Is it too much to ask for a phone call everyday in a long distance relationship?
Q. Is it too much to ask for a phone call everyday in a long distance relationship? This is my second long distance relationship where my other decides to not call or return calls for 4 days at a time, when we typically talk daily. I ended the first ...
A. 19 February 2008: My BF is in the Army and has been for almost 2years now. Generally i see him every weekend but still i get a phone call for about an hour every weekday! There is obviously exceptions when this cant happen but we would both send a text to say that we ... (read in full...)
How can we maintain this relationship with him missing me so much??
Q. I am involved with a guy who is in the army. We have only spent a short time together but know we like each other very much and have done for around 1 year but the problem is he is finding it too difficult to maintain a relationship whilst he is ...
A. 19 February 2008: I think that if the relationship is right it will work, if he loves you enough then you both will make it work. If it is meant to be then all the heart ache of being apart will be worth it fot them special moments that you do get to be together... (read in full...)
Stressed out because my army guy hardly contacts me!
Q. Im getting really stressed about my boyfriend of two years. He is in the army and been real busy at work recently but have hardly had any contact with him for a week. Last sunday he said he couldn't wait to see me again and called me sexy but hardly ...
A. 19 February 2008: Sounds like he is in basic training. I am in a relationship with an army guy and Basic training was the worst, they work them so hard that they have no time to make phone calls. And in there free time they have to buff there boots, do there ironing ... (read in full...)
He cheated and I'm trying to forgive him but he didn't call after I left him a note to!
Q. Hi,my boyfriend cheated,im trying to forgive him and we are in the process of working things out again,yesterday was his birthday,i didn see him at all and i couldnt call him because he recently lost his phone,i went to his place in the morning ...
A. 18 October 2006: it was his birthday and he probably wanted to have a good time. would you want to be reminded of your wrong doings on a joyous occasion? maybe you had no plans with him so he arranged to do something because he wanted to enjoy his day. However i do ... (read in full...)
Its driving me crazy that were just friends and I want something more! What should I do?
Q. i ok....have this guy freind (weve known each other for about a month or so, but have been hanging out literally 24/7. there hasnt been one day we havent hung out for exleast 7 hr.) so ne ways im really starting to like him a lot and it seems like ...
A. 5 October 2006: i think it might be a good idea if you left it for a couple more months, i think the conversation you had was maybe him giving you a hint that he liked you but wants to get to know you first. if he likes you im sure he will ask you out at some ... (read in full...)
My BF won't let me go places without him!
Q. Ive tried n tried to make our relationship work, but sumtimes I get so frustrated! My bf is always telling me that he doesnt think its a good idea for me 2 go places and says its becuz hes over protective and cares bout me but sumtimes I wonder. ...
A. 4 October 2006: this bloke wants to control you, dont let him do it.
if my bf told me i culdnt go somewhere i would go, and id go there regularly, we women need to stand up for ourselves, in this day and age we have as much right to do as we please as men.
make ... (read in full...)
I kissed my best friend's bf and now he likes me more! My best friend hates me now..what can I do??
Q. oh god i dunno wat 2 do i need help guys. i did a really bad thing i kissed my best friend's boyfriend. it just happened and now he likes me he wants to dump my best friend i dunno wat 2 do she found out and she's not even talkin 2 me i tried 2 cal ...
A. 4 October 2006: firstly you shouldnt have let this happen and if i was your mate i would slap you in the face and never speak to you again. mates are meant to come before blokes! with this kind of betrayal i wouldnt want to talk to either of you.
i think you shou... (read in full...)
Im tryng to get back with my ex, shes having doubts! Should I keep trying or move on?
Q. Hi well im trying to get back with my ex girlfriend since we broke up cause of my fault. She dumped me because i had done twice already and told me she started to have feelings for another guy. This last monday was her b-day, got her some ballons to ...
A. 4 October 2006: i think you should wait, there is a saying if you love someone let them go, if they love you they will come back. if you love her give her the time that she has asked for. pestering her will drive her further and further away.
she may decided that... (read in full...)
Hes only in England for 6 months of the year, Im pregnant, can this work ??
Q. Dear Cupid, Im 18 years of age, I have a boyfriend 23yrs but lives in antigua as he's born there. He comes to England for the cricket season to play and gets paid, which is about 6 months a year. I'm 3 months pregnant. can this work or will i have t...
A. 4 October 2006: if you both want it to work and both put the effort in, i dont see why not, long distance relationships are very difficult though. Is there no way you could live out there with him or him move here permanently?
if this baby is what you want then... (read in full...)
Holding hands?
Q. Holding hands? Is holding hands juvenile? When should you hold hands? Do some people just not hold hands? Is it too "couple-y"? What do you do?...
A. 4 October 2006: i love holding hands. if me and my bf are holding hands and he lets go i want to know why. i wouldnt say i am possessive it just makes me feel close to him.... (read in full...)
After me and my gf broke up, I feel like my life is falling apart. Please give me some advice.
Q. Hey guys, My life is slowly falling apart, i'm depressed and really don't know what to do from here, hope u guys can give me some advice... I just broke up with my gf of 2 years, im 22, shes 21. She says she lost feelings for me, that her feeling...
A. 4 October 2006: i split up with a bf last year after 2years together. he dumped me. i knew that he was always going out and i hated it, we got back together after 3months and he told me that he was drunk for pretty much the whole 3months, he said that when he was ... (read in full...)
We met on holiday and now that we're home he acts weird...
Q. Hi, i met a lad on holiday this summer, and we got on really well! we just clicked! he told me how me felt and it was how i was feeling, we didnt have sex! but things happened! and i asked him if he had a GF cuz he went quiet! so then i started 2 ...
A. 3 October 2006: im sorry to say this huni but i think for him it was probably just a holiday romance, him not replying clearly suggests that he isnt interested. id stop texting him because you could be perceived as desperate. When you see him next summer id suggest ... (read in full...)
We are drifting apart due to distance...what can I do?
Q. My girlfriend has just moved to manchester to start her new 6th form college. I live near Bristol and it takes 4 hours by train to get up there. We're both 16 nearly 17 and we both say we're in love with each other, and I know I am absolutely in ...
A. 3 October 2006: my bf is in the army so i know long distance relationships are so difficult. tell her that you feel you are drifting apart and see what she says, make it clear to her you want to work on your relationship because you love her dearly.
There are many... (read in full...)
Is it wrong for a girl to call a guy and text him first? Guys opinions wanted!
Q. boys this is 4 u, is it wrong 4 a girl 2 call a guy and text him first eg. im seeing this guy but havnt heard from him 4 2 weeks i wanna text him or talk 2 him but i dont want it to look like im chasing him, i just basically wanna know whether u ...
A. 3 October 2006: hold on, you're seeing a guy but you aint spoke 2him in 2weeks, maybe kinda seems like you've been dumped. (sorry)
send him a text but play it cool, just say something along the lines of; hey aint spoke to you in a while, how are you? what you been... (read in full...)
I'm 15 and pregnant! I can't tell my parents...What shall ! do?
Q. im 15 and pregnant! what shall i do??? it was a mistake, im not with the father of the baby, i got drunk and got carried away! help, i cant tell my mum or dad or anyone! how am i gonna tell them!?! they will be crushed! ...
A. 3 October 2006: you really need to tell your parents, they will be there for you, they will give you the emotional strength you need. im not denying they are probably going to be disappointed in you but they will want to help you.
if you cant tell your pare... (read in full...)
I want him to show more little displays of affection! Am I being too needy to ask for this?
Q. I have been living with a great guy for about 1 year now. He's hard-working, open, honest and seems to care about me genuinely. The problem is, he's not very affectionate and I'm the type of person who likes to have affection. You know little ...
A. 3 October 2006: maybe you need to realise that romance isnt in his nature, or you can try and teach him by showing him what you want and how nice it makes you feel by doing the things to him. or as you are talking put his hand on your face or ask him to stroke your ... (read in full...)
Did he only come back because the grass wasnt greener ??
Q. my boyfriend left me for another girl but now hes back does he like me or hes just back because it went bad ?...
A. 3 October 2006: i think he realised how much he likes you once it was over. he probably didnt know how deep he felt for you.
if you take him back this time i would advise that you tell him if he does it again there will be no second chance, this should stop him ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong for me to not want my boyfriend to go to the Navy?
Q. Is it wrong for me to not want my boyfriend to go to the Navy? He already went and took a test to see what he was qualified for. He was telling all the wonderful things they can do, like pay for a house and things such as that. I personally, do not ...
A. 21 September 2006: omg hun i totaly know how you feel. my bf decided to join the army once we had been together 1year7months. i was distraught, i wasnt happy with him going and i ended up ruining our relationship. we split up but luckely got back together 3months ... (read in full...)
I'm sad because he is always away...How can I deal with the lonliness???
Q. Im in my first relationship and My boyfriend works away a lot For periods of time that can range from 7 days to 6 weeks I have very strong feelings for him but as this is all new to me I want him around all the time I am worried of pushing him away ...
A. 13 September 2006: hey huni, i kinda know how you feel, my bf is n the army and is away all the time. he is just starting out and the longest he has been away is 7weeks. but i could have 6months on my own to look forward to if he gets posted to iraq or afganistan. i ... (read in full...)
By BF wants children and I might be pregnant - I'm only 16!
Q. I have been going out my boyfriend for 3 and a half months. I have had sex with him but he wants children and I might be pregnant. What can I do? My period should start again on the 27 of this month and I am only 16 years old....
A. 11 July 2006: if you dont want children then say no, dont let him force you into it. and in my opinion you are far to young to be even considering them, im 18 and wouldnt dream of attempting to bring a child into this world, even considering it at your age shows ... (read in full...)
What could my GF be up to while she is on holiday?!
Q. Hi, My girlfriend is on holiday in Magaluf with her best 'girl' friend and I can't stop thinking about what she might be up to. We have been together about 3 months and the holiday was booked about 6 months ago. I bit my tongue about her holida...
A. 11 July 2006: i was in the same situation last year but im the girl, and i can assure you i had NO intention of cheating on my bf and guess what, i didnt. i had so many oppurtunities(sp) and when i said i had a bf, they didnt care as long as he was in england but ... (read in full...)
I didn't bleed my first time!
Q. Does it always bleed? Hello, im 14 years old and i recently had sex with my bf on our 1 year anniversiry. ive never had sex before and i heard that when you have sex for the first time a women bleeds from her "downtown area" Anyway ive ne...
A. 11 July 2006: i didnt bleed at all so dont think its ne fing to woz bout, but do u know that sex at 14 is against the law
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Been married for a year but am starting to lose interest in this marriage! Help!
Q. Should I leave my husband? I have been married for a year. I have started to lose interest in this marriage and I don't know what to do. We hardly make love. He has a low sex-drive and we hardly make out once a week. That's not healthy for a...
A. 11 July 2006: the only way this will be resolved is if you talk to him, tell him your not happy and that things have gota change and if you can see after a while he hasnt made an effort then if you feel it is the rite thing to do leave him, but remember forcing ... (read in full...)
He went back to his ex, but now he wants me back....what should I do?
Q. I am young and in love. And its a mess. I dated a guy for 3 weeks, but about a month if you count one week we were friends with benefits. I had always had bad luck with relationships, but with him things were different. We actually worked out and ...
A. 11 July 2006: would bother with him if i was you, it seems like he is just wasting ur time, do u really want to live in fear that he is gonna do it again?
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Why is everybody hating me??? What can I do about this?
Q. i have a problem, for some reason everyone i know is hating me, but i don't know why and what i did to them ??...
A. 11 July 2006: ask someone that you used to be close to the reason why, someone you think you can trust
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She's moved abroad and now says I'd be better off without her... How do I convince her otherwise!?
Q. My girlfriend moved home to another country a few months back and obviously we haven't seen as much of each other. Recently things have gotten really bad for her. I wont go into details but suffice to say her life is falling appart. Today she said ...
A. 11 July 2006: maybe you could send her a hand written letter saying how much you love her and want her in your life, tell her all the reasons why you love her and why you should stay together, this should make her see that it is worth it and that she does have ... (read in full...)
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