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female
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30-35,
*itty_3
writes:Do you have any tricks for talking to guys? I always feel insecure, like every guy I talk to is going to automatically assume that I like him. It's even worse talking to guys who I actually do like! Please help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2008): Girl! you have a great sense of humor.Ha Ha.Too good.
A smile starts from the eyes.Think your smile brightens up someone's day.
That guy may be having a really rotten day.His boss may have yelled at him.He may be behind his deadline on a project.
He suddenly sees you.He may be having a secret crush in you for months.He smiles at you.You would want to brighten up his day.wouldn't you?Smile back thinking of that with all your might.It shouldn't look like a toothpaste ad.
watch his face brighten.Hope this helped!!
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reader, kitty_3 +, writes (19 December 2008):
kitty_3 is verified as being by the original poster of the question i feel like when i smile at someone i like i'm so nervous that it looks screwed up... like i'm constipated or something! hahaha... any tips?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2008): Be a good listener first.
When he smiles at you,smile back.When he says Hi say Hi.
He will definitely start talking about something.Listen.Make the appropriate Hmmm noises.when you start listening sincerely,you will definitely find some place to pitch in.
All the Best!!
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reader, bookiebabyyy +, writes (19 December 2008):
first and foremost
its ok to be nervous
speak slowly. but not to slowly
have confidence in yourself! just know that everything will be fine.
find something that you and the guy who you are talking to have something in common.
be yourself!
if you have a little nausea just breath in and out slowly
its fine everybody gets nervous when trying to spark a
conversation with the opposite sex.
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