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writes:I'm preparing to go out on a date with a girl who got divorced 2 years ago and she has a crush on me, and I like her to. She already has two kids, a house and works beside me. Before our first date she is planning for us to be together forever, I'm excited to but is she overexcited and should I tell her to calm it down a little bit until we get to know each other?
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reader, clobear  +, writes (12 April 2008):
 this woman just seems like she wants to be loved and cared for and wants everything to go to plan, however things arent always that simple. i think you should go on a date and see where it leads, talk to her and be honest and say you dont want to move quikly and you would like to really get to know each other before you moved too far. im sure she will understand if you be honest, if you dont tell her how you feel you will regret it, and no body likes being lied to.
hope this helps you hun, xxxx
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reader, Deema +, writes (12 April 2008):
 Wow, she has you strung up like a chicken honey (lol) scarey stuff !!!! Its fine if you're ready for all that, but sounds like you're not, and men like to do the chasing anyway, they don't want to be organised into doing stuff they're not ready for. So tell her to back off, or she'll overwhelm you and smother you, may even be your stalker - wooooooo :0 . Or run - quick :)))))).
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reader, daniellexxxx +, writes (12 April 2008):
 I think shes just glad shes found someone and probably didn't think she would find love again. She will calm down soon she's exsited let her have her buz but if she continues after a while adn shes starting to get on your nerves tell her but dont snap at her or shout.
Good luck.
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