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Do you think I am awkward?

Q.   I have a problem most of the days people don't tell me I am awkward but I have the feeling I am. What do you think?? I am 14 years old and I always laugh at anything even though it isn't funny and people just look at me like I need medication ...

A.   11 January 2009: Sweetie its GREAT to be different. My old teacher would always say "Weird is normal and Normal is weird". You weren't put on earth to please anybody but yourself. So who cares what they think besides your only 14! The world is full of people who are ... (read in full...)

Why are white people more promiscuous? Don't mean to offend!

Q.   Hello everyone, I am about to ask a question and its going to sound really awkward and I honestly don't mean to offend anyone i'm just curious.... I am african american and lately I've been noticing that white people are different then black pe...

A.   11 January 2009: I understand this isn't meant to be racist but I think it depends what city the girls are from. Where I live its more of the african american girls who are the promiscuous ones having more than 1 father for each child not meant to be offensive. But ... (read in full...)

Frenulum breve, should I have sex?

Q.   Hi, I am uncircumcised and i have a frenulum breve, when i am erected it doesn't let me pull my foreskin behind the head because it hurts. When i am not erected i can retract the foreskin alot. I am not sure what will happen if i will have sex be...

A.   11 January 2009: My boyfriend had the same thing with him. He told me when we first had sex it stung. But it healed over time. Depending on who you are it might hurt but at the same time you might not notice it at all. There are two things you can do in this sit... (read in full...)

Am I too young to have sex?

Q.   I have a dilemma. I have a boyfriend for the first time and I really like him. I'm pretty crazy about him actually. I'm a junior in high school and I'm pretty new to the whole boyfriend thing. However, he has asked if I want to have sex and I don't ...

A.   11 January 2009: If your having doubts think it over until you know what you really want. You should tell him how you feel about the whole situation if he doesn't agree with you than you should leave him any guy who doesn't respect your beliefs isn't the kind o... (read in full...)

1st time sex no blood--he doesn't really believe I was a virgin

Q.   When I had sex for the first time I never bled? I don't understand why. I masturbated a few times but like I just used to like rub my clit and stuff. I never put my hands inside my vagina. Before sex, my fiance used to finger me sometimes but I ...

A.   11 January 2009: Not everybody bleeds during their first time, lots of things like physical activities or tampons can damage the hymen before your first time causing you not to bleed. I read somewhere also that some women are not born with a hymen at all. So it ... (read in full...)

How do I get my friend to listen to me and leave her boyfriend??

Q.   Hey guys! Heres my problem I have a very good friend who shall remain nameless which is 15. Every time I see her we always talk about her boyfriend which makes me mad. Because She says "Oh my boyfriend chose his friends over me" or "He lied to me h...

A.   10 January 2009: thanks you guys are right hopefully it works ... (read in full...)

I played hard to get and now I think its too late

Q.   I met this boy at a party and we talked for almost the whole night and he seemed he liked me and I know I did. I had heard of him since he was this really popular girl’s ex but I never see him at school because the popular people have their ...

A.   8 January 2009: haha sweetie I doubt that he moved on its only been two weeks! I think he knows that you're playing hard to get and most young teenage boys are very determined to go after a girl they want. Just be patient. Maybe you should send him an e-mail a... (read in full...)

Can this really work? Will he wait for me?

Q.   I need help! I really like this guy who's out of college, but I won't have time for a relationship until I'm out. How can I let him know I'm interested so he'll wait for me until I'm out?...

A.   19 December 2008: I agree. The odds don't seem to be on your side. If you talk to him and work something out, depending if he is willing to commit to a compromise with you than it can work. Just maybe... (read in full...)

Help talking...

Q.   Do you have any tricks for talking to guys? I always feel insecure, like every guy I talk to is going to automatically assume that I like him. It's even worse talking to guys who I actually do like! Please help!...

A.   19 December 2008: first and foremost its ok to be nervous speak slowly. but not to slowly have confidence in yourself! just know that everything will be fine. find something that you and the guy who you are talking to have something in common. be yourself... (read in full...)

Peek-a-boo!

Q.   If a woman I like looks at me when I'm not looking at her and then when I turn to her she looks away, as though to hide it, what does that mean?...

A.   19 December 2008: well it depends you have to be more sepcific on how she stares at you sometimes it could be about your appearance OR it could be the fact that she likes you ... (read in full...)

I know he's shy, do you think I should call him?

Q.   Hello everyone, well I've known this guy for about a year and even though we like each other and have great chemistry we're just friends. A week ago his friend sent me a message on facebook telling me he was wondering why haven't I called him yet, ...

A.   18 December 2008: take a chance and call him his obviously hinting that you should... (read in full...)

Will he leave me for his models?

Q.   I NEED HELP! I have a wonderful boyfriend who I have been dating for 4 wonderful years. He is very artistic and loves to do artwork on my body. Recently he got a job to work for Bubble Magazine. He can't use the same model over and over because ...

A.   18 December 2008: thanks guys this helps me a lot ;] ... (read in full...)

Are ladies turned off by heavy guys?

Q.   Im over weight, How much does that turn ladies off?...

A.   17 December 2008: It all depends on the girl you want. To me I think its all good as long as he loves me right.... (read in full...)

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