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21 November 2007: Hi all, My story starts with me having a number of failed relationships. I was sexually abused from 4 - 12 and then went with an older woman at the age of 16. She dumped me for someone her own age as she was 46 at the time. I felt used and ab...
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Divorce,not the end
Q. well ive been separated for 3 years now,divorced for one.i was with him for 7 years,which is a long time to me.he was definately the love of my life.we were young and dumb i guess.falling in love with someone and wanting to be with them forver is ...
A. 26 February 2008: I am going through a separation. Whilst it seemed the end when she left and got herself a flat in July last year. It now is a blessing in disguise. I have more freedom. I may be single, but that doesn't mean I mope around my flat watching the ... (read in full...)
Pornography and relationships
Q. As some people reading this will already know, I moderate and write regularly on this site. Porn is one those issues that is often cited as a problem and also causes a fair amount or moral controversy. On the one hand are the people whose ...
A. 26 February 2008: I would say that Porn can cause a problem if it takes over from being intimate with your partner. One of the biggest problems is addiction to the Internet. So many marriages and relationships have failed due to the partner getting addicted... (read in full...)
Still the One
Q. Hi all, My story starts with me having a number of failed relationships. I was sexually abused from 4 - 12 and then went with an older woman at the age of 16. She dumped me for someone her own age as she was 46 at the time. I felt used and ab...
A. 26 February 2008: My situation got worse when this girl became clingy. There is a distance between us. At first when I was with her the chemistry was there. I had no problems thinking of me with her in the future. But then she started to question why I wanted a ... (read in full...)
Why does a man just cut contact with you?
Q. why? what makes a man cut contact with you unexpectedly even after youve asked why they are ignoring you and yet still they ignore you. why? even when you havent done anything wrong. does it take a certain type of a man to not consider your feelings ...
A. 26 February 2008: The answer to this is plain and simple for both Genders. A person cuts contact with another and not just specifically male, because they are scared to make a commitment. I have been dumped by email, text and letter. It vary rarely happens o... (read in full...)
Still the One
Q. Hi all, My story starts with me having a number of failed relationships. I was sexually abused from 4 - 12 and then went with an older woman at the age of 16. She dumped me for someone her own age as she was 46 at the time. I felt used and ab...
A. 26 November 2007: LOL people are slow to comment maybe I have answered my own question. Anyway the girl I am with now is saying that she wants to come down on Friday. Nothing wrong with that but my Sister n Law is going to do my place over because there is going to ... (read in full...)
Still the One
Q. Hi all, My story starts with me having a number of failed relationships. I was sexually abused from 4 - 12 and then went with an older woman at the age of 16. She dumped me for someone her own age as she was 46 at the time. I felt used and ab...
A. 26 November 2007: Well thank you so much for your quick reply Aloha.
As someone with Aspergers I feel lucky that I have found love at all. Most people with my condition find it difficult to form relationships or even get anyone interested in them. I hear so many ... (read in full...)
Does this mean he is about to pop the question?
Q. Hey Guys and Girls I have a story to share with you today. My name is Heather by the way I am 23 and in a relationship. Here's the story. I am dating this wonderful guy long distance now for six weeks he is 16 years old his name is Jaime West...
A. 21 November 2007: He is 16 years of age and doesn't know what he wants I know at 16 I didn't. Remember he is still young and you are a mature young woman. I do feel that he is just messing around. He has his life ahead of him and isn't thinking in terms of a job, ... (read in full...)
When your bf changes you, your attitude, the clothes you wear, and makes you let go of your friends and family...
Q. My ex-boyfriend and I have been broken up for a month now. and i do miss him alot. i am taking this time to review my relationship with you all. we were together for two years i broke up with him a month ago because i just got tired of being in a ...
A. 21 November 2007: It sounds like he is a control freak and you are well rid. I would not allow anyone to change the way I am. I can't understand people who change to what their partner wants then suddenly the partner turns around and says well you are not the ... (read in full...)
I mastrabate too much!
Q. okay... well i masturbate a lot.. and i am a bit worried. I've been doing it since i was in 5th grade, and well I'm 17 now. i do it about 4-5 times a day, and i watch porn about 3 times day, maybe more. i am obsessed with sex. but I'm a virgin, it ...
A. 21 November 2007: There is nothing wrong with doing what you are doing as long as you do it in private and don't do it where you can get arrested LOL.
Also some Women have a sex drive to match a Mans. Its all good as long as you feel good about yourself. This is ... (read in full...)
An odd first Relationship
Q. Ok...... now this is the first time i have told anyone else besides my BBF about this. It started about 5 weeks ago when i met a guy at a caffe who my twin brother new. He is 46 but a really nice guy, he asked if my bro and i would like to co...
A. 21 November 2007: I do not believe age should be a barrier as long as its not a child!!!
The only problem that I can see in this relationship is the fact that he is not interested. Its a bit of fun that you both enjoy. But you have not really experien... (read in full...)
Playing hard to get?
Q. hi guys... i went to this party on friday night and this guy was there who i've liked for a few months now! he's 23 and i'm 17 but he's got me head over heels. All his mates say he only goes out with a girl if she's drop dead gorgeous but he's been ...
A. 21 November 2007: You say all his mates say he only goes out with girls that are drop dead gorgeous. Well it seems you have low self esteem as you don't think he should be going out with you. That is just one thing I picked up on.
He could be worried about th... (read in full...)
Is he/she cheating
Q. if you thing your girl or guy is cheating look at what they act like if there acting superstitious always saying oh im going out or at my mates tonight then they might be hiding something from you its not neserserily that they are cheating but ...
A. 21 November 2007: Not sure really if my WIfe was cheating on me. But she did go to the Gym more hours than I think even an Olympic gymnast would need. One day I fell asleep and looked at the time. She was supposed to come back at around 6 from work. But she w... (read in full...)
I think my friends guy might be cheating on her. What should I do?
Q. hey this is a question that has been nagging out me for a long time now...its about my friend she has a boyfriend that lives 3 hours away form her she's only seen him twice IN HER WHOLE LIFE she thinks she's in love but this is just her first "real" ...
A. 21 November 2007: I am not sure really. The fact of the matter is that he may be busy and he may not be cheating on her. I live almost 2 hours away from my GF. I do not see this as a problem as we get to see each other at weekends and she is coming up in the New ... (read in full...)
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