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writes: Dear Cupid, I have been trying and trying and trying with all of my might to impress my crush and win him over, but nothing I've done seems to be working!I've tried almost EVERYTHING-dressing trendily around him, laughing at all of his jokes, listening intently to anything he has to say,and trying really hard to show him just how much I love and care about him.It's really getting frustrating because I love him so much and I just want to date him-even if it was only for a day.Do you have any suggestions on how I could steal his heart?Sarah
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2007): Well to tell you the truth, you can't force someone into loving you back. Sometimes things just are not meant to happen, BUT for good reason. Things happen for a reason and you are going to soon realize that this guy is NOT worth all that time and heart ache and energy. So what you have to do is say "who needs him" turn the other way and just be yourself. Eventually someone will come along that you dont need to impress, but he will be someone that sees you, only you, and likes you for you. That will make you feel a lot better that just throwing your heart around.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2007): Been there done that. It never works. Politely ignore him for a while and turn your attentions elsewhere. Dont be available. Wish I'd taken my own advice on reflection.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2006): well just kinda play it kool see im going through this kid of situation only my crush has a girlfriend and i try! just leave him alone for a week dont call him! make him wonder what happened to you and maybe just maybe youll get him where you want him!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2005): Once everything that you described you were doing worked for me. Maybe he thinks you're desperate or he knows you like him so you become a puppet on his shoestring. The thing that always works is don't talk to him for a while. Get rumors circulating about you. (Not bad rumors just eyebrow raising rumors...) and he'll eventually hear them. With that, he'll think about you. If that doesn't work he's gay. Also look hot.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2005): O)ne saying I'm sure you've heard before - Treat them mean, keep them keen!
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 August 2005): Don't try so hard. Most guys like women who are realist. Be real and yourself at all times.
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reader, confused_gurl +, writes (15 April 2005):
Dont try so hard. Just be yourself. Think of it this way: if you have to try so hard now, then think how hard you will have to try to be able to keep him once you catch him. And you wouldn't want to have to be something other than yourself for however long you two are together, would you? Just flirt with him when you feel like flirting, and laugh when you think what he says is funny. Dont chase him aroud, believe me, one of my friends really likes this guy, but she almost scared him away because he thought she was stalking him when she did that. So just be yourself, and while you are doing that then, who knows, you might just find The Guy! good luck
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reader, Angel-lee +, writes (15 April 2005):
First of all if you want to win him over you are going the completely wrong way about it, what you are doing wont work. He knows you like him so he's not going to just come out and say he likes you too because at the moment you are doing all the running. The best thing for you to do is play it cool! when you see him dont flirt with him, because at the moment thats what your doing, just be yourself, dont laugh at his jokes if you dont think their funny, dont dress up for him, dress up for you, no one else, act like your not bothered what he thinks of you. When you go out, dont be there every time, it will be hard but try your hardest to say no, even if you know he is going to be there, you will have him wondering...if you still like him, or where you are, if your there at his every wim he hasnt got time to think about whether he likes you or not. Let him do the running. Keep him on his toes and he will be all over you like a dog on heat!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2005): Stop TRYING so hard.
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