Is it okay to switch back and forth between anal and vaginal sex during intercourse?
Q. Is it okay or not to switch back and forth between anal and vagina (in same session) when having sex? My boyfriend and I love anal sex but sometimes like to go back and forth from anal to vagina and back to anal when we really get heated, but not ...
A. 21 May 2011: Are you using condoms? Bc if you are and are changing them in between you should be fine. However if not you may be right to raise a red flag... I would say there might not be a problem going from vaginal to anal... but back again?? Think about it- ... (read in full...)
I wat to ask him out but don't know what to do on a date!!
Q. Hellloo, I am in a band and have fallen for this guy who is three years above me in school, i want to ask him out and have been very close to this many times, but if i do what do we talk about and do on our date, it will be awkward and i want so ...
A. 21 May 2011: The first date is almost always awkward. Going to diner = awkward eating in front of eachother while trying to come up with a conversation. Going to a movie = awkward silence. However- my favorite first date was with my current bf: bowling... it ... (read in full...)
Gross words...
Q. Because I am a lesbian everyone think it's appropriate to talk dirty with me, for example the boys constantly talk dirty with me thinking I find it 'a turn on' like they do. But I don't. And I really don't mind people talking dirty with me as long ...
A. 6 May 2011: Awesome :) Glad it worked for you!!... (read in full...)
How to go from close friendship to relationship?
Q. This question is about a friend of mine and a girl he really likes. Unfortunately, I am not qualified to help him out and therefore I need your help. So, this is the story: My friend is a student, just like myself. He met a relatively yo...
A. 3 May 2011: The heck with it. I say he should just kiss her then. Why not? Again, better do something about it now than always wonder what if... regret sucks- so I say go for it :) Let us know what happens though ;)... (read in full...)
What exactly is the nature of our relationship?
Q. I was over her house recently to hang out with her brother. The first few hours that I was there, she kept looking at me the way she normally did. She also seemed hesitant around me like usual. When it was time for dinner, things became quite ...
A. 2 May 2011: Yes, but people will act differently around their family than alone. If you really like her you should really try to get a chance to hang out with her alone, or with her and a group of friends (not w/ her brother though b/c he is still her family) ... (read in full...)
Bothered by the idea of losing my Virginity to a non-virgin....
Q. Hi all, Just gonna be simple about this. I am a 17 year old boy who wants to save my virginity for marriage but I am bothered by the idea of losing my virginity to a non-virgin. I would just feel slighted in that I wasn't their first and they d...
A. 2 May 2011: I understand the opposite side of your problem... I was soo not a virgin by any means when I met the guy I am currently with. In fact I have a son who is almost 2. But my current boyfriend was a virgin when I met him and he is 22. We talked a lot ... (read in full...)
He asked me out after we broke up, does that mean he really cares?
Q. So my boyfriend and I broke up in march but got back together in April. He said that he missed me and still loved me and he said his life was a total wreck without me. By him asking me out again, does that mean he really cares about me or what?...
A. 2 May 2011: Technically speaking- no. When a recent (or even not so recent) ex asks you back out it doesn't automatically mean that he cares. It could mean that he cares- or it could mean that he doesn't want to lose control of you- or dosen't like being alone. ... (read in full...)
Wot the heck... Is he trying to make me jealous?
Q. I know a guy who I have been friends with for a while, we occasionally talk in school, but more on MSN. He always starts the conversations with me, I havent ever started a conversation first with him as I dont want to make it obvious I like him. M...
A. 2 May 2011: He may just be talking to you about other girls because he sees you as just a friend. He may though be trying to judge your reaction to see if you like him. I don't think either way though he's be trying to make you jealous unless that is ALL he ... (read in full...)
Gross words...
Q. Because I am a lesbian everyone think it's appropriate to talk dirty with me, for example the boys constantly talk dirty with me thinking I find it 'a turn on' like they do. But I don't. And I really don't mind people talking dirty with me as long ...
A. 2 May 2011: If you don't mind the general discusion, then when a word like "pussy" comes up I would just jump in and say- "okay, eww- vag" or whatever word you feel more comfortable with. If you just make it sound more joking they will probably not take offense ... (read in full...)
Am I still a considered a virgin if I got fingered...?
Q. Okay. Im 15 and I was just fingered for the first time. My question is, am I still considered a virgin even though he did finger me?...
A. 2 May 2011: Yes, you are still a virgin. Actually having sexual intercorse is the only true way to lose your virginity. Don't feel rushed to though. I'm 23 and lost my virginity when I was 15 almost 16, and I really wish I hadn't.... (read in full...)
Can he go to prison for being with me?
Q. Im 15 years old and my boyfriends 20, we are in love no doubt about it, but can he go too prison for being with me?...
A. 2 May 2011: Yes. Yes. Yes. He can go to jail. I understand that you feel like you are in love with him- but if he really loves you he can and should wait till you are 18. I was 17 and liked a guy who was 21. He waited for me to turn 18 b/c he cared about me. I ... (read in full...)
Is it okay to experiment???
Q. Hi. i am 23 years old and about 1 year ago i came out of a serious relationship. i then seen quite a few rebound guys. and to be honest, none of them really floated my boat... and for the first time in my life i am starting to look at women in ...
A. 2 May 2011: I think it is completley okay with experimenting. I have myself. Tried it for a while, nothing too serious- but, I do have a boyfriend now. But I disagree with GeeGee, lesbianism is not all-in or all out. I had a relative who came out to her paren... (read in full...)
How to go from close friendship to relationship?
Q. This question is about a friend of mine and a girl he really likes. Unfortunately, I am not qualified to help him out and therefore I need your help. So, this is the story: My friend is a student, just like myself. He met a relatively yo...
A. 2 May 2011: Well, I think he should go for it and tell her how he feels. Maybe not just kiss her first- might send her the wrong message right off the bat, but tell her just straight up "hey I really like you." Yes I understand that can be hard- but anymore I ... (read in full...)
What exactly is the nature of our relationship?
Q. I was over her house recently to hang out with her brother. The first few hours that I was there, she kept looking at me the way she normally did. She also seemed hesitant around me like usual. When it was time for dinner, things became quite ...
A. 2 May 2011: Well, it sounds like you her a lot, to have noticed as much as you have about her. The only way you may know where you two stand is by taking a chance and doing something outside of with her brother and parents. Maybe next time you are over find a ... (read in full...)
I broke things off before I get hurt but his texts confuse me!
Q. Ok, so I'm 20 and have been seeing this guy (27 years old) for 6 months now, but we haven't progressed at all. He hates relationships and said from the start he didn't want one, which was fine by me as I was still getting over an ex and didn't want ...
A. 2 May 2011: GeeGee is right. He cares about you, but still does not want a committed relationship now- or in the forseeable future. Some men are just that way. My aunt had a simliar situation where he told her that he never wanted to get married or have kids... ... (read in full...)
How do I trust him when he's posting these things on Facebook?
Q. I don't know what to do!I just found out that My boyfriend talks flirtatious to other women on Facebook! One if his comments on his wall says "anyone want to talk dirty" wtf? Then he goes and says that they couldn't handle him and these girls are ...
A. 1 May 2011: It is not okay for him to be writing these things online. It may be "just Facebook" but it is still talking to real people.
How would you feel if he was acting like this face to face with people?? That is how you can determin if this is a real iss... (read in full...)
He's ONLY hit me twice recently. But should I end this relationship?
Q. My partner used to physicaly and mentaly abuse me. it became worse during my pregnancy , and i miscarried. After this he became better for a while and has only hit me twice in serious arguments. i still can't get over how he treated me and even tho...
A. 1 May 2011: YES!! Should this even be a question?? I know that it is hard to say good bye to someone you love- but if they do not treat you with the utmost respect you deserve (and trust me you do) then you need to leave him!!!
I was in a mentally abusive ... (read in full...)
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