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writes:Hello..I have one quick question for all of you, who are interesting and experienced in astrology. I found myself very attracted to Capricorn guys (that's because i have all "love planets" - venus, mars and mercury in this sign). But they're really hard to get, even though i'm quite sure that some of them were attracted to me too. Is it possible that Capricorns are just too afraid to make a first step? I was wondering if someone here does have any tips how to get this kind of guy? Any girl here who is in relationship with capricorn? How did you "catch him"? I'm Aquarius and I have a lot of featurs of that sign as well as i have capricorn's featurs too. I'm looking forward to seeing your answers. Reply to this Question
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reader, dandylioness  +, writes (18 February 2009):
Hi there, Im new here but am across this forum and am dyng to tell my story of my "Cap" man. I suggest you get some slippers and popcorn...lol....
We met online in November 08. He emailed me and we corresponded a few times beofre he phoned me. WE talked for like two hours. He made me laugh so hard and I needed that. The last man I dated was stern workalholic and non-comedic shall I say... We met for dinner at a beach restaurant. (cozy) After by the fireplace he leand in to kiss me, said he wanted to do that all eve (hmmm me too). We smooched some more outside by the car and then I left.
Fast forward 3 months now, he/we text everyday, several times a day and now we call at least once a day, and email everyday. He lives 60 miles way and has 3 kids under 15, so he juggles those, his successful business and me. He is always holding my hand, ALWAYS, even on long car trips (say 5 hours) reassurane he likes me :) SEX.......is UNBELIEVABLE & he is not selfish in the bedroom. He is not the best cook, but likes to cook for me. He always calls me 'sexy', or 'goodlookin' that makes me feel great. I visit him or vice versa, with
the distance, but usually Im the one driving there. We talk about his family, his kids, the Exes (he loves to bring up the exes, like a validation or sumthin that he had some since his divorce. Was married 3 times (one at 19 which didnt last more than 5mos) senond was to a great friend, needles to say, stupid... the last the mother of his kids. Mmmmm likes matramony it seems.
Then Valentines day came and he had his kids so the Thurs before I mailed him a funny cute card, and a little ditty I made up of our quirky sayings we have from A - Z (looong story). Anyway, he made dinner that Friday night and bought me six LARGE chocolate covered strawberries, saying an hour later they were for driving up there to him. I never got a card in mail and he has never mentioned the card and ditty I mailed him.... NEVER!! We have talked everyday since (its been 6 days). I havent seen him since 6days ago and he has reasons not to get together this week and this weekend.(weekend pre planed weeks ago) What happened.....!!! I dont know why the slow down, but hey I will give him space, if he is sensitive over my V D cards..... we are in our late early 50s. I read so much on these Cap men so Im trying to follow protocol here and let sleeping dogs lie,,,, . btw, we have not talked feelings to one another yet and we removed our online profiles one month into our dating.... Im so used to dating water signs, and was married to a Taurus for 23 yrs. Im a Cancer we seem to be very compatible. Any advice anyone. Is he bailing out....or a little scared
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reader, sarcy24  +, writes (2 February 2009):
 I was married to a Capricorn for 15 years and he was very difficult to catch and keep. I am cancer. He was hard to pin down in any way and was always very casual in his approach. I realised the key to his heart was to make myself indispensible in every way, so I would offer to take and collect his dry cleaning, clean his house, iron etc. He also constantly needed to be listened to especially about work problems and flattered so I focussed on totally what he needed. This went on for years and years and I ended up building a very selfish man who was only interested in himself to the detriment of our relationship. They are very hard hearted and in the main totally self orientated. I would definitely say that a capricorn and a cancer are totally incompatible but I have been told they get on well with Aquarians. I have always had most unconditional love from Scorpios and Taureans.
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reader, coucou206  +, writes (2 February 2009):
 Atrology is very interesting, but so unrealiable.
You cant describe a human being by whether Mars is in retrospect to Pices (Thats just an example)
Its important that you get to know someone as themselves, not what the heavens suggest !
Some people are naturally shy, some not. Maybe you think these men are shy because you THINK they should be shy because they are Capricorns. This isnt always the case.
So, I'd say go for it but dont be overly forward and scare him off!
Coucou
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reader, laureneli +, writes (2 February 2009):
Well, I am a gemini and I maintained a relationship with a capricorn for 3 years. I don't know how in retrospect, we were not very compatible.
We met in high school, I casually asked for his number, waited a couple weeks, and called him one day.( He ended up moving to a different state) so we talked a lot, and eventually it was every night. I had to take almost all of the first steps, i got his number, i told him i was interested, etc...
he was the one to initiate the first kiss though.
i'd say that capricorns are very romantic, but extremely hardheaded and not very great talkers.
theyre not that hard to get, just be yourself, outgoing, and you will probably have to take the first couple of steps. best of luck catching your goat.:]
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