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My 2 best friends proposed to me on same day? What to do?

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Question - (2 February 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 2 February 2009)
A female India age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Hi ,

I am a 25-year old working girl and have an excellent job.Since class 8th , I have been best friends with 2 boys , and we have been great friends ever since , always hanging out together and supporting each other through think and thin.coincidentally , we landed up in the same college.we still meet regularly and are still the best of friends.the problem is that recently when we all went to a pub to party , one of my friends went out to receive a call ,and, suddently , the other one proposed to me .i was shocked because i had never thought of him like this.then he went to take a drink , and the second one proposed too, and somehow i managed not to faint.the problem is that i am equally attached to both of them , and they both are equally important to me.i don't know whom to say yes to and whom to reject.i don't know what to do.Please Help !

- SS

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (2 February 2009):

well..first of all..while u were in school...were there any incidents when u felt something for any of them...???if you did...just think about it rationally...every girl thinks seriously about what kind of a man she would like...you must be knowing both these guys...whose qualities are closest to your ideal man??...choose that guy...you will always feel closer to that man...always....

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A female reader, coucou206 France +, writes (2 February 2009):

coucou206 agony auntI would recommend the one who asked first, out of manners, but which one can you imagine spending the rest of your life with, growing old with and having his children and never being with anyone else?

Tell your parents and ask for their opinion. Talking to someone face to face really helps to get rid of the confusion :D.

Good luck,

Coucou xxx

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A female reader, unique-angel United Kingdom +, writes (2 February 2009):

Well first of all, which one would you think of being the better marriage potential???

second have you shown them to your family, i'm indian and i know my parents would definately want to see before i got engaged

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