read in full...)
Am I already on the shelf at 30?
Q. Well, where do I start? I'm 30 now and my life is coming together nicely. I have had a lot of crap to deal with in my life over the last 7 years after my Dad passing away unexpectedly, looking after my Nan (his mum) who has been suffering from ...
A. 21 April 2009: I am sorry to hear about your fathers passing and your tough life you lead, but it sounds like you are on the right track now. I can tell you all the good women are not taken, I am sure you think you are a good man and your not taken at thirty, so I ... (read in full...)
The sex is fantastic....but the rest of the relationship is terrible!
Q. Help! I'm in a relationship...but we don't get along, the relationship is terrible. I want to break-up with her, but the sex is just too good. My question is how can i get over her good sex?...
A. 17 April 2009: Hi Just wondering how your doing? Are you still with her or did you move on?
--Darity
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My husband likes to watch me sleeping. Is this odd?
Q. ok its a little weird but i have been married 7 and 1/2 years and ever since i got married when i go to bed at night after i am asleep my husband will mess with me in my sleep and i will wake up and not say anything but just pretend like i am still ...
A. 17 April 2009: I had a relationship with the same kind of situation, He would wake me up feeling me sexually and rubing on me and I would just tell him to leave me alone and he would or I would except his advances and have great sex. I felt he just was that into ... (read in full...)
How can I get her to give me that chance and start building her trust again?
Q. I'm worried that i've lost the girl of my dreams forever. We were together for 4 years and in the last few months i didn't realise how distant i had become. We broke up in November because of this but we both missed each other so much that we got ...
A. 17 April 2009: I am sorry about your Grandfather...death is the coldest part of reality, and it is never easy. As far as your relationship trust is a very hard thing to regain once it is lost. Even if you are able to mend the relationship she will never really ... (read in full...)
Go with the flow or time to talk about it now?
Q. I've been casually dating this guy for about eight months. We have not been exclusive. I'm going thru a divorce and he had just broken up with his girlfriend when we first started hanging out. We have talked almost everyday since the beginning, ...
A. 17 April 2009: Do you want to be exclusive is the question? Do you feel you are ready for this after a divorce? If so, then I would definatley talk to him and see what he is thinking. He maybe is ready for a commitment now that he found closure in his last ... (read in full...)
Go with the flow or time to talk about it now?
Q. I've been casually dating this guy for about eight months. We have not been exclusive. I'm going thru a divorce and he had just broken up with his girlfriend when we first started hanging out. We have talked almost everyday since the beginning, ...
A. 17 April 2009: So what is the problem here? I guess I don't understand, you have strong feelings for this man and now he is showing the same for you and thats a problem? Maybe I just didn't understand the question. I say if you love him then what is wrong with him ... (read in full...)
The sex is fantastic....but the rest of the relationship is terrible!
Q. Help! I'm in a relationship...but we don't get along, the relationship is terrible. I want to break-up with her, but the sex is just too good. My question is how can i get over her good sex?...
A. 16 April 2009: Just a womans perspective on the situation. I was also in a relationship that the sex was great, but the relationship lacked. I feel if you move on and find that special one, that true love, you will find great sex and a great relationship. If you ... (read in full...)
I don't want him to be friends with girls unless they are my friends too!
Q. My boyfriend doesn't really have much time for friends. But when he does, it seems that his guy friends have turned into ass holes..and he doesnt want to hang out with them. He started talking to a girl that he has been friends with for the past 4 ...
A. 16 April 2009: I have just went through the same situation and I can tell you the end result - for us anyway. I lost my husband because I didn't trust him having female friends and I know he loved me, but he felt betrayed that I didn't trust him enough to believe ... (read in full...)
Is he innocent? Or a nut?
Q. Help! My husband has been texting/calling a lady for over a month and says I shouldn't mind this. At first I thought it was just innocent friendly, keeping in touch chat. He supposedly meet her on the road (he is a otr truck driver) and breifly ...
A. 15 April 2009: Thank you to everyone for the advice, but unfortunately our marriage is over we have decided to go seperate roads as he can not forgive me for my past. He says I screwed things up for him and this great friendship he had with this lady and I had no ... (read in full...)
Follow up: My husband has impregnated a girl-twice in our marriage
Q. This is a follow up to My husband has impregnated a girl twice during our marriage! http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-husband-has-impregnated-a-girl-twice-during.html Thanks to all those who responded to my question i really vaue all your...
A. 28 March 2009: Trust is a very hard thing to regain once lost. I feel for you. You have a baby now and yes it would be great to keep the family together, but what do you feel deep down inside? Will he ever be able to forget about person A? They have had a long on ... (read in full...)
Will having anal sex ruin you or stretch you out in "that area"??
Q. Just curious... will having anal sex ruin you or stretch you out in "that area"?? How long does it generally take to work up to being able to actually have anal sex without it hurting so much?...
A. 24 March 2009: I just wanted to let you know to much anal sex when your young can lead to inability to hold your bowels when you get older.... Just something to think about. ... (read in full...)
Is he innocent? Or a nut?
Q. Help! My husband has been texting/calling a lady for over a month and says I shouldn't mind this. At first I thought it was just innocent friendly, keeping in touch chat. He supposedly meet her on the road (he is a otr truck driver) and breifly ...
A. 18 March 2009: I just talked to him on the phone and he will not apologize to me says he has done nothing wrong and that the lady is making this stuff up to mess things up for him. and if I believe her then I should file for divorce because he did nothing wronge ... (read in full...)
I desperately need your advice aunts! Where do I go from here?
Q. I recently posted a question about my fiance and I having problems with him betraying my trust, but I didnt mention that 2 years ago I did something awful as well... Our relationship back then was pretty awful. He was always nasty to me, we fought...
A. 18 March 2009: He really needs to forgive you or it is not going to work. I have been married 13years and I to did something I regret and my husband has yet to forgive me and every time we have an argument it is brang up again, I am saying if you want a life of ... (read in full...)
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