He gets out of jail soon. Should I leave my abusive boyfriend now or stay and try again with him?
Q. Hi I'm new here and this is my first time using a site like this. I just hope to get the best out of it. Anyways, so, I have a boyfriend who's incarcerated at the present moment and he's very verbally, mentally, and emotionally abusive. I'm in love...
A. 11 September 2011: Follow everyone's advice here. This guy is going to kill you if you stay with him. Leave - and leave carefully.... (read in full...)
A am female and have only male friends - is this abnormal?
Q. My best friend is female but she's gay and recently I made another female friend who is also gay. Other than that, all my friends are male. I don't feel comfortable with women - I didn't have many girl friends in school because I was so shy and I ...
A. 11 September 2011: Thank you, lovely ladies. I'm not married or in a relationship right now and it only bothered one boyfriend. I think I'll have to write another dearcupid question because it's kind of complicated but I feel more comfortable talking with guys - we ... (read in full...)
Am I being overly sensitive because he didn't say sorry for giving me a really bad cold?
Q. I'm casually seeing this guy...he is seeing a few other women - to make a long story short, my best friend is his sister and they live together. She thought he was coming down with a cold, so when we went out and I got him some cold medicine. He ...
A. 11 September 2011: Thanks, CindyCares. :)... (read in full...)
How can I change my BF's behaviour toward me?
Q. I don't like the way my boyfriend has been treating me lately. Like today , we were suppose to go together and study at the library when he realize that he had lost 100 bucks, he became super sad looking for it all over his dorm and ended up wanting ...
A. 11 September 2011: Would you say that your boyfriend is self-centered, selfish, manipulative and makes you feel bad about yourself? I had an ex who has all these traits - esp. the one you wrote - "he knows how to make me the bad person in every situation." He ... (read in full...)
I want, need, to be more confident. But how?
Q. Hi, I would like to be more confident around my girlfriend. I always feel so needy around her and i always seem to initiate things from emotional comfort and for sex. Could anyone give me tips on how to be more confident? Thank you...
A. 10 September 2011: I totally agree with PerhapsNot about picking up a new hobby and trying new things, working out and not making your girlfriend your go-to person for all things.
I used to be so emotionally insecure with my boyfriends - clingy and terribly jealous.... (read in full...)
How? Is it possible to get my cat back as first priority? And get my ex boyfriend back too?
Q. Here is a brief paragraph of my situation. My ex and I broke up this month after a year relationship. We had a huge fight during a trip right before (this is our first huge fight, we were basically ignoring each other during the trip). When we ...
A. 10 September 2011: You've got some good advice here so I'm just going to focus on your cat, who I assume you love very much? Get your cat back ASAP and don't worry about crying in front of him...what if he gives your cat away or sends it to the pound or something? ... (read in full...)
I love her . Loved helping her. But she hurts me so much. Does this sound like a relationship with a future?
Q. Hi, So Me (17) and my Gf (14) have been going out for 6 months, I have always done everything I could for her, Bought her games to play when her mum was drunk, Spent weekends out with her. Did everything I could for her. I even managed to get her ...
A. 10 September 2011: Wow, she's 14 - she's pretty much a kid with some major emotional problems. You've done everything for her but it's never enough. AND you got rid of your friends because she was jealous - a totally unreasonable demand on her part. It sounds like... (read in full...)
Am I being overly sensitive because he didn't say sorry for giving me a really bad cold?
Q. I'm casually seeing this guy...he is seeing a few other women - to make a long story short, my best friend is his sister and they live together. She thought he was coming down with a cold, so when we went out and I got him some cold medicine. He ...
A. 10 September 2011: Well I'm back again with strep throat. Thanks everyone for replying. I talked to the doctor about seeing someone who has casual partners and of course he's confirmed everyone's diagnonis here: STOP SEEING HIM. Thank you, Tisha & Jmtmj - the MSID ... (read in full...)
Have you ever broken off a friendship because of things your friend did? I feel so guilty...
Q. This girl I have been friends with for 3 years were once close. We'd chat or talk every day. But then as I got to know her, I realized things about her I never knew. And I cut off the friendship for the final time a little time ago. One thing is I ...
A. 9 September 2011: No way are you a traitorous bitch and I commend you! If you don't like her values - or in her case - lack of values - why should you feel obligated to be friends someone you don't think is a good person? My ex boyfriend ended his friendship with a ... (read in full...)
Am I being overly sensitive because he didn't say sorry for giving me a really bad cold?
Q. I'm casually seeing this guy...he is seeing a few other women - to make a long story short, my best friend is his sister and they live together. She thought he was coming down with a cold, so when we went out and I got him some cold medicine. He ...
A. 8 September 2011: I'm back again. According to his texts he does think that he got me sick. And I'm really really sick. So is it so much to ask, just out of politeness for him to text "I'm sorry you're sick"? And "feel better?" He had plenty of opportunity ... (read in full...)
My wife thinks I have a small penis!
Q. I have a troubling issue in my marriage. To get right to the point, it has to do with penis size and my wife's perception. I am about 5.75 by 5 around and I always thought fairly average. When my wife and I talk it is clear that she thinks ...
A. 8 September 2011: What the hell context is she bringing this up in? Don't let her destroy your self-esteem. I went through a "size matters" period but that was with boyfriends who were mostly only into intercourse, but I have to tell you that I recently had a l... (read in full...)
My ex has forgotten when my birthday is. Do I have a right to be peeved or am I making a big deal of nothing?
Q. My ex and me were together for just under six months. It's been several months now since we broke up. We've tried to be friends since then but it has been difficult for me because she ended it and then got a new boyfriend soon after. Anyway, t...
A. 8 September 2011: I don't know what your ex's motivations are - she truly wants to remain friends, she likes the attention of having someone to pine after her, or someone to fall back on in case things don't work out -- but if communication with her hurts you, you ... (read in full...)
Am I being overly sensitive because he didn't say sorry for giving me a really bad cold?
Q. I'm casually seeing this guy...he is seeing a few other women - to make a long story short, my best friend is his sister and they live together. She thought he was coming down with a cold, so when we went out and I got him some cold medicine. He ...
A. 8 September 2011: Thank you EyesWideOpen for your blunt reply. Getting HIV is not worth the risk. This is the first time I've ever had a casual relationship. I'm not interested in having a boyfriend at this point in my life and I thought seeing someone with no ... (read in full...)
Am I being overly sensitive because he didn't say sorry for giving me a really bad cold?
Q. I'm casually seeing this guy...he is seeing a few other women - to make a long story short, my best friend is his sister and they live together. She thought he was coming down with a cold, so when we went out and I got him some cold medicine. He ...
A. 8 September 2011: Thanks everyone for your comments...you're right, I need to take responsibility for my health and immediately stop seeing him especially with the possibility of getting HIV...he uses condoms but he does everything else so I need to get away from ... (read in full...)
My ex has forgotten when my birthday is. Do I have a right to be peeved or am I making a big deal of nothing?
Q. My ex and me were together for just under six months. It's been several months now since we broke up. We've tried to be friends since then but it has been difficult for me because she ended it and then got a new boyfriend soon after. Anyway, t...
A. 8 September 2011: I keep forgetting two of my closest cousin's birthdays, and I've grown up with them for most of my life...also, the best friend I've made this year - I don't remember her birthday and she has to keep asking me when mine is...adding to the fact that ... (read in full...)
To tell? Or not to tell? I cheated twice on him
Q. Hi everyone! I've asked two questions before about my relationship with my bf of 4 1/2 years. Well I have another question for everyone. I cheated on my boyfriend twice wit 2 different guys. SHould I tell him? I mean I know if I tell him everything ...
A. 8 September 2011: I agree with the majority opinion here. But I have something else to add - even if you did use protection when you cheated on the person you're with, there's still the possiblity of contracting HIV or an STD by exchanging body fluids through oral ... (read in full...)
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