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I feel this is not a healthy relation for an active and social person like me, should I continue with my live-in BF?

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Question - (12 April 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 13 April 2008)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I live with my boyfriend of four years but I am getting to the point where I don't know if I should stay with him. He never wants to do anything with me and when I ask he just gets discouraged and doesnt want to go out. He sleeps all day and I just don't know if I should stay in this relationship it is not healthy for an active and social person like me. I love him and he is great, but I think I am ready to move on, I am just scared of having no friends in this town and being completely alone.

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A female reader, clobear United Kingdom +, writes (13 April 2008):

clobear agony aunthave you tried talking to him? i know exactly what you mean my boufriend never wants me to go out or does anything with me, but its not how you should be. he should be happy with making you happy and if he cant see that then hes not so good for you, you should be able to spend time together, alone and out socialising, most poeple can get very depressed staying in constantly and therefor you should try and tell him just how you feel. try to persuade him to come out, your a woman, you have unberlievable powers when it comes to getting men to do what you want, also if he loves you as much as you love him he should listen and take in what you tell him, so hopefully he will start to go out with you.

good luck and hope this helps, chloe x x

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A female reader, clobear United Kingdom +, writes (13 April 2008):

clobear agony aunthave you tried talking to him? i know exactly what you mean my boufriend never wants me to go out or does anything with me, but its not how you should be. he should be happy with making you happy and if he cant see that then hes not so good for you, you should be able to spend time together, alone and out socialising, most poeple can get very depressed staying in constantly and therefor you should try and tell him just how you feel. try to persuade him to come out, your a woman, you have unberlievable powers when it comes to getting men to do what you want, also if he loves you as much as you love him he should listen and take in what you tell him, so hopefully he will start to go out with you.

good luck and hope this helps, chloe x x

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