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writes: Because I am a lesbian everyone think it's appropriate to talk dirty with me, for example the boys constantly talk dirty with me thinking I find it 'a turn on' like they do. But I don't. And I really don't mind people talking dirty with me as long as they're not badgering me about my sex life. My problem is some of the words they use for 'lady parts'. Okay so I know it's bound to come up when talking to guys but some of the words they use totally gross me out and I don't know why. Words like 'pussy' or 'clit', anything like that grosses me out. How do I get over it? Is there a way to get over it or is it just one of those things? Any advice or answers are greatly appreciated, thanks for reading it guys. :)
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reader, curiosity1103 +, writes (6 May 2011):
Awesome :) Glad it worked for you!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 May 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for your help, it has been much appreciated and only today I spoke to some of the boys during science and they all started speaking 'dirty' to me again so I told them not to say those words the way you told me to and made a bit of a joke about it and it worked really well. So thank you for your help.
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reader, curiosity1103 +, writes (2 May 2011):
If you don't mind the general discusion, then when a word like "pussy" comes up I would just jump in and say- "okay, eww- vag" or whatever word you feel more comfortable with. If you just make it sound more joking they will probably not take offense to it.
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