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I'm seriously considering getting a hysterectomy...

Q.   I have a question that may offend some people, for which I'm sorry, I just feel like I can't ask anyone I know, because they'll judge me. I'm a 16 year old female, and started my periods when I was 12. Every month, I get such extreme stomach ...

A.   3 February 2009: I know what you mean, but i think there are ways around this - the pill? Or someother painkiller. cvramps shouldnt be this bad. Go to the doctor. You dont know if this is the right choice - you might want children when you are older, when your... (read in full...)

We used protection but I can't stop worrying about unwanted pregnancy, help, I'm 14!

Q.   I dont know if i am pregnant or not? I am 14 years old and had sex 3 weeks ago, i haven't missed a period yet but i am so worried. I should be coming up to my period in a few days but i am so tired all the time , and my breasts have become bigger ...

A.   3 February 2009: On another note. I dont beleive in saving myself for my husband! Its really sexist, because its not easy trying to find a virgin man at marriagable age (which is???) because they get tempted! Yet women (who enjoy sex, too, you know!) have ... (read in full...)

My b/f needs to be shocked into going on a diet. How do I do that?

Q.   Well people may seem this as mean but i really need advice on this. One of my best friends is abit over weight by that i mean she is 13 and a size 12 or 14 in adults. I never saw that as a problem she is still a great friend it never changed ...

A.   3 February 2009: DIETS DON'T WORK!!!!! You shouldnt try to change her diet at the moment! Join a club! An after shcool thing like dancing or (if she's too selfconsient) a sport like a netball club, or even a drama club or whatever you have. Even if its n... (read in full...)

Why does our country (UK) come to a standstill when it snows when other countries manage to keep going with transport etc?

Q.   Why can't the UK get it's self together and provide snow ploughs and more gritting lorries when it snows, instead of just giving a weather warning out and having drivers crash? Why does the country have to come to a standstill? They want us to use ...

A.   3 February 2009: Because we are so far up our own bottoms we are in danger of eating our own splines! This is England. We are brilliant and patriotic, but we dont like Snow!! And down here, in Kent, we get it so rarely that actually a day off shcool isnt so b... (read in full...)

We used protection but I can't stop worrying about unwanted pregnancy, help, I'm 14!

Q.   I dont know if i am pregnant or not? I am 14 years old and had sex 3 weeks ago, i haven't missed a period yet but i am so worried. I should be coming up to my period in a few days but i am so tired all the time , and my breasts have become bigger ...

A.   3 February 2009: Yeah, but you broke that promise - so if you are pregnant, girl, you have to face facts - they wont be pleased but surely they'd prefere you went to them first? They'll be mad and angry, and I'd sugest talking to your mum alone, rather than you... (read in full...)

We used protection but I can't stop worrying about unwanted pregnancy, help, I'm 14!

Q.   I dont know if i am pregnant or not? I am 14 years old and had sex 3 weeks ago, i haven't missed a period yet but i am so worried. I should be coming up to my period in a few days but i am so tired all the time , and my breasts have become bigger ...

A.   3 February 2009: Yeah, but you shpuld still get yourslef checked out? I would recommend that you get a pregancy test BUT DONT WORRY! Trust me this stressing wont help, and it could delay your period, making you even more anxious. If you are pregant, go to y... (read in full...)

A little piece of encouragement

Q.   i just wanted to say a few words of encouragement to all of you who might be have a hard time with relationship and such. first off all, the God who made you loves you and is watching you all the time. God did not design your body's for sex, ...

A.   3 February 2009: Sorry for an extra post, but the anonymous person who commented on Dawin. Crocodiles aren't supposed to ride bikes - what sort of suggestion is that. Humans and other mammals of this sort (monkeys and the like) can ride bikes and do intricate acti... (read in full...)

A little piece of encouragement

Q.   i just wanted to say a few words of encouragement to all of you who might be have a hard time with relationship and such. first off all, the God who made you loves you and is watching you all the time. God did not design your body's for sex, ...

A.   3 February 2009: That is not true. Our bodies were designed for sex, not just sex, obviously, but it sure has some influence! This is not your kind of website... I am not religious. At all, unless Atheism at my level counts. I, however, would not recommend th... (read in full...)

I cancelled our anniversary to be there for my sister, how to make it up to the husband?

Q.   My husband and me were having our year wedding anniversary. Until my sister came crying to me because her boyfriend was cheating on her with her best friend and she broke up with him on the spot. She was really upset about it so I cancelled had our ...

A.   2 February 2009: He shouldnt be angry! Its your house just as much as it is his. As long as your sis behaves herself, is polite and gracious whats his problem? Coucou xxxxx... (read in full...)

Any girl here who is in relationship with a Capricorn? How did you "catch him"?

Q.   Hello.. I have one quick question for all of you, who are interesting and experienced in astrology. I found myself very attracted to Capricorn guys (that's because i have all "love planets" - venus, mars and mercury in this sign). But they're ...

A.   2 February 2009: Atrology is very interesting, but so unrealiable. You cant describe a human being by whether Mars is in retrospect to Pices (Thats just an example) Its important that you get to know someone as themselves, not what the heavens suggest ! Som... (read in full...)

Too much bitch!

Q.   My wife and I have a normal relationship. We get along and we get on each others' nerves from time-to-time. Usually - again just recently - my wife starts getting REALLY bitchy with me. Not PMS related - maybe stress? In any event, I try to be ...

A.   2 February 2009: Women are sometimes hormonal. Remember when you were a teenager? You didnt know why you were angry, you just were? It could be menopausal if she's round that age or *dont be shocked* pregnancy. Dont get too worried though, chances are its just... (read in full...)

DearCupid had over one million people visit the site in January!

Q.   I have just peeped at our visitor figures for January 2009, the month just gone, and I'm excited to see that DearCupid passed 1,000,000 (yes, one MILLION!) unique visitors/month for the first time. According to Google Analytics we had 1,040,812 ...

A.   2 February 2009: Whoop Whoop! This site rocks XD coucou xxxx... (read in full...)

Am I really starting to fall in love with my brother?

Q.   My older brother and I have been sexually active with each other for some years now. I know this started as him abusing me but I no longer see it that way and I think I might be falling in love with him. He is 4 years older then me and started uni 2 ...

A.   2 February 2009: Heyy there. I just wanted to say that you are not alone here. I was abused and raped by my brother, too. I, however, havent taken it so well. I havent told my parents and only one other person I know knows, but he doesnt know its my b... (read in full...)

Do all married men want to make love to other women?

Q.   My problem is I can't stay away from other women. I have been married 9 years and we have two children. I love to flirt and make love with other women but I feel guilty. I am happy with my wife and we have good sex every week (or so). I don't want ...

A.   2 February 2009: You shouldnt be sleeping with other women! No No No! Its not good, its decieving and unkind and guess who'll be worse off when it becomes unstuck? Not you, your FAMILY! It will rip them apart. Coucou xxx... (read in full...)

My 2 best friends proposed to me on same day? What to do?

Q.   Hi , I am a 25-year old working girl and have an excellent job.Since class 8th , I have been best friends with 2 boys , and we have been great friends ever since , always hanging out together and supporting each other through think and thin.c...

A.   2 February 2009: I would recommend the one who asked first, out of manners, but which one can you imagine spending the rest of your life with, growing old with and having his children and never being with anyone else? Tell your parents and ask for their opinion.... (read in full...)

To shave? Or leave it?

Q.   Hi...im a 14 year old girl and i have my first boyfriend now and we have been going out for a couple of months and i think he wants to have sex! i dont know what to do,do i shave off all my pubic hair?? please help...:)x ...

A.   2 February 2009: Trim, dont shave! Its easier and you wont get scratches or bumps, or ingrown hairs. I dont know where you live (I live in Kent - moved from france years ago.) but sex isnt a big thing round here. As long as you love him enough but not enough t... (read in full...)

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