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jeanetto07
writes:My ex-boyfriend and I have been broken up for a month now. and i do miss him alot. i am taking this time to review my relationship with you all. we were together for two years i broke up with him a month ago because i just got tired of being in a relationship and still feeling alone. during the course of our relationship i found myself changing into the person he wanted me to be from my attitude to what i wear to letting go of my friends. i would have walked to the end of the earth for this man, i stayed home, stopped hanging out because he had me to believe that he was going to marry me. late at night i used to look for him when he didn't come home. i caught him in multiple lies that he couldn't expalain after all this changing i done he stayed the same. he didn't want to go to my family gatherings or anything.
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reader, delboysbunny  +, writes (25 November 2007):
it sounds like my relationship with my daughters farther i can say i no it hurts and u dont understand y but im glade ur out b4 he got u 2 the stage where u belive what he tells u about ur self babe spend this time makeing up with friends and family and try doing some thing new and just remember not 2 let another man do it if he does not like u for who u r then he is not the right 1 and that friends and family will be there longer than any man ever will.
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reader, Chemer +, writes (21 November 2007):
 It sounds like he is a control freak and you are well rid. I would not allow anyone to change the way I am. I can't understand people who change to what their partner wants then suddenly the partner turns around and says well you are not the person I met. DUH of course they are not they have changed them LOL.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2007): hello there.
okay there are many problems with this.first off....you should never have to change for a man..NO MATTER WHAT ANYONE SAYS. seriously, if you're going to have a good relationship then the guy tries to change you at all then he's not worth it at all; also never get rid of your friends just because a guy says so; friends will always be there for you. 2nd if he's lying to you....that's an automatic no no....defiantly don't let him fool you...if he's lying he's not worth it.
third: he defiantly seems like a controling person....that's not good...you deserve someone who will let you do things and loves you for who you are...not someone who is going to make you change because he feels that you should.
he's not a good guy...but you also can't help your feelings...it's natural...you deserve better and i think that you should try to move on..no matter how painful it is.
GOOD LUCK!
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