How do I make his 2 year old son like me?
Q. Hi everyone! I started dating a man recently and he has a 2 year old boy from a previous relationship. I met his kid twice so far and he doesn't seem to like me at all! He turns his head around when i talk to him and he doesn't want to talk to me or ...
A. 16 November 2018: Your boyfriend is right, he'll just need some time. Just make sure to be nice, and kind, and keep trying to speak to him, make sure you're approachable. you just... (read in full...)
I'm 22 and she's 35 should I continue the relationship?
Q. I met an amazing woman the other day. I've already gone out with her a couple of times and we've even had sex. The only thing is that she's 35 and I'm 22. She also has a 10 year old boy. I've tried to talk myself out of this a million times, but ...
A. 16 November 2018: Trust me, there's nothing wrong with it. Both of you are legal adults, and age is just a number. My best friend is 24, and is with my other best friend who's 35. They've been together for almost 2 years now, and are still going strong. And they're ... (read in full...)
She seems open but what if she is telling me lies?
Q. Been single now for about 5 months after a long term relationship, and met someone a few weeks ago that i hit it off with, it happend very randomly and out of the blue. being careful, or at least trying to be ive had my guard up. but it feels right ...
A. 12 November 2018: You're jumping to conclusions way too fast. Just because there is a truck, doesn't mean she's seeing someone. As HoneyPie suggested, it could be a family member, or maybe just someone parking in her driveway. Also, you don't know for sure whether ... (read in full...)
The girls I want to date end up dating other guys!
Q. Hi everyone! This isn't such a serious situation, just looking for some advice and guidance. I met a girl a few weeks ago, we exchanged numbers and she went back to her city 2 hours away. We chatted every day, she flirted a lot and we had a g...
A. 12 November 2018: If you ask her why, you may come across as being needy and desperate. Next time you like a girl, and you think things are going well, ask them on a date. Perhaps she thought the 2 hour distance was too long for her? Perhaps she was just being ... (read in full...)
How to get him to see the urgency for a house and a family?
Q. I have been with my husdand for just over 6 years and we are newly wed only married for 5 months. I find I am increasingly getting down and upset as we have been living in a caravan for 5 years together on his parents farm and we now have a good ...
A. 12 November 2018: 32 is still quite young. Maybe focus on one thing at a time? Next time he makes an excuse, ask him what type of house he'd prefer. But try not to rush things yet. You may have been together for 6 years, but marriage is different. Maybe, if you had ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend celebrates Christmas with his ex and family and I am not even invited
Q. Dear Cupid, My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years. He is early 50 and I’m 30. He has 2 kids that are early twenties. They live and study abroad and from time to time are back in town. The problem is that he celebrated Christmas at ...
A. 11 November 2018: I agree with WiseOwlE, HoneyPie and Mystiquek. He clearly isn't prioritizing you at a time where he should. I understand, that he has kids, but they're adults. You should all spend that time together. He shouldn't be treating you like a dirty ... (read in full...)
Worst mistake of my life!! Don’t know what to do
Q. I’m in the worst situation I could ever be in in my life I’ve made the biggest mistake ever and now I don’t know what to do I am suffering badly! I am 14 weeks pregnant but ended up cheating the night before I found out I was pregnant I know how bad ...
A. 11 November 2018: At the end of the day, cheating is cheating. Lying and covering ij up is going to make things worse. You are going to have to face the consequences. The only thing you can do is to explain and to show your boyfriend that it was truly a mistake.... (read in full...)
I've got a crush on the check out chck!
Q. Over the last couple of months i have been getting very friendly with a girl who works on the checkout at my local supermarket. We chat a lot and share lots of eye contact, and when i am walking away with my trolley after paying i look back and she ...
A. 11 November 2018: You could always write your name and number on a piece of paper and write something like, 'call me?', and give it to her. If she calls you, then ask her if she's interested in going out for a drink or something. ... (read in full...)
Should I be strong and not burden people with my problems?
Q. I'm really upset but wondering if I have every right to be or if my boyfriend was spot on and I need to get a grip. I have two children with my ex, we were together 8 years but then he cheated with his now wife. They got married within months of...
A. 11 November 2018: First of all, definitely get legal support for your kids. They are young children who should not have to be going through what this new woman is putting them through. It's dangerous for them. Secondly, just block that woman, you don't have to have ... (read in full...)
I can't believe he couldnt see how I felt.
Q. I love a guy who is a good friend of mine and he doesnt know that I love him. At present we are not at all in talking terms. Let me explain how all this happened. 6-7 months back it came to my realization that I love him because I sensed jealousy...
A. 11 November 2018: You need to tell him how you feel. You're both adults, not children. Wasting time, thinking 'what if' is not going to get you anywhere. It's going to make things worse. ... (read in full...)
I cheated, fell pregnant, boyfriend left, I believe its his baby.
Q. I cheated on my boyfriend and I found out I was pregnant in a month time. When I told my boyfriend about it he told me to give birth but after he will have a DNA test. I had to tell him the truth that I cheated on him.he then said he is not ...
A. 11 November 2018: Have the DNA test. Thinking the baby is his, doesn't definitely mean it is his. Do the DNA test to double check, then inform the father. If he doesn't take responsibility, then get some legal arrangements put into place. It's his child too, whether ... (read in full...)
I don't want to hurt his feelings but I don't see this being a long term forever thing
Q. I've been seeing a guy since August we both got out of relationships shortly before so we just decided to have fun with it. we've known each other since March and got on well as friends but as both of us were in relationships we never displayed any ...
A. 11 November 2018: You should tell him now, because if you leave it too long, it'll cause more damage. I was with a guy, who decided he wasn't ready for a relationship and so ended it with me, and it did hurt at the time, I realise now that I'm so glad he told me ... (read in full...)
I'm 20 yet my parents don't want me to date.
Q. Hi everyone, this might get quite lengthy as there are back stories to the issues. Bear with me! First of all, I’m 20 years old in my 2nd year of university and I come from a Chinese family. And yes, the typical stereotypes of asian households...
A. 11 November 2018: You'll have to ignore those facial expressions and do what's right for you. You've already come so far, don't throw it away and give up now! As I've said, they'll have to accept it eventually... (read in full...)
My head is everywhere and I can't make a decision.
Q. I’ve been with my boyfriend for 16 months and he left to go Australia in Feb this year, I knew from the start that that was his plans and I was fine with it and both decided to keep things the same way knowing with it being a long distance ...
A. 11 November 2018: Both you and him are thinking about what he wants, but what about what YOU want? There are two of you in this relationship, and so you need to work around that. Evidently, both of you want different things, so you have two options: both of you find ... (read in full...)
I like a guy but another girl might steal him.
Q. I like this uy named Jonah but im not sure how to go about it because we only talk in school and this one girl Aliyah may steal him but I feel like me and him have a connection...
A. 11 November 2018: At the end of the day, if it's meant to be, it'll be. You can't force anything, and neither can she. If he likes YOU, then it'll happen. One thing though, don't try to change yourself for a guy.... (read in full...)
I had sex with my best friend now I want to be his girlfriend!
Q. So I have been best friends with an American man for about 12.5 years now, we met online and started as penpals , we have emailed nearly every day for 12 years and always ring each other and there for each other if we were going through a tough ...
A. 10 November 2018: The best way to tell him, is just by sitting down, and telling him the truth. Obviously, he loves you a lot, the fact that he's not giving up on you, and is on the first flight to you just shows that. He is head over heels for you. Explain to him, ... (read in full...)
I'm 20 yet my parents don't want me to date.
Q. Hi everyone, this might get quite lengthy as there are back stories to the issues. Bear with me! First of all, I’m 20 years old in my 2nd year of university and I come from a Chinese family. And yes, the typical stereotypes of asian households...
A. 10 November 2018: I agree with WiseOwlE, in that your parents aren't changing their beliefs, so why should you? I come from an Asian family too, although I live in the UK, but it's honestly so hard, especially because we're girls, and obviously, in the asian culture, ... (read in full...)
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