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reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2009): The calim that anal sex will lead to "leaking" problems later in life is an old wives tale (told by women who don't like anal)... there's plenty of factual information on anal sex on the internet- read up and learn. The anus is a muscle group and working those muscles will actually make them a bit stronger. Be careful to avoid injurys (tears) and don't be too aggressive. Lots of lube and learn to accept his penis and you should be fine. Anal sex should never be painful! Enjoy and relax!
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reader, Darity  +, writes (24 March 2009):
 I just wanted to let you know to much anal sex when your young can lead to inability to hold your bowels when you get older.... Just something to think about.
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reader, Anonny  +, writes (24 March 2009):
Yeah - I agree with the others! - Our body parts all have a specific function and the vagina was made for intercourse NOT the anus - hence the reason why it hurts so much and rips/bleeds etc while having sex!!
If your man is wanting anal sex - go tell him to find a bloke to do it with as opposed to you!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2009): I have a strong feeling guppy pig is right.I have never had anal sex.A guy who asked me for an indecent affair said that my ass looked great and he would like to do it.I was repulsed and just stopped talking with the guy.You are much more than a piece of meat.
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reader, barco +, writes (24 March 2009):
Its a muscle...it should be able to stretch. But like any muscle it needs to be exercised up to a certain size and doing too much can cause damage. The likely damage could be premature hemmoroids or tearing.
Your young though so your tissues would be more flexible. It also depends on the size though you are trying to accomodate.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2009): Don't listen to these folks. They're a little uptight :)
If you're careful, use bucketloads of lube and go SLOW and I mean SLOW then nothing at all will happen to you. If you want to be having anal sex all the time without lube and your partner is very rough, then you might experience some stretching. It will heal in time, though.
Just be extra careful because STD infection is an issue and you can get tiny tears if you are not careful.
Personally I will never try anal sex but I accept that it's a legitimate source of pleasure for way, way more people than who admit it...
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (24 March 2009):
 When you eat your dinner do you shove the peas up your nose and down your throat or do you use that perfectly functional mouth? I firmly believe that if you use body parts for things they aren't designed for you ARE going to regret it sooner or later.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (24 March 2009):
Lots of anal sex can stretch you out permanently in the same way the childbirth or lots of normal sex can stretch out your vagina.
Your anus is not designed to have things shoved up there like your vagina is so you should be careful not to do it too much.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, guppypig +, writes (24 March 2009):
Occasionally, the anus may tear and cause infection, but it heals eventually. But given proper lubrication, the anus should accommodate the average penis/dildo quite easily within a week or two of constant practice. It won't ruin you physically, if that's what you're asking, at least after a fortnight.
It may ruin your self-respect, however. And that's permanent.
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