I have a live in boyfriend and a married lover!
Q. Where do I start? I'm in a relationship with a married man and I'm in love with him however, I also, have a live-in boyfriend but that relationship is broken and has been before I became involved with the married man. I don't know what to do. I ...
A. 20 November 2010: Hello,
It's tough loving someone when you know u can't be together. I think u r also afraid of a boring empty life without him. I think u should ask him out 4 dinner. Tell him u love him. However, the relationship is stopping u from moving f... (read in full...)
Am I blowing things out of proportion?
Q. Iv been with my current bf for almost five years. At The beginning of the week he left a table in my car and I culdnt see out of my back window on the interstate so wen I got home I told him to take it out n take it home well then it got blown out ...
A. 19 November 2010: Hello,
I think that by giving him a deadline you are putting too much pressure on him. Harsh is too strong. I would say pressured. Most men under such pressure will say they want to break up. I think its ok to ask him the question as to where th... (read in full...)
How do I remain cool?
Q. Hello, I'm already in a relationship with someone else. There is this very beautiful new girl that just came into our office. We've gotten on so well. She is really very beautiful. However, unlike most beautiful girls i know, she is so friendly a...
A. 19 November 2010: Thanks Dirtball,
You are right with your evaluation. I am worried of caving in if she is interested in me. I've tried to imagine being alone with her and resisting if she makes a move. It's simply not possible. She's so hot (but i dont get the ... (read in full...)
He doesn't reply to my text messages fast enough and I think I should dump him! What do you think?
Q. i have been dating a bloke for around a month now, he is ok with me a part from the fact that he has done all the initiating, ie texting me and asking me out, which obviously i dont mind at all but the problem i have is that when he texts me to ...
A. 17 March 2010: I think the best thing is to put off your phone and wait for about 5 hours to see if he has replied. This way you'll focus on other things. As long as your phone is on,then your mind will be focused on when he'll reply to your text.With your phone ... (read in full...)
How can I eliminate this harrassment without causing a scandal?
Q. An explanationa and a question...I had a brief internet fling with a much younger friend of the family. It was never a love thing or even an attraction for me but i think it was more of an ego trip. Our families have been friends forever and he is r...
A. 10 November 2009: I think you need to be upfront with your friend. You can call him or meet him at a public place and tell him that what two of you went through was just a fling and that you want to put an end to the relationship. Tell him that you have informe... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend breaking up with me for good?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 4 years. We met in high school, and now we're both in college. We've had trust issues because we both have made mistakes in the past. However, our love for each other is so strong that we are inseparable. He's ...
A. 10 November 2009: I think he is telling you to move on. He knows that you love him and will keep running back to him. That is why he is behaving this way. If he is madly in love with you, he wont be asking you to give him space. He will want to be with you all the ... (read in full...)
Is it possible to get your period while you're pregnant?
Q. I am sexually active with my girlfriend of course. My question is... is it possible to get your period while you are pregnant? According to those menstrual cycle calculator things her fertile days 19-24 of october. And she was supposed to be ...
A. 7 November 2009: A lady can get pregnant at any point in the cycle, depending on how long the sperm is able to survive and wait fo the ovum. Nothwithstanding, the likelihood of getting pregnant during menstruation is low, but it is still possible. She could get ... (read in full...)
I ended the affair with my friend's wife
Q. Im in love with my friends wife. We have all been friends for a long time now. It all started when she asked me to take her out to play pool and drink some beer. She asked in fron of her husband and he didnt have a problem with it as long as he ...
A. 7 November 2009: I think you did the right thing. I think You didn't have to tell the husband but should have just gradually stopped seeing the wife(Maybe stop seeing her but calling and then reducing calls from everyday to once a week then once in 3 weeks etc until ... (read in full...)
I don't want what my parents want for me!
Q. I am from India, 16 years and am brought up in a strict Muslim family. My parents have already planned my future for me, get my degree and get married soon after that. But the thing is that I don't want that. I want to continue with my career and do ...
A. 7 November 2009: Hi, I understand a little bit how you feel as my parents wanted me to study a particular lucrative profession which i did not like. You are still young. I think you are thinking too much about the future. You should focus on starting or fini... (read in full...)
How do I get closer to him without scaring him off?
Q. Hey :) On bonfire night I met this really funny and nice guy. We hit if off big time and I was wondering how could I get closer to him? He goes to another school in the same town as my school is. We have the same sense of humor and things so that'...
A. 7 November 2009: Hi, AS a guy, i can only give you some tips on how you could attract someone like me. You may want to give him some signs that you like him. You could smile whenever he talks to you, laugh whenever he cracks a joke (even though its dry), stroke... (read in full...)
How can I overcome irritation when she doesn't call as promised?
Q. Women not returning calls. I would like some advice on what do when a lady promises to call even though she knows she won't call. I have a friend who is a girl. Whenever she has an academic need she bombards my phone with calls. In fact one day ...
A. 7 November 2009: Tisha's technique on using the rubber band really worked. I had to find one from work. The first few days it was difficult not calling to find out how she's doing. There's no point. I guess i'll simply ignore her and behave as if i didn't notice ... (read in full...)
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