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... Send *anBing a private message | | | *anBing's profile:I am nearly 20 yers of age! Studying music at university!
I am in a fairly serious relationship that has been going about 3 and a half months.
I have had a few problems with this relationship. It makes it easier knowing there are people out there who also have problems and I find helping them with advice really helps me! |
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Are we using each other?
Q. Please a man's point of view I have a situation that is forever nagging at me. The man i love is married. We were friends and dated before he got married. It did not work out because we were neither emotionally ready for a relationship. Wh...
A. 20 August 2007: You really aren't being fair to your family!
I understand the situation is complicated but you shouldn't let it go on. Your partner is probably oblivious to what's going on?!
He hasn't done anything wrong and doesn't deserve this.
You sho... (read in full...)
How effective is the contraceptive injection??
Q. Me and my gf ave been having sex for about 3 months now and we have always used condoms, we both lost our virginity to each other so we know there are no std's or anything nasty.Its just as some of you may know its not always convinient to stop and ...
A. 17 August 2007: My gf is on it. She has to have it every 90 days but it may be different. It takes 5 (call it a week to be safe) days to begin working after first injection. Apparently it doesn't hurt! 99% effective. Same as pill etc, 99% effective throu... (read in full...)
She is not as commited as I am
Q. Hello all. Fairly long dilemma/question, here goes…. My girlfriend and I are now approaching 4 months together. It has been both the best and most depressing time of my life. I am totally in love with her. I fell for her when she had a boyf...
A. 17 August 2007: Thank you very much! Any1 else got an opinion?... (read in full...)
She is not as commited as I am
Q. Hello all. Fairly long dilemma/question, here goes…. My girlfriend and I are now approaching 4 months together. It has been both the best and most depressing time of my life. I am totally in love with her. I fell for her when she had a boyf...
A. 17 August 2007: I don't quite understand what you mean here.
I'm not accusing her, I haven't told her about my insecurities, hence me being on here!
She does have a history of it, so it wouldn't be a false accusation if I did! Yes I will happily admit I ... (read in full...)
He promises that he'll divorce her, but he never does!
Q. Hello, My bf and i have dated for the past 4 years. He is legally married with a kid. His "wife" is in Europe. They have been separated even before our relationship (she had to go back to Sweden and he stayed in Germany). He moved to US and thats ...
A. 8 August 2007: Shock him and lay it on the line. Say unless he sorts it out you dont want to be with him anymore.
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Should I still ask him out given that I'm 19, he's 35?
Q. I'm an 19 year old girl and I'm interested in dating someone who is 35. I think he likes me but I'm afraid that he'll say no if I ask him if he feels the same. I think this because of our age difference. Should I still ask?...
A. 5 August 2007: Do it! Age is only a number!... (read in full...)
My boyfriend broke up with me and I feel lost.
Q. I just split with my boyfriend tonight well he finished me. I’m 17 and have been going out with him since I was 14. He is a yr older than me and has been in love before but I haven’t. We lost our virginities together and I lost everything to him. ...
A. 5 August 2007: No respect for you by the sounds of it!
Forget about this guy and move on because he will continue to hurt you, however hard it is it will be better in the long run.
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I wanted to still be friends with my ex, but now he won't respond to me
Q. I broke up with my bf 3 weeks ago and we mutually expressed the desire to always remain friends. After breaking up, I expressed the need for some space and no contact so my feelings and thoughts could settle down. Now I have tried to call he ...
A. 5 August 2007: Talking to you may upset him. Myabe now he needs that space to get through it!? Time is a healer, I'm sure he will contact you.... (read in full...)
I love him, but my mom doesn't. Should I choose him or my family?
Q. I am totally in love. head over heels for this guy. there is a 7 year difference between us. my mother will not stand for it, and is trying to put him in jail because i am only 17. ive been with this guy {behind her back} for a year now, and I'm so ...
A. 5 August 2007: your family shouldnt be making you choose!
He's 24/25 your 18 nearly! thats fine!... (read in full...)
My boyfriend goes out on the weekend and leaves me alone with our baby
Q. Me an my boyfriend live together. We have an eight month old. He workd a 9-5 and i am almost done w/ college so i stay home w/ the baby accept for tue and thurs when i go to school. My boyfriend goes out every weekend fri, sat. Sometimes he ...
A. 5 August 2007: He is not being totally fair.
Yes you should trust him if he hasnt given you reason to not!
Yes his social life should not completely stop but he has to take far more responsibility and cut down on his social life. Maybe one night out of the... (read in full...)
What do guys find attractive in a girl?
Q. this is to all you guys out there! Plz tell me what you find atractive in a girl and also in foreplay. What things can she do to make you go crazy!!!Well i appreciate your honest replies thank u all!...
A. 5 August 2007: depends on they guy really.
Most guys find confidence in a girl very attractive! ... (read in full...)
I don't love him like I used to; how can I dump him without hurting him?
Q. i'm a sixteen year old girl and in a relationship that isn't exactly fair. i've been going out with this guy for seven months and for the first few months we argueed every week and quit talking. now he's constantly saying that there's no secrets in ...
A. 2 August 2007: Great advice there.
Obviously do it sooner rather than later to avoid hurting him even more!... (read in full...)
should i go off to school or spend the rest of my life with him?
Q. me and my boyfriend have been going out for a little over a month. he asked me out a week or so before he went to basic. he is amazing and i love him to death. i know it is crazy but i do. anyways the day he was on his way to basic he asked me to ...
A. 1 August 2007: There is no point in rushing.
If you both want to be together forever then you have all the time in the world to get married! The relationship ian't going to end just becuase you decide not to marry immidiately!
You may even ruin the good th... (read in full...)
How can I cope with her breaking up with me?
Q. I have been going out with my girlfriend for the past 10 months. Only recently she has moved back home to Wales and since then the relationship has seemed strained. She has been home for about a month and is now asking for space. Things have seem...
A. 1 August 2007: Wildlife dude is right! Time is a healer.
You really need to give her the space she needs. Dont contact her, let her contact you. The more you hassle her the worse it may get!
From there its 50/50
She either wnts to distant herself from ... (read in full...)
Seen her text messages from another guy! How do I talk to her about this?
Q. Hi all. I have been with my girlfriend just over 3 months now and I am totally in love with her and I do really believe that she loves me and things are amazing most of the time. However I have a jealousy/trust issue. I checked ...
A. 1 August 2007: Thank you very much sweet thing, great advice!!
I did get an excuse. That she was too tired but i would see her tomorrow.
I once again immidiately jumped to conclusions assuming she had gone to meet him however about an hour and a half later... (read in full...)
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