Why does this man give me the silent treatment? Why not just tell me what is wrong?
Q. I have been seeing this man for 3 years now. A few months ago he got really upset with me and wouldn't talk to me for a month. Finally, we talked and began seeing each other again. Now, the same silent treatment is happening, and he has blocked my ...
A. 12 December 2014: I agree. However, in the past he had no problem telling me what was going on. I do not think he is scared, or doesn't have the balls. In fact he seemingly enjoyed telling me things he knew may hurt me.... (read in full...)
I shouldn't have asked to see pictures of my boyfriend's ex
Q. Why am I so angry at him? Is not his fault is it? So I asked my boyfriend about his ex and he told me everything about her and he asked if I wanted to see a picture of her and I said yeah sure but I bet she's not prettier than me and he said...
A. 2 January 2014: It doesn't matter who is better looking or skinnier or smarter, a man is committed to the women he likes and connects with. He is not with her is he? She is an ex for a reason and now you are with him. Which means he thinks you are the best not ... (read in full...)
Usually men like me but this one is not helping my self esteem.
Q. I have been seeing this man a long time now. He rejects me a lot, he insults my independence and he tells me that I will never have a boyfriend. I can t lie I have said some mean things to him before too. He told me I was not a normal girl and ...
A. 9 December 2013: This behavior is worse when I have things to do or exciting things planned. If I am excited about something it is worse.... (read in full...)
I think I am falling for him but I know he doesn't want a relationship, what should I do?
Q. In September I lost my virginity to a friend of a friend who'd recently broken up with a girlfriend. Since then we've slept together a few more times. My friend has informed me that he's 'enjoying being single' and doesn't want a serious ...
A. 21 January 2013: He is using you. He will never be with you. He is probably just passing time until his ex comes back. Which explains why he is telling everyone that he is not getting serious with anyone. He doesn't want his ex to hear he is unavailable. Cut it off... (read in full...)
He treats me like a girlfriend despite insisting he didn't want a relationship
Q. Is it possible to be seeing a man who actually does not want to see you happy? I have been dating this man for awhile now who I believe is emotionally confused. We are not an "official" couple and he claims to not want to be one. However, he has a...
A. 8 October 2012: I agree with all of these answers, but a lot of them still make me feel like its my fault and don't help with my self confidence. ... (read in full...)
Will attending college ruin my new relationship?
Q. Hi everyone, thanks in advance for taking the time to read! Now, down to business... I just started dating this guy. We had been sort of at an in between, kind of dating phase for a few weeks and then we finally decided to officially get together...
A. 8 October 2012: None of that will be an issue as long as you both really care and are into eachother. If you want this realtionship you will need to put in the work, if you do not want to work, the realtionship won't last. Try talking about your level of commitment ... (read in full...)
He says he doesn't want a girlfriend so why does he want to introduce me to his family?
Q. Hi, I have this guy who tells me he does not want a girlfriend and that I should not expect for him to eventually be my boyfriend. I get this, and am trying to decide what I want. However, on the next part Id thia conversation he had with me, he ...
A. 11 August 2012: Hi, thank you guys for all of you're advice is was extremely helpful. I don't think I asked the question correctly though, he did not just invite me to meet his family he sort of asked if that would be something that I wanted or was interested in. ... (read in full...)
I don't know what he meant!
Q. I have been seeing this man for about a year now. The other night he made a comment/question that I'm a little confused about. This is what he said " if you have so many options then what are you doing here with me?". I was not sure how to answer ...
A. 11 April 2012: The thing is I was not talking about other men, or pushing any buttons...... (read in full...)
He doesn't want me for anything other than sex. How do I end things gently?
Q. Hi everyone I really need help with this situation I have been sleeping with a man for over a year now I really like him he told me we were just taking things slowly but now I finally aksed him what was going on with us he said it is just sex so I ...
A. 9 April 2012: He already ended things gently for you when he did not speak to you for five weeks. This man doesn't even deserve a gentle closing, he basically used you until you finally spoke up, all those excuses he has are typical butthole guy sayings. Girl you ... (read in full...)
How does my friend always get the guy she wants?
Q. How does my friend always seem to attract the guy she wants? We'll be in a club and she'll see a guy she thinks is good looking, instantly her mind set is 'I have to have him'. And I don't know how she does it but she does, the guy always ends up ...
A. 9 April 2012: Well....the number one thing is her self confidence. That's why she seems to get the man she "wants". Now on the other hand, these men are not becoming permanent in her life are they? You say she picks these men out in the club? With that being said ... (read in full...)
I was deceived. If she's pregnant, what are my options?
Q. Hello, thanks for readin, basically i met up with a girl a few weeks back who failed to tell me before she got back to mine after a party that she was allergic to latex, but told me she was infertile, so being a bit drunk and stupid i slept with ...
A. 28 March 2011: No, first you need to confirm that she really is pregnant! It sounds like she is crazy. Make sure it is really true offer to go to the doctors appointment, or have her take that test with you there. If it is true opt for a dna test before anything. ... (read in full...)
I'm confused about my guy friend
Q. Hi, I have this guy friend who I am confused about. When I tell him what I'm looking for in a man, he responds with "well I have everything you need", he will ask questions about my family such as...do they know about him...But he never has that ...
A. 26 March 2011: Hey! I would confront him, but he always talks about not wanting a girlfriend, even though he says all that to me... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's ex won't go away!
Q. So, this is a simple question with complicated details. My current boyfriend, "Jake", and I have been together for just over a year. We have known each other for almost 13 years and have been on and off since we were 15 years old. When I turned 18 I ...
A. 25 March 2011: Surprisingly you have a common situation. Maybe you can give some more details about jake's relationship with this girl? She has no reason to hate you, and I am sure she does not. It sounds like she has some daddy issues, and has permanently ... (read in full...)
Will my body issues turn my fling off?
Q. So I'm kinda worried right now. I have this fling ( we were on a no commitment zone) and we were planning to get into the sack after his vacation next month. Although we've seen each other in person, this will be our first sexual experience. The...
A. 25 March 2011: First, I think the no commitment zone adds to your insecurities. I think women over anaylize what a man thinks. Men don't really study your body that closely! Only a shallow guy would be worried about some acne scars...maybe you have nice breasts, ... (read in full...)
I don't understand why he acts this way if he does not want to be with me, or does he?
Q. Hi, I have this guy friend who I am confused about. When I tell him what I'm looking for in a man, he responds with "well I have everything you need", he will ask questions about my family such as...do they know about him...But he never has that ...
A. 24 March 2011: I just want to know if I should talk to him about being together?... (read in full...)
I've been in a casual relationship for 5 years...I would like to date other me, but can't.
Q. I have been in a casual friends relationship with this guy for 5 years. I would like to date other men seriously, but cannot bring myself to do it. My question is how long should a casual "romance" really last. What makes him really want to continue ...
A. 11 March 2011: I agree, he is not the type to make moves unless he knows how I feel, as for me I cannot decide if I want to be more. I still fear the rejection. I should try to express the feelings see where he is at?... (read in full...)
I've been in a casual relationship for 5 years...I would like to date other me, but can't.
Q. I have been in a casual friends relationship with this guy for 5 years. I would like to date other men seriously, but cannot bring myself to do it. My question is how long should a casual "romance" really last. What makes him really want to continue ...
A. 11 March 2011: He has expressed interests and feelings for me. I'm not sure if I am holding back or the both of us. It becomes a huge problem if I date other men for him. I thought maybe it makes it interesting if I am not available, but he has so much to say. He ... (read in full...)
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