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writes: I have fallen in love with a girl who is my friend and I've told some of her friends how I feel and this has caused friction between them, as the girl I love wants to know what I told them. Therefore I would like to know whether I should tell girl how I feel now, even though I fear she'd reject me? Reply to this Question
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reader, confused_gurl +, writes (13 May 2005):
Well if you dont tell her, then she might get upset that you told her friends things, but you couldn't tell her. Just be honest with her. I went out with one of my friends for almost a year, and it was great. (It was so good that we might be getting back together now) and even though it didn't work out, we both agreed to still be friends. Just go for it, but make sure it wont hurt your friendship. If you dont tell her, then you might lose a great girl and a good friendship. Go for it ;)
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2005): You're best to be honest and tell her - As long as you understand that it could go wrong for you.I was in a similar situation to you, although, I knew that if I told her how I felt for her she'd dump me. It was the hardest thing I've had to do and its taking a long time to get over her. I do look back sometimes and wish I hadn't said anything, but it's best to get it out in the open so the both of you know where you stand. Its hard, and it hurts like hell when its not the answer you want - but honesty has to be the best policy.
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reader, kimberenee82 +, writes (11 May 2005):
If you don't risk all you got and put your whole heart out there you will have regrets, maybe for the rest of you life. She could be just quietly waiting and feeling the same way you do, so don't pass love by, reach out and grab it and scream it to the world. Good Luck, Good Love.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 May 2005): I've heard the greatest rewards come to those who risk everything. So take a chance.
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reader, wwww.datinghaven.com +, writes (10 May 2005):
I am so much like that, worried about rejection and all that.Basically, if you keep it to yourself your shit out, if you are rejected your shit out, if you are not rejected then everythings cool, its worth the risk imo.She is obviously bothered about what you told them, to me that sounds like she might be interested...unless she is just a nosey person
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