Can I help my tomboy friend to look more like a girl?
Q. I have this friend named Shay. She's a tomboy but my boyfriend thinks she's gay and sometimes I do too. But I constantly beg her "can i give you a makeover, find you a dress or skirt and fix her your hair?" But when she does try to look like a g...
A. 1 June 2005: Well, first of all, consider this. Does your friend even want to look more girly?? I know that I used to be like that, and I had a boyfriend for almost a year. But then I grew out of it, and I decided that I liked some of the more girly things. ... (read in full...)
How can I catch the interest of my old boyfriend?
Q. Hello....I have a problem. I used to date this boy and we were going steady for 5 months, then he broke up with me. It's been 3 months since we broke up and I still have feelings for him. I can tell he likes me but he has a girlfriend. Me and him ...
A. 17 May 2005: well, if I were you, I would just try not to hang out with him as much. Because if you try to get back together with him, then it might end up breaking your heart all over again, and ruining your chances of even staying friends with this dude. ... (read in full...)
Do I tell the girl that I've fallen for her, and risk rejection, or keep it to myself?
Q. I have fallen in love with a girl who is my friend and I've told some of her friends how I feel and this has caused friction between them, as the girl I love wants to know what I told them. Therefore I would like to know whether I should tell gir...
A. 13 May 2005: Well if you dont tell her, then she might get upset that you told her friends things, but you couldn't tell her. Just be honest with her. I went out with one of my friends for almost a year, and it was great. (It was so good that we might be getting ... (read in full...)
I'd love for us to go back to the way we were when we first met...
Q. Hi, me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 months. We have come out of the 'honeymoon period'. I miss the way we used to be. We are more like best mates than girlfriend and boyfriend. The problem is not sexual, however. How can I improve our ...
A. 3 May 2005: I'm not completely sure what to tell you. All I know is that you need to talk to him and figure it out, and SOON! Because that's what happened to me and my ex. We stayed together for almost a year, and most of the time it was like we were good ... (read in full...)
I like him, but he's 2 years younger than me. Is he too young?
Q. I am 18 and I really like someone who's 16 and male. I don't know what to do. Is he too young for me?...
A. 20 April 2005: Well, it depends on the guy's maturity level, and yours. Because if you both act your age then it could be a problem. But if you think it can work out, and your maturity levels arent all that different then go for it! If you guys end up long-ter... (read in full...)
I don't want to hurt the girl I'm with, but I'm interested in someone my own age...
Q. I'm 15 and have recently started talking to a 13 year old. Before that though I was seeing a girl my own age. I thought I really liked the 13 year old girl but now I have been talking to the girl my own age again and I'm starting to like her more. ...
A. 20 April 2005: Well, I might not be the right one to answer this, cuz my 15 year old bf (ex) broke up w/ me and I'm 13. So I am gonna sympathize with the 13 year old. But I know that you gotta do what ya gotta do, so just go with what your heart tells you, and ... (read in full...)
It's like I don't have a social lifevany more since I started going with my guy
Q. I'm 14 and have been going out with someone for 4 months. I really like him but its like I can't go out with my friends anymore. What should I do?...
A. 17 April 2005: Well, if I were you then I would talk to this guy about it. If he is smothering you, then I would get out of the relationship. In my opinion my friends are more important to me than any guy, because if you and this guy break up then who is gonna be ... (read in full...)
Read my girlfriend's diary, now she says she doesn't trust me...
Q. I read my girlfriend's diary. There was something in there that caused me pain about another guy. I became quiet and she realised something was wrong. I told her I read her diary and now she says she does not think she can trust me and will not ...
A. 17 April 2005: Well this is just my opinion. You made the first mistake by reading her diary. I dont really blame her for not trusting you temporarily. But, just try to show her that you can be trusted, and maybe you will earn her trust back. Talk to her about it. ... (read in full...)
There just doesn't seem to be any way to get back to the way we used to be!
Q. How do I get over this guy??? I am 13 and he was my first boyfriend. I really liked him, I thought I loved him at one time, but I was never sure, so I don't think that I really did, but I really really liked him. We went out for a year. We have ...
A. 17 April 2005: Actually, I am going to answer my own question. Somehow I started thinking that he would be really different when I saw him. But he is still his sensitive self and his personality is just the same. I saw him yesterday when our church went somewhere ... (read in full...)
Girls: Do you prefer sensitive guys or muscly show-offs ?
Q. Dear GIRLS!!! I have a theory about the type of guys you like and need some advice. I think that most girls when they are in their teenage years prefer muscly, jerky show-offs, and then adults prefer sensitive guys. I'm pretty sensitive, and I ...
A. 17 April 2005: It depends on the guy. I would go for the quiet sensitive guys. But thats just my opinion. I also like muscles on guys cuz it makes them freakin hott 0.0! so it just depends on the guy. But mostly I dont go for looks, I try to look to their ... (read in full...)
Nothing works! I want to win his affections, but I don't know how...
Q. Dear Cupid, I have been trying and trying and trying with all of my might to impress my crush and win him over, but nothing I've done seems to be working!I've tried almost EVERYTHING-dressing trendily around him, laughing at all of his jokes, l...
A. 15 April 2005: Dont try so hard. Just be yourself. Think of it this way: if you have to try so hard now, then think how hard you will have to try to be able to keep him once you catch him. And you wouldn't want to have to be something other than yourself for ... (read in full...)
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