Commitment - Phob - a load of BS??
Q. I have been "seeing" this guy for about six months now. We sleep together regularly...we spend a lot of time together...alone and in groups - we share many mutual friends. We have never labeled what "We are" but we both acknowledge our care for one ...
A. 18 October 2011: it's not bs. Sometimes people really just need time. And the thing is, you don't want to push him to be in an official relationship if that isn't what he wants. The main question is, are you happy? If you are, don't think about it. If you aren't and ... (read in full...)
No orgasm from oral sex. Am I weird?
Q. I can't orgasm from oral sex! Only from masturbating can i do it. When my boyfriend uses his hands down there it feels good, I just think I haven't had an orgasm from that because I'm too nervous (performance anxiety) about NOT having an orgasm. So ...
A. 6 March 2011: aggh! It's just so hard not to be nervous! But i'll try....... (read in full...)
I want to celebrate our 9 month anniversary, but I have a family obligation that same day!
Q. Hey! Me and my boyfriend are goin out 9 months next week and i want it to be really special, we've organized a few things aswell. Its just my mam wants me to go to my cousins confirmation on the same day!:( . How can i tell her that i cant go?...
A. 19 January 2011: sorry but 9 months isn't an anniversary. Only high schoolers do those (and even when I was in HS i didn't understand it). You have something more important to do that day than just a random 9 month excuse. It sounds like BS. youre going to england ... (read in full...)
I don't catch any attention from guys!
Q. There's been something that's been unnerving me for some time. I get told that I'm pretty, and funny, and a catch, yet I still don't get any attention from guys. I'm coming to the conclusion that those might just be pity lines thrown my way. The ...
A. 19 January 2011: Sounds just like me in high school. Always called beautiful, but never really getting asked out. Are you sure you aren't getting attention? You might be, it just isn't who you want it to be from. Besides that, I have to give the general answer of it ... (read in full...)
I lied and told my boyfriend I was the same age as him, but the gig is up when we celebrate our birthdays!
Q. So I've done something stupid and need your advice on how to fix it...I've been with my bf for 3 months, he's amazing and I am falling for him. Now, the problem is that I told him I'm 29, but I'm actually 30 (he's 29). I didn't intentionally lie, ...
A. 19 January 2011: That's not really a big deal. Just go up to him and be like "baby.....um you know how youre excited about our birthdays coming up? Well here's the thing, I'm 30 already....I lied about my age because I didn't know how you would take it and I'm ... (read in full...)
How can I reach 177cm tall?
Q. Hi! I am 17 and only 168 cm tall. From young, I am the shortest in the class and in military band. All my friends are just taller and bigger than me. I feel left out when we do sports or hanging out. My family include my uncles and aunts are rela...
A. 19 January 2011: honestly, there really isn't much you can do. But it's ok! Just exude confidence and girls will like you! If it helps, I'm 18 and my boyfriend is 4 inches shorter than me but I love him. He asked me out and I said yes because of his confidence, ... (read in full...)
Sex is getting to be a pain in the rear!
Q. Ok I am so confused. I have had a total of 3 long term relationships in my 20 years of dating. 2 of my Xs are still dear friends and each has moved on. I have been in my current relationship with a much younger man for about 6 months now. It has ...
A. 19 January 2011: In the future it could irritate the walls of your vagina as well as you not having lubrication to help the skin "stretch" might cause smalls tears/cuts. Try to get him to like it by first not even using lube for sex or handjobs/blowjobs but instead ... (read in full...)
Do I have to tell this guy I'm seeing about my past sexual experience?
Q. Do i have to tell this guy im seeing about my past sexual relationships and experiences or does it not matter?... things have been going really well, and weve been getting to know each other, i just wondered if it was neccessary to tell him? He ...
A. 19 January 2011: Well do you want to know about his past experiences? This becomes important later when thinking about the risk of contracting any STI or STD. If you want him to tell you then you should tell him. But make sure he knows (or thinks) that none of those ... (read in full...)
What does this text my ex sent really mean?
Q. I just wanted to get a little insight on my ex's recent text. Here's a quick background: The ex and I were living/together for 6 years. He left me 4 months ago for another woman. I was/am heartbroken. I began NC about 2 months ago and have stu...
A. 19 January 2011: To me it seems like he misses you, his current relationship must not be going well, and he's reaching out (wants to see you). It's up to you to figure out how your previous relationship with him was and is it worth it to meet up with him again? He ... (read in full...)
I love him, but my relationship is SO BORING (the sex too)
Q. I'm 18, my boyfriend is 19, and we've been together for a year. I truly do love him, don't want to leave him, and really can't picture myself with another guy. I've even tried talking to other guys (when we were on a two week break), really cute ...
A. 17 November 2010: I'm not staying just because he says that, I'm staying because I actually do love him. There was a period of time where we took some time off (he kinda broke it apart for a bit) and i felt horrible that I had actually lost him. When we finally got ... (read in full...)
I'm 25 and have never been kissed
Q. Dear Cupid I am a 25 year old female and I have never been kissed. It's not for a lack of trying, as I have put my self out there several times in hopes that when I do the guy will respond positively. Never happens. They always tell me the same thi...
A. 17 November 2010: Well many guys are shallow, so to be honest "not horrible looking" really doesn't give us much insight. As far as everything else (your love for cartoons and whatnot, p.s. i love em too), you just have to find someone with those same interest. ... (read in full...)
Doesn't want a relationship but still acts as if we were still together
Q. Ok so my boyfriend of one year said that he wants us to take a break. He used to be head over heels in love with me, even so much as saying that he could see me as his wife. But this past summer was extremely difficult for the both of us and I said ...
A. 8 September 2010: I tried to do the whole "well fine don't talk to me anymore if we can't be together" thing, and he really missed me and got back together with me because he said "he feared losing me forever". Problem is that even though we were back together, he ... (read in full...)
Doesn't want a relationship but still acts as if we were still together
Q. Ok so my boyfriend of one year said that he wants us to take a break. He used to be head over heels in love with me, even so much as saying that he could see me as his wife. But this past summer was extremely difficult for the both of us and I said ...
A. 8 September 2010: I told him that maybe we should not be together then and that i thought he shouldnt be with me then since he didn't take any of my ideas seriously (which i really didnt......i just wanted to get a point across). It was stupid because at that time he ... (read in full...)
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