The necklace... Should I break up with her? Will remaining with her only bring me misery?
Q. I have been with her for over 4 years. For the first birthday she had during our relationship, I got her a gold necklace with a heart on it, half white gold in the back and gold in the front. She really loved it! For her following birthd...
A. 3 November 2015: Thank you Honeypie, your response was very helpful. I am still unsure as to what I should do. I have a lot of stress from school and my family right now that a breakup my push me off the edge.
I suppose I have some reflecting to do.
Thanks ag... (read in full...)
The necklace... Should I break up with her? Will remaining with her only bring me misery?
Q. I have been with her for over 4 years. For the first birthday she had during our relationship, I got her a gold necklace with a heart on it, half white gold in the back and gold in the front. She really loved it! For her following birthd...
A. 3 November 2015: As a response to jils022 and Honeypie; I feel as though you guys are missing the big picture. I admit that when she didn't like my gift it did hurt me but only because I felt like I let her down. What makes me see her as spoiled is the fact that she ... (read in full...)
How can I change him over to being just my buddy, instead of his snuggle buddy? It's just snuggles and cuddles, nothing more.
Q. I have this casual snuggle buddy thing going on, but I think I'm taking advantage of him? something seems unbalanced in my mind. Anyways we've been friends for about three months and oddly enough we started out being cuddle buddies. whi...
A. 2 June 2015: The only way to let him know is to ask him what he expects out of this relationship. He might very well like you . By being his cuddle buddy he might feel as though he has a shot but based on how you describe his personality he could be waiting for ... (read in full...)
How, really how do I get out of the rut I'm stuck in?
Q. Hello People , I am looking for a glimmer of hope or I am not sure . But well I am 29 and have pretty much wasted life from 21 and have been at a standstill for all these years. Currently still at home , have been in a job for years but not ...
A. 2 June 2015: So you want to better your life but still live at home and can't find a girlfriend. Sounds to me as though you have no motivation to go after the things you want. You have a job so I assume you have the money to live on your own. You have the desi... (read in full...)
Two years and I'm still not over him?
Q. My life is just miserable. My ex dumped me about 2 years ago. I'm moving on very very slowly. I blocked his Facebook page, deleted all the pictures, put away everything that would remind me of him. I even moved abroad and focused on myself only. ...
A. 1 June 2015: I would love to give you advice on what you should do but I lack sufficient information to give you a good answer. I do not know how long you have been together, I do not know why you guys broke up, I do not know if he is mature enough to speak to ... (read in full...)
Is she just relying on me or is she interested in me?
Q. I have a female friend I've known for 8 years. Both married when we met, both been single 5 years. We used to meet up for lunch occasionally, had a bit of a falling out when she continually cancelled arrangements but have seen and spoken a lot more...
A. 1 June 2015: To answer your question; "Now, taking all this together, is she merely overly relying on me, or is she seeing me as something more?" I think an appropriate answer would be that she is in fact lonely, emotionally unstable and needs someone to depen... (read in full...)
Boyfriend of 10 years wants kids and I don't
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for over ten years and everything is great - I love him and I know he loves me. But the problem is that he wants kids and I don't. We started dating when we were teenagers so it really wasn't an issue ...
A. 30 May 2015: @Chigirl Yes you are right and yes you are blunt. Why sugar coat it? Because this is a delicate situation. The OP is coming to us for advice on what to do about a man she loved for 10 years and still loves. If you need to tell someone that their dad ... (read in full...)
I told my boyfriend I was seeing someone else while he's in jail but now I regret telling him
Q. I was dating long distance my boyfriend for over 10 years he ended up going to jail for three years i have always been here for him.... I love him but unfortunately i met this guy and starting seeing him....the thing is i was stupid enough to call ...
A. 29 May 2015: I agree cheating is 99% of the time a horrible thing to do. However, the term once a cheater always a cheater does not apply to the other 1% of people who have cheated under certain circumstances. Allow me to elaborate; Imagine you are in a r... (read in full...)
How do I get past this betrayal so that we emerge stronger as a couple?
Q. Hi all My boyfriend of 5 years was addicted to porn and because he was desensitized to average porn he signed up to ^^^ buddy websites for a different kind of thrill (real women) He didn't contact anyone on these sites or even fill in his ...
A. 29 May 2015: Addiction can turn the nicest most honest people into deceitful liars even if they hate themselves for it. Addicts will do almost anything to eventually feed their addiction. The best thing for him to view right now would be the site http://y... (read in full...)
Is our relationship over? What should I do?
Q. I have been married for 15 years and with my hubby for 20years but he just doesn't do anything in our relationship anymore. we don't have sex unless it is a quick handjob (sorry for been rude) he doesn't take me anywhere he doesn't spend time wit...
A. 29 May 2015: It appears as though he has gotten pretty comfortable in the marriage and doesn't feel the need to satisfy your needs let alone go out of his way to make you happy. This does not necessarily mean that he does not love you. It only means that that ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend and I fought and haven't spoken in a week. We are playing the waiting game but what should I do?
Q. I have been dating my gf for over 3 years now and she accompanied me to the hospital so I could update my hospital card. She said that the office to update my card closes at 4 but when we arrived she pointed out that they close at 3. I innocently ...
A. 29 May 2015: I did not go to update my card because of my illness but for another matter entirely. They are simply two irrelevant things that were happening in my life. I'd say that I have some credibility considering the fact that I am coming to people f... (read in full...)
Girlfriend and I fought and haven't spoken in a week. We are playing the waiting game but what should I do?
Q. I have been dating my gf for over 3 years now and she accompanied me to the hospital so I could update my hospital card. She said that the office to update my card closes at 4 but when we arrived she pointed out that they close at 3. I innocently ...
A. 27 May 2015: Well thank you all for your input, I will acknowledge all advice given to me, even the ones I disapprove of (not counting the ones that were based off false speculations).
I sincerely hank you all for your input.
I will do what I think is best... ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend and I fought and haven't spoken in a week. We are playing the waiting game but what should I do?
Q. I have been dating my gf for over 3 years now and she accompanied me to the hospital so I could update my hospital card. She said that the office to update my card closes at 4 but when we arrived she pointed out that they close at 3. I innocently ...
A. 26 May 2015: Something CindyCares said as forced me to write this; I assume this is not the first time she does little things for you, and this is not the first time you make her notice that she screwed up. She is not your secretary, OP, nor your doting Mom.... (read in full...)
Girlfriend and I fought and haven't spoken in a week. We are playing the waiting game but what should I do?
Q. I have been dating my gf for over 3 years now and she accompanied me to the hospital so I could update my hospital card. She said that the office to update my card closes at 4 but when we arrived she pointed out that they close at 3. I innocently ...
A. 26 May 2015: *****Before anybody else decides to give me any further advice I urge them to read what I am about to write because I fear you might be misinformed. When I say I grabbed her by the arm I feel I should elaborate on this point as some of you are lett... (read in full...)
Girlfriend and I fought and haven't spoken in a week. We are playing the waiting game but what should I do?
Q. I have been dating my gf for over 3 years now and she accompanied me to the hospital so I could update my hospital card. She said that the office to update my card closes at 4 but when we arrived she pointed out that they close at 3. I innocently ...
A. 26 May 2015: I am very disappointed in "wideowl" and "codewarrior"... I came here seeking guidance but all I have gotten from these two are insults based on false speculations. Here are some of your claims; 1. "I think you blew up at her over the hospital... (read in full...)
I like her, my friend likes her and she's with someone else. Do I wait?
Q. So it's the end of my first year at university and I realise that I like this girl on my course. She's a year younger than me, but I deferred last year to take some time out and do other things. I've only known her for about five months. The othe...
A. 25 May 2015: I know that feeling. You know the right thing to do. Also if she does fool around with you until she breaks up with her bf what do you think she'll be doing once she dates you? Food for though... (read in full...)
Is my wife lying? She says she can't remember back 15 years ago whether the guy had a large penis or not
Q. Ive been married to my wife 15 years. When I first met her, i remember her telling me of a former sex partner who was big in penis size. When i brought that fact up recently, she denies anything was ever big. She says she dont remember even ...
A. 25 May 2015: I think the real issue here is your insecurities and I am assuming your wife surely has experience with this seeing how both of you are married and surely know each other very well. She is either trying to protect you by lying about something so ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend and I fought and haven't spoken in a week. We are playing the waiting game but what should I do?
Q. I have been dating my gf for over 3 years now and she accompanied me to the hospital so I could update my hospital card. She said that the office to update my card closes at 4 but when we arrived she pointed out that they close at 3. I innocently ...
A. 25 May 2015: There's one problem with your assessment code warrior... I was not angry at all and the office wasn't even closed... When I asked; (I though you said it closes at 4) I was confused as to why she was second guessing herself and when she responded by ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend of 10 years wants kids and I don't
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for over ten years and everything is great - I love him and I know he loves me. But the problem is that he wants kids and I don't. We started dating when we were teenagers so it really wasn't an issue ...
A. 25 May 2015: As a response to Chigirl I think it is a little insensitive to blatantly say to let him go. They have been together for over ten years, letting him go is not that simple. However, the issue of contrasting desires still remains. I think you talk... (read in full...)
Girlfriend and I fought and haven't spoken in a week. We are playing the waiting game but what should I do?
Q. I have been dating my gf for over 3 years now and she accompanied me to the hospital so I could update my hospital card. She said that the office to update my card closes at 4 but when we arrived she pointed out that they close at 3. I innocently ...
A. 25 May 2015: I know it was wrong to call her a bubble head but I was too angry to apologize. I also think that for her to call me a violent prick is laughable and hypocritical because I have never physically hurt her and she always slaps me or pinches me and ... (read in full...)
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