I'm on the pill and worried that some amount of women still get pregnant on it!
Q. I'm new to birth control and have been taking them for 2 months now. i take mine all the time without missing any. me and boyfriend always wear condoms but, this time we tried without condoms. I had unprotected sex on the (April) 9th, 11th. On the 1...
A. 14 April 2008: its true you can still get pregnant on the pill, however not on the pill gives you a greater chance of getting pregnant. alot of people i know got pregnant on the pill, but i havent, if you dont miss any then you should have a very low chance of ... (read in full...)
Please help me, I'm concerned about my girlfriend's calls to others!
Q. hi my girlfriend is very great. we are loving each other since 5 years. recently she joined in a corporate company. she talks to guys friends very rarely and with limit before joining company. But now she is talking with one perso...
A. 14 April 2008: well my boyfriend thinks the same, i call my best lad mate alot and he gets really paranoid. truth is, maybe shes lying so you dont go mad at her and she is just chatting as a friend. however why should she lie if theres nothing to hide. tell her ... (read in full...)
I told him to get out, and he did. But I want him back now!
Q. Hi My partner and I have been together for 4 years and living together for 2, recently we have been having financial problems and he lost his job. Soon after this I got very angry one weekend and told him to get out 2 days later he left and said he ...
A. 14 April 2008: well, its a known fact everyone wants what they cant have, is this why u want him back or do you really want him back. if you tried talking to him and telling him that things just got on top of you and you was angry and said things you didnt mean, ... (read in full...)
I encouraged him to be open about his porn use.....so, why does he lie?
Q. When me and my bf first met the issue of porn had come up jokingly and we both confessed that we had watched it and he told me that he had absolutly no desire to watch it at all anymore because he was over the teen phase. this had shocked me ...
A. 13 April 2008: i know what your going through and i know how you muct be feeling, ive been with my boyfriend for a while now, and he hides things, only its not porn (drugs) but he doesnt any more, and it wasnt the drugs that bothered me, it was the fact he couldnt ... (read in full...)
How do I overcome embarrassmentof having text sex with him?
Q. there is a boy im really good mates with and we text each other all the time. the other day we were texting each other being flirty n we virtually had text sex. im now embarrassed by what went on. im seeing him at sometime this week and wont be able ...
A. 13 April 2008: text sex/phone sex, shouldn't be embarrassing, you obvioulsy trusted him so much that you could do this with him, maybe you have feelings for him and him for you. however if you dont want to do this again just say to him that you didn't mean for it ... (read in full...)
I have a problem with him ending sex with masturbation! Does this stem from watching too much porn?
Q. Lately, whenever we have sex, he cums a little and then says he is close to a "big one" and to play with him (i.e. jack him off, lick him, etc) until he's close and then he'll either cum inside of me or just cum. He seems to be in the mind set that ...
A. 13 April 2008: you dont need to think of porn as a bad thing, if he enjoys it so much, ask him if you could watch it with him, see what turns him on alot, and try acting it out with him. keep him on his toes and he wont be able to get enough.
instead of watc... (read in full...)
I gave in to his request (oral sex) but he did not return the favour. Am I right to be upset?
Q. I recently gave my 1st blowjob to a guy I was dating. He wanted it so much and so I gave in. Although personally I felt the act demeaning, I didn't mind doing it as I was attracted to this guy so much. However when I asked him if he would return ...
A. 13 April 2008: well oral sex should work both ways, it can be amazing aslong as you trust each other and find out what each other likes, however if he turns you down, tell him no more for him. try 69, its not always one ontop of the other, try lying on your side ... (read in full...)
I feel this is not a healthy relation for an active and social person like me, should I continue with my live-in BF?
Q. I live with my boyfriend of four years but I am getting to the point where I don't know if I should stay with him. He never wants to do anything with me and when I ask he just gets discouraged and doesnt want to go out. He sleeps all day and I ...
A. 13 April 2008: have you tried talking to him? i know exactly what you mean my boufriend never wants me to go out or does anything with me, but its not how you should be. he should be happy with making you happy and if he cant see that then hes not so good for you, ... (read in full...)
I feel this is not a healthy relation for an active and social person like me, should I continue with my live-in BF?
Q. I live with my boyfriend of four years but I am getting to the point where I don't know if I should stay with him. He never wants to do anything with me and when I ask he just gets discouraged and doesnt want to go out. He sleeps all day and I ...
A. 13 April 2008: have you tried talking to him? i know exactly what you mean my boufriend never wants me to go out or does anything with me, but its not how you should be. he should be happy with making you happy and if he cant see that then hes not so good for you, ... (read in full...)
Can I become an Agony Aunt?
Q. Hey, I'm Chloe, i'm using dear cupid, because i used to love talking to agony aunts, and they always gave good advice when i didn't know who to ask. So i would like to become like that, and help others out from my experience, can i? Chloe x...
A. 12 April 2008: Thanks alot, x... (read in full...)
Do you only bleed a bit with your first intercourse?
Q. I had first time intercourse last night. We'd prepared well, and relaxed, and did lots of foreplay. We didn't expect too much. At first we fumbled and giggled our way through it!! But we enjoyed ourselves. I did bleed a bit but I expected it ...
A. 12 April 2008: the 1st time yes you do bleed, but it depends on how gentle he actually was, because the more you do it, he may not need to be as careful and may split you more. also if you have sex with a different person who is larger than you b/f, he can also ... (read in full...)
She flirted with our friend. I trust her but I don't know what to do
Q. Dear Cupid: I'm just your average 18 year old guy i have a beautiful G/F. Well i'm goign straight to the point. You see last night my G/F and our former friend told in front of everyone (we had like 8 ppl in the chat)that she liked him...alth...
A. 12 April 2008: well let me start by saying, you shouldnt have said u liked the lads ex, two wrongs dont make a right. and if you dont think he will be bothering you 2 again then why not just put it in the past. if you didn't find any evidence then you cant accuse ... (read in full...)
I care to win my ex back and also care about my pride... what can you advise?
Q. Can you guys help me? Me and my girlfriend have been split up for 2 months, and a lot of stuff has happened since, but we are still in touch by text. She knows how i still feel about her and she has told me she still has feelings for me, this was ...
A. 12 April 2008: i say go for it n try your hardest, if you dont you will spend forever thinking 'what if; and believe me, thats the worst thing to think. if she says no, so what atleast in years to come you know you didnt throw it all away. if you both know how ... (read in full...)
I'm worried we will drift apart before we get serious! Any suggestions?
Q. Well here goes: I've been dating, what i consider to be an amazing woman, granted I'm 29 she's 23 but the level of maturity is the same so age was never a problem with us. We've been together for just over 3 months, and we've hit a huge snag. The ...
A. 12 April 2008: i think your trying too hard, i believe in fait, if its going to last, then it will. me and my partner arent too much alike but we get on really well, you dont have to like the same things to get on well. infact me and my partner disagree on most ... (read in full...)
Should I tell her to calm down a bit until we get to know each other? She's overexcited about us...
Q. I'm preparing to go out on a date with a girl who got divorced 2 years ago and she has a crush on me, and I like her to. She already has two kids, a house and works beside me. Before our first date she is planning for us to be together forever, ...
A. 12 April 2008: this woman just seems like she wants to be loved and cared for and wants everything to go to plan, however things arent always that simple. i think you should go on a date and see where it leads, talk to her and be honest and say you dont want to ... (read in full...)
My friend's partner treats her miserably but she says she can't leave because she loves him. What could I advise her?
Q. i have a friend who i dearly love as my sister, shes having so much problems in her relationship that i dont know where to begin.. but says she's curious thats hes cheating on her,explains that her partner always comes home from work stays for only ...
A. 12 April 2008: hii darlin, well seems you got a problem there, all you can do is tell her to talk to him, if he doesnt realise what hes doing maybe someone should tell him and if he doesnt care then she shouldn't be with him. if you've tried to help her and she ... (read in full...)
I dream about my (older) ex, feeling lonely and empty as people my age are not as interested. Should I forget my ex? (parents disagreed to the relation)
Q. ok, about 6 months ago i was in a relationship with a 25 yr old guy when i was 15. we didnt do anything sexual or anyhting stupid, huggin and kissing was it. anyway my parents found out and now wer arent allowed to have contact with each otha at ...
A. 12 April 2008: my parents were the same and there was 7 years between me and my boyfriend, but i just started to see him to check if it would work out because i didnt want 2 tell my parents and then me and my boyfriend split up. but now they know, they realise how ... (read in full...)
In my culture, relationship at young age is frowned upon, so how to manage my feelings?
Q. well im 16 and sri lankan and in our culture, boyfroends and girlfriends at a young age is mmm frowned upon. Currently i am in love, i want to be with her and so does she, however im not sure to continue this relationship as if we get seen by ...
A. 12 April 2008: hi, well i dont really know much about the culture, but it depends how strongly you feel about this girl, if you love her then i say go for it, my parents didn't agree with my relationship as there is 7 years between us, but after a while they got ... (read in full...)
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