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I mastrabate too much!

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Article - (12 November 2007) 3 Comments - (Newest, 21 November 2007)
A female age 30-35, anonymous writes:

okay... well i masturbate a lot.. and i am a bit worried. I've been doing it since i was in 5th grade, and well I'm 17 now. i do it about 4-5 times a day, and i watch porn about 3 times day, maybe more. i am obsessed with sex. but I'm a virgin, it has been 2 years since i kissed a guy or have been in a relationship. the most i have done with a guy is give him a hand job, and that was not fulfilling. he basically sucked! However, getting to the point, i am obsessed with masturbating... and it has been impossible to stop. What do i do?

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A male reader, Chemer United Kingdom +, writes (21 November 2007):

Chemer agony auntThere is nothing wrong with doing what you are doing as long as you do it in private and don't do it where you can get arrested LOL.

Also some Women have a sex drive to match a Mans. Its all good as long as you feel good about yourself. This is not the dark ages.

As for relationships well that will come in time. I felt I would never be able to settle down with a Woman. Well since I have had a few short flings, been married and now looking at getting divorced, but in another relationship.

So take it from me when you stop trying so hard it will happen.

Steve

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A male reader, bigbenlondon United Kingdom +, writes (12 November 2007):

bigbenlondon agony auntGood on you for being honest!

Masturbating is only a bad thing if doing it is making you feel bad or if you think you are doing it to cover up some bad feelings.

Anyway all the practice you are putting in when it comes to sex you're going to know exactly what you like and how you like it - no bad thing at all.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2007):

hey it's normal for guys and girls (even though girls tend to keep it secret). it doesnt make you a slut or anything, and it isn't like an addiction cos you aren't actually taking anything, theres nothing wrong!

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