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writes:Im in my first relationship and My boyfriend works away a lot For periods of time that can range from 7 days to 6 weeks I have very strong feelings for him but as this is all new to me I want him around all the time I am worried of pushing him away with my neediest for him He likes his own space Im just not sure what to do with all of the feelings of lonlness and im sad all the time I just want to be me again
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 September 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionbumble bee That is totally the same as me Army man He is not the type to talk on the phone and does not have msn When we do talk on the phone everything jumbles and I never get my point accross We send messages by text but im finding it hard Having always had my family around me (I still live at home)I am finding it hard having someone I feel so strong for not with me I totally understand that I should live life for myself but just dont seem to be able to at the moment
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reader, amit_t +, writes (13 September 2006):
does he know how strongly you feel for him (you said that it was all new for you so i m assuming he does not know where you are in this relationship) in that case he needs to, and if he does has he told you what he feels about this relationship. and if you havent got a chance to talk abt this yet.
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reader, confussed jane +, writes (13 September 2006):
why does he go away my and my boyfriend are long distance we always on phone talkin when can or texting or msn.
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reader, bumble bee +, writes (13 September 2006):
hey huni, i kinda know how you feel, my bf is n the army and is away all the time. he is just starting out and the longest he has been away is 7weeks. but i could have 6months on my own to look forward to if he gets posted to iraq or afganistan. i know its really difficult but you cant live your life like this.
when my bf goes away i allow myself one or 2days to be upset and comfort myself but uve just gotta learn to have your own life when he is not around, live your life for yourself not for him.
HTH xXx
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