Sister came on to me...drunk. What should I say to her?
Q. She'd been to a party and came home really drunk and she grabbed me and started kissing me. She then said I was her baby brother and that she should show me how to fun with a girl. She then tried to pull my shirt off and I had to wrestle with her to ...
A. 19 March 2010: This is just a suggestion. You might also consider getting professional psychological counselling with your sister from a family therapist. I entered counselling with my family when I was about your age and although it was very challenging it ... (read in full...)
Husband walks out while we are on vacation. Should I put the effort in to stay with him?
Q. Hi, I am a 32 y/o woman who has been in a relationship for the past 6 years and I am totally confused as to whether I should leave my fiance or or not. I really need some help with this. My fiance can be quite controlling and aggresive toward...
A. 19 March 2010: Allie,
There's no indication in your statement that you love him, or that you want to be with him - or that he loves you. Maybe you didn't think that issue was germaine, but it seems like there would be some mention of it if either of you real... (read in full...)
He never told me he wanted to be just friends! What do I do?
Q. Hello, Please help I had a relationship with a man for 1 month and 2 weeks .He told me that he is looking to settle down with a woman and that iam what he is looking for. So he always tells me to send him e-mails or call him .One day we went out ...
A. 6 February 2010: Dear, I regret to inform you that a lot of men I talk to are willing to say anything to women in order to have a quick sexual relationship. I regret to inform you that many men have male friends who will assist them in order to decieve women in... (read in full...)
Pregnant at seventeen and need advice on how to get my boyfriend to treat me better!
Q. hi my name is chantelle and i'm 17 years old and pregnant. i need help and advice because i cant go through this alone, and my boyfriend is making things worse. my question is, what kind of talk can i have with my boyfriend to make him smarten up ...
A. 30 January 2010: Dear Chantelle, Congratulations on your new little baby. You are now making decisions for 2 people - yourself and your little baby. Girl often make the mistake of thinking that they can change their boyfriend. But no, you can't. He is the way ... (read in full...)
I'm confused! Am I gay?
Q. Am i gay? I'm 19 and was with my boyfriend for 2 years. I have always looked at girls and been able to openly say 'oh they are hot', and i've kissed girls drunkenly at parties but nothing more. I have fantasized about having sex with a girl and thin...
A. 30 January 2010: Dear Confused, Please don't be alarmed. Confusion is ok and normal. It's ok to have sexual thoughts about either sex, among other things. But thinking about something doesn't make a label appropriate. You might think about studying rocket s... (read in full...)
Should I speak to my mother again? I really need help!
Q. my "mother" is a terrible person. She makes me feel worthless everyday. I try talking to her and all she does is make me feel like I'm not worth anything. I am a college student and I am having difficulty adjusting with all the stress in my life. In ...
A. 28 December 2009: I concur with your boyfriend to the extent that you should stay in contact with your mother on a regular basis. Here's why. Throughout the course of your life your friends and other associates will come and go, but your mother will always be there ... (read in full...)
I'm not sexually attracted to my boyfriend, and I like the new guy, or is it just a crush?
Q. I have been together with my boyfriend for just over a year now. Its been great - we've never argued, had any problems and we've got on really well. There's just a few personal issues I have. Firstly, we haven't yet had sex. In fact, we haven't ...
A. 27 December 2009: I suggest you take some time and ask yourself what you want. Whatever it is, tell your friend and then make a decision. If you want to have sex with the stud then say so, tell your friend. He deserves to know what kind of a woman you are, and you ... (read in full...)
Trapped! How do I get out of this rut?
Q. I get that there are people worse off than me... but it just breaks my heart that i have hopes, dreams, and talents that are going to waste and my life is passing me by because I don´t have the money to fulfill my hopes and dreams. This sounds li...
A. 27 December 2009: Good question! You inspire me! I infer that you feel disappointed because you don't think you've achieved enough. It appears that lack of enough money is the primary basis for your complaint, although failure to possess a horse and a private ... (read in full...)
How can my boyfriend not understand we need to go slow when it comes to losing our virginity?
Q. My boyfriend of a little over a month just tried having sex with me last night. We had not done anything other than making out so at first I thought he was going to finger me but then he unbuttoned his pants. I asked him what we were doing and he ...
A. 24 December 2009: Dear Ms Female 16-17, You did the right thing. It's normal and good for you to feel concerned and reject his approach. I strongly encourage you to protect that little virginity of yours as long as possible. Don't sell out like a slut. Don't gi... (read in full...)
Should I report my manager for coming on to me?
Q. To get started, I'm 17 and my manager at work (who's a 30 year old loser, by the way) has been pushing himself on me. Saying crap like, "I love you!" or "Are you willing to date me?" Does he honestly think I'm that stupid? I find it amusing because ...
A. 24 December 2009: Dear Ms. Female 17, I strongly encourage you to contact an "employment attorney" the immediate area of your work and/or home residence. You should be able to get a 1 hour free counsultation. You may very likely be entitled to a large cash award an... (read in full...)
I think I made a mistake by breaking up with her, what should I do?
Q. Agony readers, I need the best advice here. I found a girl I truly and honestly love, we dated for roughly a year and a half... I lost my virginity to her... I felt I couldn't trust her so I broke up with her. My parents absolutely hate her, eve...
A. 22 December 2009: You may be "pussy-whipped", but fear not! You'll get over that when the next furry muff comes along. Your message implies that your social network is not in favor of the relaitonship you have/had. Based on the fact that you mention the social ... (read in full...)
He has pain during intercourse
Q. hi how do i make feel better my b/f while having intercourse should he in top of me or i should be in top him. i would like to ask that i noticed his balls turn into pinkish blue color does he have any disease. asked him about that but he tells the...
A. 21 December 2009: You bf may be wrong or he may be lying. Maybe there is a problem and maybe he does not want to tell you. You should insist on an opinion from a medical doctor.
Healthy skin is peach-pink. Healthy intercourse does not have pain.
You should g... (read in full...)
I'm worried I will lose my boyfriend after my drunken flirting with another man!
Q. my boyfriend (not real names) Lenny has a best friend named kate. kate has a brother- Nico who came for a visit in the country. we all arranged to go out with 2 other friends as well on friday night. however Lenny did not show up. they played so...
A. 21 December 2009: If you care about Lenny then I believe you should tell him - to the best of your recollection - before Kate or someone else does. At least that way when Kate does tell him Lenny will have had some time to consider the issue.
As for your deci... (read in full...)
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