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I'm confused about my guy friend

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Question - (25 March 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 26 March 2011)
A female United States age 41-50, *upidlover89 writes:

Hi, I have this guy friend who I am confused about. When I tell him what I'm looking for in a man, he responds with "well I have everything you need", he will ask questions about my family such as...do they know about him...But he never has that talk with me about being together exclusively.

When I began dating someone else he called nonstop all day asking to see me, and even told me that I could not ever see him until I stopped seeing the other guy. We are not in a relationship, but are friends with benefits, I don't understand why he acts this way if he does not want to be with me or does he? Does he want a relationship or not, or does he like the control?

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A female reader, cupidlover89 United States +, writes (26 March 2011):

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Hey! I would confront him, but he always talks about not wanting a girlfriend, even though he says all that to me

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A female reader, natcat86 United States +, writes (26 March 2011):

Yes this guy likes you. Have you told him how you feel about being more than fwb with him? You need to. He's got feelings for you, and if you don't feel the same then it might be a good idea to take a break from him.

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